Pisces and Sagittariaus - Can there be any chemist

I like a Pisces girl who is really very sweet. She is a typical Piscesian with her mysterious nature and gentle manners. Most of the time, she is a lovely dolphan but sometimes she can be a shark -a sweet one though LOL. See... even they argue, piscesians maintain that gentle side... comparatively.

Now, I am at crossroads and am very depressed. I think she likes me to some extent as she laughs on my jokes or teases and is opening up somewhat. However, I also follow astronomy and everywhere I go, I find there is no chance for a water and fire sign. Also, Sagis. are labelled as flirts and womanizers which I am definitely NOT. Only some Indian sites who assign Jupiter to Pisces give some ray of hope.

See... I have a lot of female relatives who are of water signs primarily Cancers and I get along with them quite well. On the other hand, I found 'fellow fire sign females' as buddies; I get along with them quite well too but I don't feel romantically towards them.

As I consider myself as quite masculine (having quite high Logical and Thinking side based on Myers-Briggs), I naturally get attracted towards girls that are ultra feminine.

Can there be any chemistry between two of us? It is said Piscesians are very intuitive. Will she be able to feel that I am sincere towards her and not just flirting?

Please help.

These aren't my words- but definitely good words for the wise:

" No astrological connection between two people is so inherently dreadful that enough patience, love and determination cannot only make it last, but make it something precious to both of them. At the same time, there is no kind of astrological connection so wonderful that enough selfishness, confusion about sex, or plain immaturity cannot turn it into a nightmare."


With that being said, Of course there can be chemistry between the two of you. It will be your differences that will keep the relationship interesting.

I have a female friend Sag. who is marrying a Cancer- and the two work together like a well oiled machine. This is not necessarily indicative of how things will be between you and Ms. Pisces- however, a successful fire sign/water sign connection is definite possible.

Furthermore, put Zodiacs ASIDE! Outside of getting to know this girl (the Pisces), you should get to know her as the individual. Whether or not she thinks you are genuine depends on how you decide to court her.

Also- hello and welcome to the boards 🙂

Thanks for welcoming me. And, may I ask if you are also a Pisces (gal/guy)?

(between how can I use smileys here?)

And you are right... when I first met her I didn't know she is Pisces and in fact didn't pay any attention till she asked my sign.

She is now out of town and I have not contacted her for sometime. I thought I need to give her some space. But, now I think she may be thinking that I am ignoring her (like regular Sagittariaus who are in and out!).

So, what is the best approach with a Piscesian girl? remain in contact with her to make believe you are interested in her or give some break in between to give her that "space".

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hmmmm.... the smiley characters work here good!

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I'm an Aries female. I wouldn't know the first thing about courting a Pisces female.

Sorry 😢

However, if you search this forum, there a plenty of Piscean females offering their feelings about dating- what they want- and such.

I'd start with this particular posting:
Cute Personality Profile for Pisces

Or just wait awhile. The boards are bit empty right now- but maybe one of the nice Piscean ladies will help you 🙂

Awww..don't be depressed. I'm a Pisces female, so I'll see if I can help you out here. First of all, any two people can make a relationship work if they both really work at it. Additionally, even if you base probability on astrology, you have to remember that the Sun sign is only part of a person's astrological chart. You may have many other planets in signs that are more compatible with hers than your sun sign. In fact, if you find you get along well with water signs, I wouldn't be surprised to find that you're rising sign is water, or you have a predominant water influence in the rest of your chart.

As far as Sag/Pisces goes, I have several relatives that are Sags as well as several friends. I get along with them very well. Many of them are wonderfully creative and outgoing, which I am as well, so we get along famously. On the flip side, I have met a few Sags that I did not get along with at all..but I think this had more to do with how they were raised and the kind of people they were in general rather than their sun sign.

Will she be able to sense how you feel? Yes, but even if she does, she will probably not make the first move. Pisces women don't generally like to be the pursuer..we like to be pursued. 😉 If you are not yet comfortable sharing your feelings with her, just give it some time and see how things unfold. You will know when it is the right moment.

First kudos to seizeTheDay... >😄

You're very welcome. Good luck, and keep us updated. 🙂

I am not 100% sure about my time of birth. I can recall two times but interestingly both of them gave me either Pisces or Scorpio Ascendant.

hmmm...Its interesting.

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Depressed Sagittarius,
How are you? You sound like a good Sagittarian. I've met quite a handful, some weren't so cool because of their tempers. Anyway, I want to say this: Don't let astrology dis-encourage you from pursuing your Piscean girl. Sun sign compatibility doesn't really determine whether if it's a great match or not. I'm sure you are aware of that. If you have the element of water or earth in you chart, or if she has the elements of air and fire in hers. . . I think you two will hit it off great. Good luck.

2ndDecanfish

"I read somewhere that a moment comes a girl's heart opens up for a man. Its the moment of tenderness that a man can capture her heart. If it passes then the girl will become indfferent to a man's feelings. For piscesians, its not tenderness that is in question, its their elusive nature."

I want comment on that part. I dont really understand what you mean with these words. You want to say that women' heart is something like a fish in the ocean and you have to wait your turn when it randomly or by chance will return the attention? I think that part cant be an excuse. People arent toys and you cant take them seriousless. If someone is interested in you, you should either let it go and let it come. Or at leat tell something to clear the situation. Tell at least about course of action. I mean, why should I stay with a girl who doesnt have any feelings for me? Isn't that is just waste of time? This kind of action caused from someone is simple sign of immaturity. I disagree with that part.