Pisces male, cancer woman

It's been a while since I was here. Well, we have been together now for over a year. LOT'S of ups and downs. Yup, Pisces will run when confronted. Luckily due to a past relationship I learned to not over control my Pisces.

Sometimes it does not matter though. He is more moody than I am (amazing), and sulks worse than I do (amazing), and is not the best at taking charge. He has learned though, that he needs to stop swimming up and down the channel on whims and making choices is not such a bad thing.

He is posessive, but it took him a while before he showed it. Due to low jealousy on his end (now coming out), I have backed out quite a few of my male friends. He has realzied they are only friends, and has given complete trust. Made it nice for me. The strings are being pulled in however on me. It's taken me quite a bit of time to get used to him flip flopping all over, but he is learning how to be more direct when talking. (Cancers have a difficult time with people they are attatched to not saying what they mean). This comes with time I guess.

We have quite a few similar signs together which helps. Watch out for the tempers! Whew! He has told me many times he is not used to any woman being direct and meaning what she says. Very defensive the Pisces.

We both need space which helps. I let him off the hook if I am moody, tell him it's not about him, it's just a moment.
Patience is the big word with this sign. I'm finding I like to be controlled less than he does. Hard on him.

Our biggest goal right now is for him to learn to be more "in the moment" and not have to examine everything. Me? How to slow down and give him time to process his thoughts. Kinda like watching dough rise..........don't. Just walk away and let him relalize his dough needs yeast, lol.

All in all, we are talking marriage. Not such a bad match. He puts up with me, and I with him. Surprised the roof hasn't blown off yet.

Anyone else experience anger in Pisces? I can be sitting at the table to "think through" my mood, and leave him alone to watch football peacefully, guess who comes to bug me and not let me have my moment? Think I need to add another fish tank to the living room for him.

I'm also a cancer woman dating a pisces male and I can't seem to figure him out. We've been dating 7 months now. Things seems to go great at first talking all the time,txting all the time then less talking,less txting then nothing. I'm always the one that's calling him or txting. So I gave him his space to see if he would contact me nothing. So I txt him and he said he was worried about me, wow really so why didn't you call or txt?. I'm really getting tired and frustrated. He says he likes me,but that's all I've gotten from him as far as him expressing how he feels about me. I don't know what to do. I call he doesent call me back I txt nothing or it may take hours or days to respond. I don't know what to do. Help me out pisces people.

"pisces men... don't like to get angry too often. once they do, it's like a volcano erupting... most of the time, it's just frustration and a case of venting.

do you really mind him bugging you and not letting you have your moment? probably not."

Snap snap!!!!!!

i'm the same. but i agree that they are very good for us. and yes he mood swings more than me, it hurts everytime when he is slightly colder because i am so sensitive i just try ot focus on the big picture about the fact that i love him and that he needs time to adjust.

and with the texting im the same, always the one doing it, but the things is he replies w his heart. and i know he reads it. every text you send makes his day so keep it up.

i like him so much because he makes me feel emotionally safe. it is good to not be alone.

Posted by diginlife

Our biggest goal right now is for him to learn to be more "in the moment" and not have to examine everything.

Posted by diginlife

I can be sitting at the table to "think through" my mood, and leave him alone to watch football peacefully, guess who comes to bug me and not let me have my moment?

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Sounds like you don't practice what you preach.

Your talk also sounds condenscending towards him, as if you have very little faith in him ... so when is this wedding going to be .. you know the one you don't want him to think through and just go with the moment?