Male Egos

Tell me is it inappropriate for a woman to be the one who pops out money most of the time for entertaiment? (which i don't mind especially when i care about u and i do it because i am me not to prove something)

My dilemma is that, i had this Capricorn man in my life for about 4 months and in those months he was having some financial problems. So being the person that i am i thought how about we go out sometimes to take his mind off his problems and mind you i was'nt spending a lot only what i could afford.

I thought we were fine 'cause he did not complain or refuse to go. Anyways to cut a long story short he started acting funny and stopped calling me. It's been a month since i heard from him and the last i communicated with him was me sending him an sms of which he did not respond to.

By the way i did confront him about his behaviour and he said we will talk......up until today mind you..........


What is your take on this

He could be thinking it's not fair for you to be footing the bill all the time.Although I've never been more than just friends with capricorns I do get to see how they are with thier gf's and wives and they do like to be the caretaker.I wouldn't be that concerned about it if thats the case,or the other possibilty is he may be feeling smothered.

It's not you its him

Thanx for your comments.

So Tiamat, i have been bruising the poor man's ego all this time?? Aaagh shame man, he could have just said so instead of cowaring(sp)away.......

As for smothering him, I would NEVER do that to a man it's irritating even for a woman..............(u will see in my posting i said "we go out sometimes" not always, about once/twice a month.

For sure yungbrtha!!!!!! My thoughts axactly......

Yes,I read that clearly.Either way though,if your to look around even here and on the capricorn board it's usually those reasons.They do that when the person thier involved with makes themselves overly available.Besides noones perfect and completely innocent anyway so no I not going to say that that it's just you or just him,when it doesn't include infidelity,physical abuse,control,criticising or lying.You wanted a take on it you got it.

And no need to get offended its just honesty.All you gave was he's a capricorn and he all of a sudden stopped talking to you,it's not uncommon based on just those star signs.Someone(a pisces)has a help list to understand capricorn men on the cappy board.

Oh deary me did i sound offended? that was not my intention. Thanks for your honesty. I really appreciated your take on this.

I was never overly available and if taking your boyfriend out once/twice a month is wrong then yes i too am guilty of his dissapearance.

As for understanding someone who does not communicate what he likes/dislikes in a relationship instead opts for cowaring away/dissapearing! no thank you it is worth it, Capricorn or otherwise. I mean how should you know what makes the person tick if they don't tell u!

Thanks again Tiamat for your opinion it was very enlightining.

There i go again...i meant "no thank you it is NOT worth it"