Like A Needle In My Eye, Annoyed By A Gemini.

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Dreamy-Eyez
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Hello Everyone,
It's me, Dreamy-eyez. You know, yesterday i'd reached my boiling point with my Gemini sister. She is just sabotaging the relationship between my mother, herself, and I. When my mother is at work, she acts like she's my friend, but as soon as my mom is home? She becomes so infuriatingly chatty by saying things that provokes anger. She would make it seem like it's a competition for my mother's attention, when really I just want to be lefted alone in peace and quiet. She would ask my mom, "So, whose side are you on this time?". Not only that, when ever I'm talking to my mother about something, she just start dishing out rude, dis-respectful comments at me, but yesterday I'd stopped her in her tracks and she frozed because for a while I let her slide with it for a while. But now, I've really had it with her flippy hot/cold personality. (Either you be cool or get the hell out of my way and don't waste my time!)She has been making up bulls**t excuse about being mad at my mother or mad about something else, but you know what? I didn't buy it at all. I've confronted her about that twice and she denied it, but surely a few days later she took her anger out on me again. You know, I don't get it. I hardly ever approach her because she's so moody and has anger issues. Sometimes I feel like she's competing with me, but I'm not competing with her. Does anyone have any clue to what's her deal?
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Melusine
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"Does anyone have any clue to what's her deal?"

Have to admit...no idea whatsoever...seems like sibling rivalry to me.

In my experience geminis like to tease a lot,they'd say things or do things just to get a reaction out of you.It's mostly harmless though...I guess they require a lot of mental activity and use people around them as toys when they can find nothing else to amuse them.They think it's funny...but sometimes they tend to get on your nerve with all the fun and mind games...

My advice to you would be not to give in to her...don't show any reaction to her antics...then she'll try and get bored...that's all I can think of right now...
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Dreamy-Eyez
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Hello Everyone,
My Aquarian mother has finally seen the light and sees how it's my Gemini sister who seems to immaturely pick fights with me with this rivalry that rose from the vindictive, envious, jealousy that she has. All of that seems to come out as each day passes by. I rarely speak to her because I like having my own space, yet when she comes around me, she brings trouble everytime. We were all sitting together in the living room, but my sister kept on chattering and dishing out these manipulative, sharp comments at me. I don't know why she's verbally attacking me, so I ignored her and I guess she took that as me be afraid. Boy, was she in for a surprise. My sister verbally provoked me for too long and even though it hurted me more than it did her. . . I slapped my two-faced, vindictive Gemini sister and then said to her, "You want it, you got it!" My mother? She didn't do anything because she saw how my sister was just begging for it. I'm not feeling bad like as if I lost her, because quite frankly, she was already gone. I just never had any idea that her envy of me was so deeply rooted and all of that negativity oozed out and was directed at me. I never done anything to that girl. Whenever she needed me, I was there. When she needed money, on a payday I gave her an allowance. Where ever she wanted to go, I took her. H*ll, I even tried to find her biological father for her and took care of her when she was sick. I never asked for anything in return except for appreciation and respect, but all I got in return was HATE. I guess just like what Mr. Crabby told me in one of my other posts, I'm going to have to focus on me and not worry about how others treat me. I just think that it's a shame of how your own blood can be so cruel.