pisces female/virgo male

I've done a lot of research on the topic but I'm always looking for some fresh and new answers. I'm a Virgo male with a
I've done a lot of research on the topic but I'm always looking for some fresh and new answers. I'm a Virgo male with a Leo moon and Virgo venus. Not sure what the fish is but I guess I need some help in terms of how to read her or how I can be a little bit more affectionate as I will not deny, being a virgo, it is extremely hard for me to express my true feelings as I'm always analyzing everything I'm thinking and want to say and then going back to what her reaction might be to what I have to say and then just figuring that I shouldn't say anything at all.

She's somebody that I've been talking to for about a year now and we used to talk quite frequently everyday but now maybe once or twice a day to a few days when I usually have to initiate contact. I find it tough to analyze and figure out what kind of level she's on in terms of what she wants out of me because through all of this we still do talk and hangout. I also think that she is maybe very shy. Over our time of talking and hanging out and getting to know each other I've grown very fond of her. I'm just trying to get some tips on how to be more open with her I guess and get her to be more open with me.

We have slept together (multiple times) and kind of have silly pet names for each other. I don't want it to just be FWB kind of ordeal and I don't think that is one. Like, sometimes she will come over and spend the night and nothing will even happen which I am fine with. As hard as it is to express emotion to her I can firmly say that I do not play games, like straight-to-the-point women, and want to feel like I'm not the only one putting into a friendship/relationship. I guess what I'm trying to figure out is how she feels about me. I yearn for those days where we used to talk all the time and I do wish that I saw her more. Just looking for some friendly advice and sorry for the long-winded topic.
from USA
You have to speak up, there is no right or wrong way to do it. If you want more you have to go for it, better to know where you stand from my point of view.
female
" "
If people would speak up with what they want instead of being scared to lay it all out there...there would be less confusion and more enjoyment ...
58 years old female
Cancer Moon in 12th house trines Neptune
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
58 years old female
Cancer Moon in 12th house trines Neptune
Posted by virgoean

... I guess I need some help in terms of how to read her or how I can be a little bit more affectionate as I will not deny, being a virgo, it is extremely hard for me to express my true feelings as I'm always analyzing everything I'm thinking and want to say and then going back to what her reaction might be to what I have to say and then just figuring that I shouldn't say anything at all.




If you know you need to be more affectionate .. but, then shrug off actually do it

and If you know you need to be more forthcoming in expressiong how you feel about her .. but, then stop yourself from saying it



Then there is nothing anyone can tell you on what to do ... because you already know what to do. Nobody can make you do the right thing.




Posted by virgoean


We have slept together (multiple times) and kind of have silly pet names for each other. I don't want it to just be FWB kind of ordeal and I don't think that is one. Like, sometimes she will come over and spend the night and nothing will even happen which I am fine with. As hard as it is to express emotion to her I can firmly say that I do not play games, like straight-to-the-point women, and want to feel like I'm not the only one putting into a friendship/relationship. I guess what I'm trying to figure out is how she feels about me. I yearn for those days where we used to talk all the time and I do wish that I saw her more. Just looking for some friendly advice and sorry for the long-winded topic.


I don't ever stay in a situation if I'm not interested in the other person. The fact that she talks to you, sees you, sleeps with you (with or without sex) and has been doing so for close to a year says a lot in my opinion.

The changes in the pattern of communication could be easily explained by routine. It's what you two have settled into. Sounds to me as though she is following your lead.

I agree with the others. If you want something different from her it's time to tell her. Tell her how you feel and what you would like from the relationship. You'll need to take the chance, because from what you have written above, it doesn't sound like she will do it first.

The user who posted this message has hidden it.

The user who posted this message has hidden it.

Virgoean

I to am a pisces woman and I am currently dating a virgo male for over a year,and i am now expecting his child. It has not been an easy ride because everytime I feel the relationship is progressing,I then feel like he decides to take ten steps back. I have now become more reluctant in expressing my inner feelings to him as his behavior makes me insecure as I dont get enough verbal communication from him, as to how he really feels towards me.So my advice to you would be to be open by expressing how you truely feel about her and also show, as pisces women like gifts and to be treated like a lady, she is more than likely waiting for the move from you. otherwise if you hold out for too long she might think your not really interested in her the way shes into you and move on.I think shes scared to make the first move incase you run a mile, I'm sure she too wants more commitment but would like you to be the one to say it. Good luck!
Posted by virgoean
We have slept together (multiple times) and kind of have silly pet names for each other. I don't want it to just be FWB kind of ordeal and I don't think that is one. Like, sometimes she will come over and spend the night and nothing will even happen which I am fine with. As hard as it is to express emotion to her I can firmly say that I do not play games, like straight-to-the-point women, and want to feel like I'm not the only one putting into a friendship/relationship. I guess what I'm trying to figure out is how she feels about me. I yearn for those days where we used to talk all the time and I do wish that I saw her more.


tell her this, all of it.

honesty never fails when doubt consumes, virgoean.

Recent Topics

Contrary to the popular belief that men don't date/prefer older women, I find Cancers, as chauvinistic as they are, do in their younger days (20s to 30s). I know couple Cancer guys who are in their 30s dating a women nearing 40s to late 40s. Granted that
This is not a rant as I'm not angry but more of an observation. I don't know if it goes for the women too but I find it interesting how my Bull likes everything "perfect". We are very slowly getting into the dating phase again (known each other 17 yea
What is the dumbest sign/placement in your experience. I go with Capricorn, they have good discipline and work ethic but cannot think, IMO.
Hey guys I've been on here on in off with my Cappy guy. Trying to tap mainly inside a general insight on a Cappy guys emotional mechanisms. It's been three years with my Cappy in a long distance relationship. It's had its challenges as my Cappy after a ye
http://data.whicdn.com/images/286598323/large.jpg https://lovelace-media.imgix.net/uploads/125/22cf24d0-d7f5-0132-4627-0ebc4eccb42f.gif?w=740&h=740&fit=max&auto=format http://kblog.s3-ap-southeast-1.amazonaws.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/3110303
Hi, I'm a Scorpio female. I met a Taurus male at the bar, our eyes just met and we immediately just clicked. I spent the night with him and our love making was amazing. We just couldn't stop kissing and caressing each other. It happened a few times but
Hello everyone, I'm new around here but I will try to keep the story not too long. So basically: I am Leo and I met a Scorpio girl approximately two weeks ago. And as maybe some of you people know how Leo works (atleast I do), I got kinda in love wit
So I just realized... after talking to my Pisces bro about love life and all that jazz. He doesn't really give advice and by give advice, I mean he doesn't give away any secrets to his success or any secrets to the practical way to get there...it's hard t
[IMG]http://i65.tinypic.com/33z3d6g.png[/IMG] For more: http://www.fridacastelli.com/gallery.php?type=1
Ladies: if you engage in one night stands, is the sex good? Or when you start having sex with someone, is it good the first time? Can you generally reach orgasm? And if you are in a FWB is the sex good there? Do you reach an orgasm here?
Which is best, more comptiiable, more magnetic with Leo Sun, Sagittarius Moon female? A Libra sun with Cancer Moon Or a Cancer sun with Gemini Moon. (My combo) I am just wondering which is more emotional and might make things uneasy for the Leo?
Youngali answered a thing that had nothing to do with it. So i asked her if she was aware of the pluto cap gen, so she loads off a concise text describing it very precisely, like a copy and paste. That's just pure spite, there's a lot of people like that