Pisces in love with Capricorn

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male pisces and female capricorn were
made for each other...female capricorn
are very spirtual and traditional, if
they like you they will hide their feelings,and test your love, and cause you to look into their eyes and read their
soul......if you are smart,do whatever
she tells you, go to church with her,
call her everytime,never pressure into
sex,and tolerant her every move...in
return...she will reward you with respect and loyalty..she will cover you
with complete love and not let anyone
hurt you under in circumstances....under
circumstances.....marry these capricorn
female...and she will be your mother,boss,closest most trusted friend,
and the love of your life now until eternity.....good luck
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I am a Pisces woman in love with a Capricorn man. He had been hurt very badly in a relationship which ended several months ago, and despite his protestations of eternal love for me, he has run away overseas. I have been nothing less than understanding, suddenyly he twlls me to forget him, like people can turn love off and on like a faucet, but at the same times, he tells me he will love me forever. It has been an emotional roller coaster with him. Other than the issue of his being hurt and taking his pain out on me - accusing me at times of the horrible things his ex did - we are such soulmates that we say the same thing at the same time some times. Any suggestions as to how to get this back on track?
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give him emotional support, hold him,love him and every part of him,
stroke his ego....let him know you're
there..be his compassionate nurse and
sympathic savior... he will love you forever and give you respect and loyalty..never play mind games or play
with his intelligence...when capricorns
are wounded it like death itself..with
your help i see love divine....i wish
happiness...and may this relationship
grow deeper....warmer...and may mr.capricorn give you sweet love..because you deserve it....good luck

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I have a similar problem. My capricorn guy broke up with me six months ago after telling me he was going to marry me and love me forever and ever. Where is he now? He is still close by but I cant get to him. I know you need to give Caps alot of space and love. Maybe in time he will realize that he loves you and he will come back to you. I hope so for your sake. I know how you feel though. I still cry every time I really let myself think about him. Everyone tells me to move on. Im trying, but we'll see what happens. Good luck to you too.
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He had run overseas twice, returned to me. There were problems here with my daughter and her boyfriend that I had not foreseen, could have never foreseen in a million years, brought to a head by her boyfriend who was intimidated by the presence of my wonderful Capricorn man who wanted more than anything to marry me and be a father my children never had. He left for four days to take care of business but hesitated in coming back as he blamed himself - it was not his fault, would have happened anyway and been much worse if he had not been here. Right before he came back, he dicided not to, my son - whom he asked to speak to - told him if he did not come back, that he was just using that as an excuse. He did come back and although the problems ensued with my daughter off-site, sight unseen - we spent more wonderful days and nights together, he cannot keep his eyes or hands off of me. He wanted to meet my parents and it was almost eerie, almost as if we had been married for 20 years and this was not his first time meeting them. It made him cry later, that a dream he had for so long has come true - and he is the first man I have ever taken to meet them since the six years after my divorce. Yet, still I sense there are things he does not tell me - he got his phone number changed because his former girlfreind kept calling and yet he will not give me the new one. I do not press it as he stays in touch and yet there have been other people interfereing including his forner's ex husband who hacked our accounts, sent him filthy and untrue information about me. He says he hired a private detactive as he thought I was being stalked. There are many strange things that have happened since we met, and yet we have seemed to overcome most of them. Still, when I say something innocent and sincere to him at times, it brings back the old memories of his hurt. I remember what I read here, that a wounded Capricorn is like death itself and I can sense this with him. He says it is not me, that he is not comparing me to her even though at times the things I say just because it is inside of me are things he says she said to him at one time. There have been rare occasions when I thought he might still be in love with her but have decided he mourns the relationship - what might have been - rather than her personally. It was nothing like what we have, a meeting of the minds, hearts and souls like we have known each other forever - and I know that no one could ever fake such a thing, not this long a time, and when we first met, I tried to poke holes in it - as did he - and yet we never could - both genuine, both very in love and yet he has not yet acknowledged the extent of it with me. He has an Aries moon and I know that with the Capricorn sun, and his past experience, that he is slower to trust than most. But eveb though he talks about being able to talk about anything and everything with me, I still know there are things now he is not telling me, and he is away again on business, supposed to have returned tonight and yet last noght he told me that he did not know - thought about staying away because of my daughter, that if he was here, she would not be back - and nothing could be further from the truth as her boyfriend is the factor screwing up her life and not my wonderful Capricorn. I do not know what to think at times, trust him like I jhave never dreamned of trusting a man before - and yet, he will change on me when he is away from me, and is supposed to call me tonight to let me know when he will be back.
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(continued) ... We were supposed to have made homemade sauerkraut today for New Year's, had promised some to my parents, to my son's girlfriend to take to her parents as well. He loves being in the kitchen and we work like a dream - but yet, although he tells me he will take care of me and the kids - send the kids through school and from what he has told me, he is more than able to - he will back off in other ways, taking off for business, supposed to be back on a certain day and then it goes into more days away ... he would write me off and then come back - things are better now that he is calling isntead of relying on email, things he would say before that I knew - and he admitted - he could not say on the phone to me or to my face. He moves away into his past hurt and pain when he is not with me, almost surrounding himself in his past pain and misery and I do not know why he does this. There were two young children involved before and I can tell when she has sent him a letter - which he claims he does not open anymore - but he moves away, says horrid things to me, things wiythout any basis in fact, things - horrid things - which she edid to him before, for which he had PROOF - and there is no prrof with me as I have not even thought such things, let alone do them - ever, to ANYONE, let alone to him.

