Pisces Guys and Temper

Anyone want to elaborate on the temper of a Pisces man. Mine has a big one and he blows up loudly and says some mean things. I am the same way in a sense but I want it to go away quick and everyone to be ok afterwards. How do you Pisces guys handle yourselves? Is it best to just leave him alone? He goes on an on about it when he's in his rant and I rarely say much, by then I'm over it and he is furious. Just any feedback helps. We get along faboulously when he isn't in a funk but when he is I just want to hide.

What is the rest of his chart??

Posted by jessejames
Anyone want to elaborate on the temper of a Pisces man. Mine has a big one and he blows up loudly and says some mean things. I am the same way in a sense but I want it to go away quick and everyone to be ok afterwards. How do you Pisces guys handle yourselves? Is it best to just leave him alone? He goes on an on about it when he's in his rant and I rarely say much, by then I'm over it and he is furious. Just any feedback helps. We get along faboulously when he isn't in a funk but when he is I just want to hide.

Yeah, I know. It's a blessing and a curse to be passionate about things in life.

Usually, when Pisces is exposed to the facts that a person is doing wrong to others without repercussion..... That incites us into rage. It would be beneficial if we could learn how to control it better, but I can only imagine his temper comes out when injustice is somehow prevailing.

Think of Jesus and the moneychangers in the Temple. His fellow Jews had basically transformed the Sacred and Holy Temple into a casino and trading post. His outrage at this degradation caused him to grab a whip, and flip over all money changer tables, scatter their coins and tear up the animal trading cages. It was this gross injustice and mistreatment of a Sacred place that motivated Jesus (a fellow Piscean) to lose his temper and justifiably whip some butt.

Posted by ProphetaAzteca
things to pay attention to if a Pisces Man is about to reach critical mass:

1.MOVE OUT OF LINE OF FIRE...
2.identify his position on the topic at hand
3.assess the surrounding environment for collateral damage
4.notice the position of his hands with relevance to the intensity in his eyes.
5.follow the position of his eyes and track his observations (what he is looking at)
6.keep your stance wide.don't face your body directly with his.
7.Avoid dialogue that can do some damage if the response is the opposite of what you expected
8.Avoid low blows (depth should give you a hint about our counter)
9.If he has already walked away,GIVE THE MAN HIS SPACE.Court is in session and the jury is being presented the evidence.
10.Avoid Mind Games...


for the most part,we're not that evil unless we've been pushed to that extreme.I know I hate being mean and ugly with people,but I can be ruthless in my attack.I know where to hit to do more than just draw blood.I'd rather calm down,forgive the person,and move on asap.its not worth the energy you have to invest in carrying negativity.

The emotions that can push me that far are Moral Disappointment and Definitive Heartbreak.Break my heart or taint my dreamworld,you will be dealt with.

if it is decided to become physical,shit will get broken.Not "hulk smash" destroy (sometimes),but if it makes the scene dramatic while scaring the shit out of you,it will happen.

Eh, your assessment was perfect until the end where you assessed the situation and physical violence/ destruction.

Not really into that, even when I get pissed off.

It would have to be some form of ohysical threat to make my defensr mode switch on as a counter punch.

ok guys lots of good feedback. No Irresistable this was about my daughter that was talking back he felt I was being too harsh. She is a teenager and he loves her. She is a scorp like myself. They had an instant bond.

Here is our charts

HIS
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Pisces 13.57 Ascendant Taurus 13.46
Moon Virgo 0.05 II Gemini 12.11
Mercury Pisces 4.00 III Cancer 4.56
Venus Aries 22.06 IV Cancer 27.21
Mars Aquarius 17.57 V Leo 23.47
Jupiter Taurus 24.51 VI Virgo 29.11
Saturn Leo 11.10 R VII Scorpio 13.46
Uranus Scorpio 11.38 R VIII Sagittarius 12.11
Neptune Sagittarius 16.06 IX Capricorn 4.56
Pluto Libra 13.36 R Midheaven Capricorn 27.21
Lilith Taurus 24.29 XI Aquarius 23.47
Asc node Libra 25.03 XII Pisces 29.11


MINE
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Scorpio 7.28 Ascendant Taurus 21.04
Moon Gemini 21.52 II Gemini 17.46
Mercury Scorpio 15.03 III Cancer 10.02
Venus Libra 17.20 IV Leo 2.44
Mars Leo 1.45 V Virgo 0.11
Jupiter Cancer 6.04 R VI Libra 6.53
Saturn Leo 29.00 VII Scorpio 21.04
Uranus Scorpio 11.49 VIII Sagittarius 17.46
Neptune Sagittarius 14.31 IX Capricorn 10.02
Pluto Libra 15.01 Midheaven Aquarius 2.44
Lilith Gemini 21.16 XI Pisces 0.11
Asc node Libra 15.01 XII Aries 6.53

and yes he does scare me, he asked me if he did and I told him yes. He seemed ashamed but I also told him my only fear is because of past experiences that men were abusive. He said he would never hurt a woman, and he has no such history. I believe him. I love this man so much. Just don't wanna push him away. I can be a bitch at times because I'm so anal retentive about having a clean house where he would rather I relax and sit down more often.

Yes Irresistable... soooooo true!! My Grandmother is a Scorp Nov 1., my great Grand was a scorp Oct 28, Myself Oct 30, Daughter named after my Grandmother is Oct 24. My Aunt same side of the fam is Oct 28 as well. It's crazy. My boss who I adore is a Scorp Nov 18. These Scorp females are the ones I'm closest to besides my own. She is a pain right now but I know this will pass with age. She reminds me of myself enough I want to choke her! Sad but true. Leeb Venus I think perhaps I need to read up on this. I know very little but I do feel like I overanalyze the crap out of everything.

Irresistable also failed to tell you I am working on NOT comparing him to my past. Yes I am horrible about it, I've been in some very abusive relationships so the slightest trigger just automatically sends a message to my brain. He is so passionate and sweet. He described me as emotional this weekend and I asked him to elaborate he told me in all things whether you are pissed off or loving you are extremely passionate. When you are down you are extremely down. I can see that he is right but then of course I began to beat myself up thinking I must be a sad sack and so dreary to be around. I asked him then if it was a turn off and he said no you are just passionate. I didn't really know what to think?

Midnite, yes I see the explosive yet sweet subtle side too. I say the same thing WHOA where did that come from. It's like I've been shot but there is no rifle. He does not seem to think it's a problem so I just try to overlook his explosions as does he. He does apologize later and say I'm sorry I was such an ass. I guess that makes it forgivable. I am hoping that age will bring a more peaceful temperment. I see a young man in his explosions one of little faith and experience. His softer side is much more mature and domesticated. I love him one way or the other.

Well, I have that problem, I am super impulsive, and sometimes I blow up and say mean things.

I recognize its a problem, cant o much about it, only trying to be calm as I am much of the time.

Fire plays the role here, since I have Moon, Venus and Mercury in Aries, and moon conjuncting venus also. And also mars in Cancer and gemini ascendant that give my talk a sharp knife.

Bad news, I think it gets worse with time (my experience) but in other way you have more time to understand and overcome it better.

About the problem, in my experience if you are always saying look at this and this and this, examples, bed not made, dishes not washed, etc, he will do it, then time passes and you continue saying, and then sometime he is doing it by himself but he has his mind organized for it and will do it the next second, then you say it, he will explode, makes sense to you?

Be gentle, don't show your scorpio sting.

Thank you Lost, that makes perfect sense. I try not to bitch about it too much I hate nagging so I try not to do too much of it myself. I appreciate you.