Pisces & Cancer

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This combination is a shared relationship of feeling, sympathy, understanding and emotional rapport. Both are sensitive, intuitive and receptive souls, as well as being easily influenced by the surrounding environment and each other. Both are artistic and creative individuals who share an appreciation for art, music and most other forms of cultural pursuits. In fact, this could be one of the best of all Zodiac combinations, with both being willing to compromise and sympathize. However, the great danger here is that there is so much similarity that it is difficult to establish the differences. Since Cancer and Pisces flow into each other so easily, there are no apparent boundaries. Thus, there is a tendency for one to absorb the traits of the other, thereby becoming united and a mirror image of each other. This is a somewhat complacent combination with a tendency for all energy to be absorbed inwardly, leaving little for anything outside of the relationship. Nevertheless, there are certain minor differences. Cancer is clannish, whereas Pisces is more universal in nature...Cancer is satisfied with close family ties or the immediate circle, whereas Pisces loves to mix with all types of people...Cancer is cautious of strangers, whereas to the Pisces mind, there are no strangers...Cancer will never forget a birthday, anniversary or other special occasion, whereas Pisces is more akin to the "absent-minded professor" who never remembers anything.

In short, the Cancer/Pisces mix is a safe and compatible relationship with no adventure and even less in the way of surprises. Aside from any romantic venture, this pairing has great potential for a lifelong friendship since Pisces is always willing to listen and Cancer will always be caring.

Oh..give me a brake.

Well haffo, exactly where would you like it....on your car....in your egg......the ocean waves, you could be more specific 🙂

I actually just made friends with a fish that was in need of some help, and while I sometimes have flashes of fear that she is going to take over my life and is sucking too much energy from me, we do seem to understand each other very well and once I slap myself silly that I need to just relax and trust, I find it amusng how much alike we are.....

Really haffo, what is it that cause you to make the comment? Just curious...

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" Really haffo, what is it that cause you to make the comment? Just curious..."

Hello again Stardance.

First of all, let me clear something for you before I go to explanations. I don't think birthdate is enough information to tell you what kind of personality you do have. Therefore, taking my comments personally just because of your birthdate would be wrong. I do know that astrological personalities are personalities of true people that live with us in the world, but they don't exactly have to be born under the related sign of their existence.

Now, since we talking about Cancer and Pisces, I think this combination is not good at all. Cancer and Pisces relation is not good, because Cancer will give hard time to Pisces to keep his/her moods in ballance and that will piss the Pisces off since Pisces itself has troubles in keeping moods in place. Pisces will definetly (after sometime) start finding a way out from relationship after some distance has passed in the relationship. Also, telling a Pisces that Cancer is good just because they do "connect" on special level, would be great undermining of Pisces abilities towards people.

Thanks haffo. I know to not take this stuff too seriously, but it is amazing to me, just how things seem to play out fairly true sometimes. I guess the fish girl and I haven't been close long enough to see this play out as you predict. Right now she needs a place to stay and she seems to be happy to be here....but I might be fantasising again.

It actually seems like she gives me a hard time and it's hard for me to take since she seems to need a lot of support and clingyness. It's kinda weird, cause I have that tendency sometimes too and I've never had someone in my life needing that from me. It's usually the other way around.

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Since you are with female Pisces, then I assume you are male Cancer. In this case, my explaination might not work for you two. I was talking about Pisces male and Cancer female which is apparently not your case. In addition, I have seen alot of female Pisces who are apparently drawn to Cancer male and haven't heard alot of complains about it. Maybe Pisces female are far more tolerant to moody people than male counterparts are. Dunno. Female Pisces arent much talkative either.

Also, I want to ask you a question:

Since you two apparently share a house together, could you tell me, is it qute a common behaviour to share a house with someone (means to share household expenditures) and have a relationship at the same time?

I mean share a house in country you are living now (assuming you are in US).

Interesting Brahn0913.

You can take an example from Pisces females of this board. I have never experienced them to be draining at all. I have Pisces cousin and she is also never draining to me. I find them quite understanding and to the point people.

Then tell me, what do you think about Pisces females of this board.

As I said before Brahn0913, human race emotional development is in very beginning stage. People who most suffer from that are Pisces. It is very hard for a Pisces to stop for a moment from this madness and think whats going on. I say, most Pisces suffer from lack of knowledge of human nature. Give them shot of it, and they will silence.

2 sharks swimming in opposite directions: they swoon over moon girls.

Phyllis Hyman (how tragic) Millie Jackson,Lil Kim,Courtney Love(my decadent fantasy)and Cancerlady( a new mom whom I only know from this site)Ahhhhhhhhhh, siiiigh, hmmmmmmm. He's in dreamy pisces looking up at the sky mode.

2 sharks swimming in opposite directions:

Yeah branh I didn't have butter then not that I have butter now either, but i think I could've saved a woman like Phyllis she felt she was getting fat and unloved,she had bouts of terrible depression (like cancerians are wont to do)Her eyes were beautiful towards the end she performed barefoot sometimes,she did an Arsenio Hall show like that you could tell there was something troubling her. If she would've just held on I know she would've found love there were so many men who admired her.

Weren't all those women you named Cancers?

Cancers and Pisces flow into each other which is why I think they don't work as well as most astrologers claim. There is no stabilizing factor there!

Keef, which way is your shark swimming today?

