I have been seeing this taurus male for about 2 months now (I am a pisces). He has made it clear that he is very picky with women and is in no rush to get into a relationship, which is fine and I understand it it also a taurus trait. I like to always look by best and definitely catch the attention of other guys which sometimes I think makes my taurus guy like me more. I also make sure to be touchy with him and give him the eyes (like i'm looking into his soul) so I know he understands how I feel. He does the same back, I can't be around him without him touching or staring at me. For this reason I know the feeling is mutual. I also make sure to never nag him, which is why I also wait for him to call or text me first (which he does daily) and he invites me over 5/7 times a week. Earlier today I was over at his house with him and his band mates because we all spent the night there, and when we woke up I asked him what his plans were for the day and if he was hungry etc... and he said some "to rule the world" comment and said he didn't have food there..end of conversation. So I didn't want to be that girl that over stays her welcome so I had my roommate come pick me up (I didn't drive there the night before) and my guy friend (truly just a friend) asked if I had lunch plans. I told him no so we made plans because I figured taurus guy didn't want to do anything. Then he went out and woke up his band mates to get them going so they could all get food and he asked if I wanted any and I said no. And he says but you said earlier you wanted something, and I told him he didn't seem to want to do anything so I made lunch plans already. And he goes it better not be with a guy, haha just kidding, but really who is it with. And I answered that it was just a friend and he asks is it a guy and I said yes. Then I could tell he was getting defensive and started asking me more questions about the guy and mocking me about it and making fun of the other guy's name etc... Then to one of his band mates he said look she's cheating on me blah blah blah. To this I said you can't cheat on friends (because he is taking his time in making us exclusive so he always says we are still 'just friends'). To that he continued to kinda make fun of what I said and then goes outside to sit on the porch with his other band mate. My roommate pulls up so I walk outside and wave goodbye to him and wait for him to get up and give me a hug or something. After a few seconds of stare down he finally get
Pisces in need of help dealing with a taurus male
up and then says well tell Rory (the other guy) I said hi. And I leave saying I asked you to do something first and you didn't seem to want to. Since then I got home and texted him asking what he was doing after he eats with his band guys and he won't answer now. How should I respond to this behavior? It's not ok for him to be this possessive and jealous if he won't make things exclusive, but at the same time I don't want to lose him either. I want him and only him and I've been the one trying to be patient and wait for him to want us together too.
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