What do men find romantic?

Men never say what they find romantic. So what is romantic for a guy? Do guys like romance? Or is it just a means to an end? Again just curious.

Thanks Brahn's evil twin for the sincere and thoughtful answer. I find it so difficult to know what men want in the romance department. As a pisces the little things tug at my heart strings. I am glad to know there are men out there who feel the same.

branh0913,

I swear this morning I was going to post a topic entitled "Are all Virgo's Tightwad's?"... I'm not implying you are, but your above post... well, it just reminded me of this :-) I do most of the spending in my pisces/virgo relationship. He is definately much more "frugal" than I am... and my female virgo friend is most definately a TIGHTWAD- She will skip the "supreme" on a taco supreme because it's a few cents more, even though she would prefer it that way- and she is not hard up for cash... I feel like you only live once- get the sourcream!

What do you think about tightwaddery? C'mon now- inquiring pisces mind wants to know...

I might add that both of these virgo's have fine taste- IF it will last 10 years, OR if someone else is paying !!

Is this for a new romance or older?Just to get an idea of what your shooting for in the suggestion department.

Okay,older relationships are some of the things bran mention just hugging them once in a while for no reason gets to them romanticly,spicing things up with say a scavenger hunt to give them a gift is good to keep him from getting bored and showing you care.I wouldn't say that candlelight dinners or anything extravegant works because when thier in love just knowing that thier needed,appreciated and loved back is the most important thing to alot of guys.It's always been dating ang flings,some of which we find were better as just friends quickly,or the long haul very quickly relations that i've had.Got kicked out when I was 17 and at first was a roomate situation with the first and so far only long term relationship.Besides that some of the daters I've been with has been like that too occational touchy feely speaks louder then just saying i love you to them too,but thier usually don't think of it until it happens or the point that they feel neglected.

Tiamat

Not for any relationship. Just curious about you men. I am trying to go into my next relationship with more knowledge and understanding. Everywhere you see and hear about what a woman wants in the romance department. But never the men's wants and needs. Thank you for your wonderful response!

Brahn

My ex(Capricorn) and I had an unspoken rule. Every 4th date I would pay. Mostly because I didn't make the money he did or I would have treated more often like every other time. It was good for our relationship and for my self-esteem. My parents, who are still madly in love, split everything down the middle. They say it creates such a balance in their relationship. They are both Capricorns so maybe that is why it worked so well for them. Who knows?

Man are there alot of Capricorns in my life! God help the stray sign that wanders into my life. Giggling!