JuiCy*
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Pisces girl ...friend or foe?
Use your judgement? If she rubs you the wrong way follow your gut.
Pisces rarely take anything at face value, juicy ... and so, are by nature very suspicious of peoples intentions. When she realized that you have been a part of this mans circle (and several others that have been invited without discernement) .. red flags started waving about whether you are a friend or foe to her.
This is the Piscean nature .... so, she will therefore attempt to flush out any information by posing a situation in reverse to what it actaully is .. such as, saying .. he's such a Player, isn't he?
Fish are slippery muther-fuckers, juicy ... she couldn't give a rats ass whether you agreed with this statement of him being a Player .. what she was interested in knowing ... if you even had an answer to suggest that you would know of his character at all.
Nothing is at face value .. nothing ..
From your position, you view this as ..
"she doesn't seem to have sincere intentions on looking out for me or being a friend" ....... so, to you, this about some kind of honour in which she should be carrying as it pertains to the obligations of friends taking care of each other.
Whereas she is likely looking at this in reverse .... if you would be talking to these men behind her back, in which she as an interest in, and then just blowing your contact off with these men to her as though it is unimportant ... then she is seriously contemplating your honour within terms of friendship, and is probably worried whether or not to trust you enough to be her friend.
Girlfriends don't talk to their men behind backs, and if they do and just blow it off as being unimportant ... then this girlfriend will start to be viewed as a man-stealer.
Anyway .. this isn't about whether you have done anything wrong within the friendship, for only you know who you are, and my aim isn't to make judgement ... rather, point out what is likely running through her head, as a Pisces, so you can have an understanding of what is taking place.
Hope you figure this out, for real friends are far and few between and if she is, or is not, a real friend .. then this is something I hope to realize, and hope this has helped you to.
This is the Piscean nature .... so, she will therefore attempt to flush out any information by posing a situation in reverse to what it actaully is .. such as, saying .. he's such a Player, isn't he?
Fish are slippery muther-fuckers, juicy ... she couldn't give a rats ass whether you agreed with this statement of him being a Player .. what she was interested in knowing ... if you even had an answer to suggest that you would know of his character at all.
Nothing is at face value .. nothing ..
From your position, you view this as ..
"she doesn't seem to have sincere intentions on looking out for me or being a friend" ....... so, to you, this about some kind of honour in which she should be carrying as it pertains to the obligations of friends taking care of each other.
Whereas she is likely looking at this in reverse .... if you would be talking to these men behind her back, in which she as an interest in, and then just blowing your contact off with these men to her as though it is unimportant ... then she is seriously contemplating your honour within terms of friendship, and is probably worried whether or not to trust you enough to be her friend.
Girlfriends don't talk to their men behind backs, and if they do and just blow it off as being unimportant ... then this girlfriend will start to be viewed as a man-stealer.
Anyway .. this isn't about whether you have done anything wrong within the friendship, for only you know who you are, and my aim isn't to make judgement ... rather, point out what is likely running through her head, as a Pisces, so you can have an understanding of what is taking place.
Hope you figure this out, for real friends are far and few between and if she is, or is not, a real friend .. then this is something I hope to realize, and hope this has helped you to.
Here we go...
Thank you P-Angel..Appreciate your advice & help.
Starfish ..It has everything to do with being a pisces female bc that is exactly what she is, So the best place to go is here. IF she was a gemini , I would go to the gemini board, No need to get defensive about your sign. I have NOT been hanging out with her to attempted to, Thats my whole point in asking about it...She*** has been pushing, Not I. For several reasons, I just wanted to see how you guys would view this.... Once again thank you for your time & help!
Thank you P-Angel..Appreciate your advice & help.
Starfish ..It has everything to do with being a pisces female bc that is exactly what she is, So the best place to go is here. IF she was a gemini , I would go to the gemini board, No need to get defensive about your sign. I have NOT been hanging out with her to attempted to, Thats my whole point in asking about it...She*** has been pushing, Not I. For several reasons, I just wanted to see how you guys would view this.... Once again thank you for your time & help!
"I have NOT been hanging out with her to attempted to, Thats my whole point in asking about it...She*** has been pushing, Not I."
Juicy ... after reading this statement .. I would tend to think that this isn't about you, or a friendship with you that she is attempting to gain. It sounds more like she is trying to find someting on the guy.
Think about that ... if you had an interest in a guy, and you happened to find out about a girl who he was in contact with .. wouldn't it seem logical to pursue a friendship with the girl in order to find out just how closely she knows this man? You could go to the man and ask, but, you know men .. they will deny until the cows come home. But, if you attempted to seduce the other female with friendship and get her to open up .. then you might find out the truth on whether to trust the guy.
And now, after putting all this together, that is what is sounds like to me ... for what other reason would there be for her to day "bad" things about the guy (reverse psychology to get you to open up) .. coupled along with pushing you to be friends with her, and trying to coax you into hanging out to "talk" about how much of a player this guy is.
This is about him, I think .... in trying to find out if he can be trusted by using you to pump information out of.
In which case = not friend, at all.
Juicy ... after reading this statement .. I would tend to think that this isn't about you, or a friendship with you that she is attempting to gain. It sounds more like she is trying to find someting on the guy.
Think about that ... if you had an interest in a guy, and you happened to find out about a girl who he was in contact with .. wouldn't it seem logical to pursue a friendship with the girl in order to find out just how closely she knows this man? You could go to the man and ask, but, you know men .. they will deny until the cows come home. But, if you attempted to seduce the other female with friendship and get her to open up .. then you might find out the truth on whether to trust the guy.
And now, after putting all this together, that is what is sounds like to me ... for what other reason would there be for her to day "bad" things about the guy (reverse psychology to get you to open up) .. coupled along with pushing you to be friends with her, and trying to coax you into hanging out to "talk" about how much of a player this guy is.
This is about him, I think .... in trying to find out if he can be trusted by using you to pump information out of.
In which case = not friend, at all.
Thank you Again P-Angel...I have to agree with you, Thank you for hitting the nail on the head quicker then i could! Lol Starfish, I understand your point & what you are saying 100% & actually think you are correct on what you are saying, However my whole point is if you want to learn about a lion & it's motives are you going to go to a gyno or a lion expert? Reguardless of pointing out the obvious which you had said, I'm simply telling you that she is a pisces female and i would like to go the source itself directly..which is the pisces board....wouldn't you ladies & Gents know best?.......However thank you again....
to update..
She has texted me, i have Not replied. I will keep it simple & sweet being professional but i had a feeling she was up to no good..Thanks Chistate also =)
to update..
She has texted me, i have Not replied. I will keep it simple & sweet being professional but i had a feeling she was up to no good..Thanks Chistate also =)
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