I am a cancer lady that is "friends" with a pisces male. I find it hard to deal with his moods because I try to keep my mood swings away from him. We are very much alike but haven't spoke in 2 weeks because of mis-communication. I don't want to move on but at the same time his attitude about "us" is that we are "friends" although we have been intimate on so many different levels. I do not know what to do. Somebody help me!

RUN AWAY FAST!

It's the best for both of you because you are having feelings for him that he is not having for you. It hurts more the longer you hold on...trust me!

Doesn't the same hold true for cancer men told. That's what I want to do ... run like hell before something hurtful happens. But he still has my stuff and I need it back dang it! It doesn't even belong to me, it belongs to mom ... I was just borrowing. He won't give my stuff back and he gave a stupid excuse as to why he won't. hahaha, he won't even sit my stuff on the front porch ... that would surely be the end, all ties would be cut. Oops ... his FAFSA, he asked me to be his preparer and I agreeed ... I still have some of his personal info ...darn him ... darn him to heck already!!!! Stupid crab, he makes me sick!!!! 😢

2 shark s swimming in opposite directions:

All of you read Linda Goodmans,love signs and sex signs I think she comes the closes to describing relationships between all the water signs particularly Pisces and Cancerians.

Hello everyone,

I am a Pisces and the wife is a cancer. We have been together for about 10 years now. I have to say, moods are all over the place, hers and mine. I generally tend to be more moody. She on the other hand has very stern and harsh moods, but me being compassionate and all, I understand and leave her alone. Does this relationship work you might ask? Absolutely. 10 years and going.

I totally understand where your coming from noestitch lol!

sorry but need an answer to the following story.

Can any one help me , l have a Pisces friend in Spain who l love to bits, and we were getting on like a house on fire , l even went out there in Feb and all was good although she had some lodgers staying in her flat, to whom one she was dating . the situation was very complicated far to much to go into. Anyway she talked how she was looking forward to me coming over again in May and having dinner with her family again and staying in her flat instead of a hotel.

So here is the Problem ,since April just before flying there she told me she had problems and her brother who she does not live with, and only found out was her brother in the last few years was in a comafrom a car accident. now not to seem cold or doubt what she has told me , but every-time l call she will not answer , and when she does its if l call from another number . she says she has problems and she is depressed ... but why answer when it's not my number when she tells me she does not answer to anyone

Also she knows l just want an answer to know if we are still friends and she will not reply l get nothing i even make it easy by asking but nothing . the first maill l got after a few calls was that she did not hate me! and is not lying to me just she has many problems ,but then why all the confused actions and not returning my messages when she always use too.

l am finding this frustrating hurtful and cold , but have no control as she lives in Spain and lm in England she's left her previous address so lm told, and l did try when l was their in May ,but no answer

Her previous lover said she always lied , but she would say she never lied.and it was her lover that was a liar!! . so please all you Pisces can you explain this crazy behavior! l have all the patience of a cancer in the world but she behaves like she does not know me ,walks around in a costant trance at the age of 31yrs.
seems very lazy , but l know Cancer's can be like this too because we are dreamy ! so l understand that side,

Even to find a job was an effort for her and she cold not hold a job for a week it seems, such a lack of effort for life,her adopted parents needed her to pay the rent once the cuban Lodgers Moved out ,which she said she could not wait for, so she would have her life back! as they would boss her around all the time, but when they left it was like she died inside , they use to tell her when l was on msm live talking to her to turn it off yet it was her flat,

is it me or is this a normal pieces way of pulling away , but does not have the decency to say so and strange as we are meant to be friends, although l will confess she is Gay .

Haffo your grasp of the english language is impressive. You have definitely improved in your english a lot. Pisces females are draining even though they will almost never admit it. I'm just telling you the truth after dealing with one for almost 4 years. I guess someone has the patience for it, I just don't. There is way too much maintainece there, and they NEVER get better. You can talk with yout last breath, be super positive, give the most profound advice but it is NEVER, NEVER, EVER enough. They seem fixated on just being miserable. I've sen this in more than one case. Also they seem to get themselves into situations and then resort to being a victim. That doesn't make sense at all to me. I'm not trying to down Pisces, but something really has to give with that.

That is so true ! just going through that experiance right now , they seem hell bent on being un happy, l thought that was a cancer trait only..

Of all my relationships w/ the pices male, I have no complaints in the bed room!

In my opinion pices males tend to not like "overly" aggressive females, in which i know i have been a few times. It hasnt had to much effect on them. I stop myself and back off, then they just come swimming back to me. I've dated, been intimate, and have some as friends, yet we never seem to lose contact. To me its an attraction us cancer ladies have to/with them.

I do have a story to tell......I've known one of my pices males for 8yrs now and we just became intimate. We shared a kiss b4 for like 3 hrs stright! I never though it was possible to kiss someone that long but it is. It was kind of romantic too b/c we were on the foot of ferry on lake erie. Thats the most intimate we've been and that was about 3 yrs ago. The sex b/w us was only a snippet, we started but didnt finish. The tension is still there b/c we still both want the real, full thing. He went back and forth about what we shared (like their sign). We havent put everything on the table yet about how we are gonna continue our what was friendship. Whetherto take it further or remain how were are.

I did put an offer on the table....for him to buy me cookwear and i'll cook for him 4/7 days of the wk. We havent negotiated how long im gonna cook yet.