Taurus: Can you clue me in?

I know a Taurus guy for a month now that when we first met, we didn't exchange any info but he made sure to reach me the next day regardless (I believe he got it from our friend we sharein common) and not a day has passed that we haven't been in touch since. He only texts, but he's always checking up on me and we meet up to just simply chill in a park or walk and talk for hours. He doesn't flirt at all, and has complimented me like three times ever. But he definitely doesn't blow off plans and shows his annoyance in a playful way if I don't let him know of a special event I'll be attending/performing/displaying my work at. Does he like me or is he just incredibly nice?

He's a Taurus with Cap Moon, Taurus Mercury, Aries Mars, Pisces Venus. I don't know his rising.

I'm a confused Aquarius with Leo Rising, Gemini Moon, Capricorn Mercury, Scorpio Mars and Aquarius Venus.

With his aspects like this, what's going on here?

Your help is greatly appreciated!

Absolutely!

By "like" I mean, is he interested but being a typical "cautious" Taurus in truly getting to know me first? We keep in touch all day/night everyday. Or with the aspects in his chart, is he just like this with everyone/all of his friends?

Posted by robyn808


Sounds like he's enjoying the moments. He probably hasn't made up his mind yet, if he does it will be when he feels he thoroughly has gotten to know you and assessed his life and his ability to give you what you need and commitment to that.

This ^^^^^^^^

Thank you so much for your insight! I'm glad to know he's more "typical" based on his aspects...makes me feel like I can be more of the "real" me as compared to bringing out my more unpredictable side (which I only use when I don't know where I stand with a person that I'm interested in). What you said puts me at ease about SOMETHING since I do feel very comfortable around him when we speak in person! I recently got WAY TOO COMFORTABLE that I scared myself when I absentmindedly landed a kiss on his lips as if that's what we always do. I thought he would be taken aback or that the rest of our time together would be awkward. He acted like it never even happened and still is speaking like he normally does. Glad I didn't scare him away!

Guess I was wrong. Didn't like me after all past friendship. He's already communicating less... 😢 what else is new?

Do I leave him alone? Or what?

Yes leave him alone... I also met a taurus a month ago , mine has went swimmingly fast and deep tho. also on the day you posted this over the weekend. I noticed mine started communicating less. He had told me he was going through some family issues so I knew why but said he needed some time.. I totally freaked out and bummed out . I have learned that if you go away they will come after you if interested. So I did I left him alone, no text no nothing . It was only one day went by and he started calling and talking about it all, has went back to normal with the texting and calling and getting together. Also it feels good because i backed off totally and when he calls and comes after me that shows me its his doing and he wants me, without me doing anything 😉

Posted by TheWaterGirl
Do I leave him alone? Or what?

Yes you do

The two things that stood out for me in your post was that he communicates only via text and that you both text all day/night.

When someone only wants to communicate over text, whether male or female, to me they are being lazy with communication, you haven't stirred anything in him to make him pick up the phone and talk to you, using texts as main form of communicaion to me is just someone passing time idly by.

If someone was texting me day and night, no matter the initial interest I felt, I would be pretty bored pretty soon and wondering do they not. have anything else going on in their lives that they can spend all day and night back and forth texting, where are their friends, family, work, life? text messaging is great but in relationships (that includes romantic and friendship) they really are only worth using for firming up arrangements or passing on quick messages when you know someone can't speak at that moment.

Bulls are commonly known to be slow, and maybe I have one of those Left Field ones that Robyn speaks of (Moon Leo, Venus Aries) but I do know that when they want something, and know they want it, then they can move like lightening to stake their claim on their "possession" 🙂