As a Pisces I don't have to wait a hundred years like a Cancer or a Virgo to figure out if I love you, I usually know very soon when I have strong love feelings for someone.
I really wish you would stop with the digs on my sign at every opportunity. We too know if we love a person very soon after meeting...We just must decide whether that person deserves OUR love. Its called discernment and cannot be achieved overnight. We cannot just "swim away" when we love a person. Even if they hurt us...if we love a person, they are ALWAYS in our hearts. SO we are careful...
As far as the question of sympathy...well, maybe I didn't word it right. I just want to know if when my childrens father says he loves me it is because he really does and not because of our children or whatever. And if he does indeed love me but doesn't want to be with me...I just would rather him tell me, but he has already told me he tells people what they want to hear sometime. Let's face it, that's ultimately what I want to hear, but I don't want to keep holding on if there is nothing to hold on to. Ya know?
Usually the only way to tell the diffrence is by having a STRONG intuition to be able to separate sincerity from patronage. I know cancers and scorpios are good at this....so telling us what we want to hear will generally be seen through (although completely excused in some cases even though we know what you are doing!)
Iain't faking shit the rest of my life If I don't love you I don;t have to tell you unless you ask me. Don't ask don't tell (hey thanks Bill)I think love should be allowed to germinate(now there's a word)I don't believe you fall in love at first sight, you fall in like,you fall in affection,you fall in lust, you fall in you've got beautiful toes lemme kiss em, but you don;t fall in love right away love has to germinate!
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sorry for that kinda unmannered arrival, erm kinda think that since noone welcomed me, seems I made a mistake :( but, hey we all make mistakes :).. erm could I try to try to start anew, oh could I— puh-leeeeze *puppy eyes*
Hellooo I am probably going to regret posting on here considering I dont believe in anything and while i am on my death bed I will remember how retarted I was for going on a site when theres nothing to believe in really.
And if you tell people what they want to hear in order to spare their feelings...how does one know if the words are real or just sympathy?