I do not know what to do, as when he is away, it takes such a toll on me. If I did not love him more than I ever dreamed of loving any man, I would not still be here, it is so very painful at times. I do not know yet what makes me trust him like I do, there is no real explanation for it and although trust is the first and only thing he ever asked for, now he tells me that he does not want me to truyst him, that I shouldn't, that I should make him prove himself to me first.

So much unexplained still, not holes in his stories, but just so man y missing pieces, and yet I know that if he was lying about anything, his stories would have contradicted themselves by now. I have nothing of value for him except my love, I am not rich or even comfortable anymore by any stretch of the imagination and he knows this, tells me he will take care of me and the kids, that I should not worry - and yet, although we have talked, I have been honest, I have seem no siure signs of this yet - he told me we would get a couple bills of mine straightened out this week - I have never asked him for anything except to be with me - and now he says last night that he does not know when he will come back - that he has been sleeping with a pillow beside him because he could hardly sleep being away from me.

I do not know what to think, know that Capricorns are slow to trust, but are they all this secretive and mysterious? Are they all this antsy, this chamgeable? Neither one of us were looking for a relationship when we met - he was still very wounded and I had made up my mind that the Love of My Life simply did not exist - and then we found each other and I do not know what to do now. I say what is on my mind, in my heart, tell him that when he brings "her" up - even though he says it is not in comparision to me, that I have at times a hard time reconciling that - because I can feel his pain and the things he says to me because of his pain hurts me all that much in return. She was a cheater and a liar and I do not think that way, but find some of my behavior patterns strating to moidify - I am fighting against this because I want to be me and I have done nothing wrong - know she knew far more about him, that he did take very good care of her and her kids - and yet she cheated all over him very first chance she got.

And the intellectual, the emotional, the intimate sides with her - I kn ow this - would not hold a candle to what we have when we are together or even apart when he is not beating himself up for things not his fault - like my daughter - or having flashbacks to the way things turned out with his former.

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>>He is still close by but I cant get to him.

I have been through this and what brought him back around was a sense of playfulness and also a sense of "rescuing me" another time. They need to play and no woman on earth is better than a Pisces for bringing this out in them. Family is also very important to them. I understand the issues with my Capricorn man more because I know his moon - Aries - and the moon is how they are supposed to relate to you emotionally. I also know my own moon - and while it is the same thing that attracts him - my incurable intellectual curiousity - it is also something that may equally repel him as well. I suggest you find out what both your moons are as it will only give you a deeper understanding. If you do not know how to do this, I can post and Internet site where you can have it calculated for free.