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let me start by saying that i am the greatest and best pisces ever. in fact, i am so hard that god likes me better than jesus.
that said, allow me to offer my insight in response to your message.
pisces are sort of...singleminded. we focus-in on one thing, and then blast it with the full extent of our energies. be it work, love, a project, a conversation, whatever. we view the world through a sniper's scope, and although we can multi-task like everyone else, we tend to see one thing as most important at any given time. therefore, that one thing gets the full force of our attention.
it would seem to me that much of your pisces' focus has shifted, from writing to you, to taking care of whatever else he must. this shift can indicate that he is losing interest, that he has found something even more interesting than you, or that he really is just swamped and doesn't have the time right now.
however, you are obviously surprised and a little hurt by the change, so i would venture to guess that something else, perhaps a combination of things, is replacing the space you occupied in his thoughts.
do not take insult from this fact. don't worry too much about how important you are to him, because if he's willing to let you feel neglected, he must not feel the same way about you, as you do about him.
if you agree with this, but you still want his attention, you have to squeeze his testicles. and by squeeze, i mean crush them. -don't send him any emails. hold out. throw him the cold shoulder. don't try to keep him in contact with you...caught in your fishing net, as it were. he will either abandon you, or return to you. it doesn't matter which, because in the end, that god-damn fish is going to swim wherever he wants.
-ichthyo
that said, allow me to offer my insight in response to your message.
pisces are sort of...singleminded. we focus-in on one thing, and then blast it with the full extent of our energies. be it work, love, a project, a conversation, whatever. we view the world through a sniper's scope, and although we can multi-task like everyone else, we tend to see one thing as most important at any given time. therefore, that one thing gets the full force of our attention.
it would seem to me that much of your pisces' focus has shifted, from writing to you, to taking care of whatever else he must. this shift can indicate that he is losing interest, that he has found something even more interesting than you, or that he really is just swamped and doesn't have the time right now.
however, you are obviously surprised and a little hurt by the change, so i would venture to guess that something else, perhaps a combination of things, is replacing the space you occupied in his thoughts.
do not take insult from this fact. don't worry too much about how important you are to him, because if he's willing to let you feel neglected, he must not feel the same way about you, as you do about him.
if you agree with this, but you still want his attention, you have to squeeze his testicles. and by squeeze, i mean crush them. -don't send him any emails. hold out. throw him the cold shoulder. don't try to keep him in contact with you...caught in your fishing net, as it were. he will either abandon you, or return to you. it doesn't matter which, because in the end, that god-damn fish is going to swim wherever he wants.
-ichthyo
Amen.. Well said Ich! I'm a Cap and had similar misfortune. Mr Fish just totally ignores me now. Ah well, c'est la vie. It hurt for a little, but my philosophy is: 'This too shall pass'.. And guess what.. it does!! Now, I'm in search of my compatible Bull..haha!
now that is truly unfortunate.
a capricorn abandoning the pisces horde completely? it's enough to bring neptune himself to tears.
don't give up on us just yet, whoever you are, because there are a few of us with nothing less than the power of sata- er, i mean the power of god within our hearts.
and by a few of us, i mean me. i am the second coming of jesus incarnate, i have only to reveal myself to mankind once given a sign by the great almighty. and if i keep talking like this, i'm quite certain some jesus-freak is going to hunt me down in real life and smite my eyes with a spork from KFC.
-ichthyo
a capricorn abandoning the pisces horde completely? it's enough to bring neptune himself to tears.
don't give up on us just yet, whoever you are, because there are a few of us with nothing less than the power of sata- er, i mean the power of god within our hearts.
and by a few of us, i mean me. i am the second coming of jesus incarnate, i have only to reveal myself to mankind once given a sign by the great almighty. and if i keep talking like this, i'm quite certain some jesus-freak is going to hunt me down in real life and smite my eyes with a spork from KFC.
-ichthyo
Pisces are very loyal. He probably has feelings for you and that scares him. Ask him if that is his problem, and tell him if so you will leave him alone. Then do so. Maybe it's just his concience that's bothering him....or it could be that he really is busy!
Ichthyo- that last post sounds a little too familar? Dig it? Almost gives me hope. I need to read your note from yesterday again. ~Thea
Hmmm, it seems that the opinions about Pisces guys are not unanimous....That makes it hard to choose guys! But I do think he's one of those loyal ones, I haven't lost faith in him!
And guess what: he suddenly popped up again, as cheerful as ever! He's bought a house so maybe he's got more time and more room in his head now. I don't think it's a bad thing to completely focus on one thing at a time, because I do that as well. But in the mean time I always try to keep in touch with my friends...
But I will keep some distance this time, he needs to prove himself first. If I don't hear from him again for 2 two weeks then I have my answer...
And guess what: he suddenly popped up again, as cheerful as ever! He's bought a house so maybe he's got more time and more room in his head now. I don't think it's a bad thing to completely focus on one thing at a time, because I do that as well. But in the mean time I always try to keep in touch with my friends...
But I will keep some distance this time, he needs to prove himself first. If I don't hear from him again for 2 two weeks then I have my answer...
I've read some old messages about Pisces people, I hope I'm one of those lucky girls who's met one of those faithful Pisces friends!
Um.. Icth? I'm a "Jesus freak", but I certainly wouldn't hunt you down and do bad things to you. I'd hug you really good instead!
Oh Ichthyo - Oh Ichthyo... look what you did... you have another fan.... should I be jealous—🙂
~Thea
~Thea
hot damn!
i don't know what i did to warrant a hug from a thrall of god, but i guess that's how it works in heaven. bring that untainted body of yours over here and wrap it all about my exterior. i'll be the centipede, you'll be the moth.
in the realm of inferno, we don't "hug" exactly. we're more into exchanging affection with flaming tridents and awful pelvic thrusts, so this is a nice change of pace.
-ichthyo
i don't know what i did to warrant a hug from a thrall of god, but i guess that's how it works in heaven. bring that untainted body of yours over here and wrap it all about my exterior. i'll be the centipede, you'll be the moth.
in the realm of inferno, we don't "hug" exactly. we're more into exchanging affection with flaming tridents and awful pelvic thrusts, so this is a nice change of pace.
-ichthyo
hey you smelly fish, what's swimmin' your way!?
Let's chat about some things that bothers you guys, this intuitive fish can help anyone solve their problems...
Let's chat about some things that bothers you guys, this intuitive fish can help anyone solve their problems...
Maybe you can help me sort out my Fish....
Nowadays he doesn't have a lot of time to write due to other commitments. But being a Cap my thoughts start turning and turning, I can only think of negative things. But the more I write to him, trying to explain my thoughts, the more complicated I make things! When I write about myself he doesn't answer, but when I write funny things he answers immediately! Am I doing the wrong thing, should I keep things lighthearted? Am I writing too much? It's all part of my own insecurity I know...
So can anyone help me get out of this communication barrier, or should I do the opposite and leave him alone? I'm just scared that I will lose him to someone else if I back off...
Nowadays he doesn't have a lot of time to write due to other commitments. But being a Cap my thoughts start turning and turning, I can only think of negative things. But the more I write to him, trying to explain my thoughts, the more complicated I make things! When I write about myself he doesn't answer, but when I write funny things he answers immediately! Am I doing the wrong thing, should I keep things lighthearted? Am I writing too much? It's all part of my own insecurity I know...
So can anyone help me get out of this communication barrier, or should I do the opposite and leave him alone? I'm just scared that I will lose him to someone else if I back off...
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