Pisces male has broken female scorpio's heart...

I'm a female scorpio in love with a pisces male. We have been knowing each other for three years. I felt like we were getting closer at one point. We started spending alot of time together. I wanted to be in a relationship with him and he kept giving me mixed signals.
When we're alone, everything's cool. But when we're around other paeople, he either ignores me, talks to me any kind of way, or just completely dog me out and then say that he was just joking with me. There was a time when he wouldn't spend any time with me, talk to me, tell me he misses me or loves me. Then he got to the point where he would tell me misses me or loves me. He doesn't say it often, though. Actually, he only says it when we're alone and/or he's been drinking.
He gives me mixed signals. One minute he loves and cares, the next minute he doesn't. He also was using me for money. He never paid me back.
All I ever tried to do for this man is look out for him and love me and all he does is treat me bad. Why? There were times (just last year) he was saying that one day we would move in together and maybe possibly get married! But things have changed. Now he just uses me for money and basically take advantage of me. Yesterday, one of my friends (who is a female pisces) told me that he said I was stupid and that he is just using me. So I called him and ask him did I mean anything to him, he said that he wasn't gonna answer that question. So I told him I was through with him.
I really feel hurt because I really truly loved him and I thought at one time he loved me. But I guess I was wrong. I really didn't and don't want the relationship to end, but I'm tired of being used. Is there any chance of us getting back together? Is there any way I can win my pisces back without all that drama? Its not. I just gotta realize that he doesn't and never will love me...

No ALL Pisces men are bad - the one you had was a s---head! Maybe a Cancer man or even a Virgo man could make you happy.

I'm sorry that your hurting. Nothing sucks more than a broken heart. Your man sounds like a real jackass. You deserve better than that kind of treatmaent. What if you watched your best friend stay in love with someone who treated her the way your man treats you? I'm sure your advice to her would most likely consist of you telling her to bump his loser dead weight a** and find someone who will treat her with love and respect. Maybe it's time you become your own best friend and start demanding a better quality of relationships for yourself. My philosophy is that the love of our live's could walk right past us and be gone forever If we have allowed ourselves to remain stuck in relationship's that are not satisfying. Why take the chance of missing out on the possibility of finding a great new man just because you dont want to be alone or your allowing yourself to be used by some loser? Does that make sense? Take care of yourself better than you have been and dont let anyone ever walk all over you or use you. Nobody is worth yourself. Have a nice evening.

Heather

Heather, as a Virgo girl, I've been hurt like Scorpios - would you believe the jackass I dated was a selfish, crude, insensitive and disrespectful Gemini?

Gemini? My friend? No, I'm not surprised...Not at all. Pick a partner that can be real and mean what they say. Gem's, not interested.

I guess I should be clear and say that I have met and still don't understand the twin aspect of the Gem. They and the fish are the only dual natured sign. I have learned that neither can seem to make up their minds- until it's way too late. (As far as love relationships are concerned.) Unfortunate but true. Find a more suitable mate. Being a Virgo female keep all of your options open. That's what our instincts tell us, right? Just my thought's. You make your own decisions.

Heather

Dear Female Scorpio: I am a Pisces female and your male sounds like my Scorpio male. Same situations, same scenarios. I think it's not so much their sign, but their insecurities. WE need to be strong and tell them both to take a walk and walk AWAY. We've got to take a stand. It sounds like this guy has feelings, but doesn't know what he wants. Why should you suffer? Why should WE? I asked my man how he felt about me and he just said, "you're beautiful" that's it! Something is wrong...Be brave and turn away. Afterward, he may just follow and be a man afterall....Good Luck. Peace and Love..

I love my girl. (This may not make sense to most.)

I've had my share of problems with a pisces male, but not like yours.

I would have to ask why you would want to be with someone who doesn't respect you? Using you and calling you stupid is not a sign of love or affection. He seems to be waiting for something "better" to come along.

Girl, let this man go. I'm a crazy Cancer, but my crab claws would be throwing him out into the ocean and letting him make it on his own.

You appear to be a loving and giving person. You deserve better than this. Let him find someone else to a make "man" out of him.

Good luck!!!
CL

If that's what you really think will make a man out of him? I guess I agree. However, if you have other thought's on the topic perhap's you should follow your heart to find out different. Just a question?

Thanks, Heather. No you-know-whats for me!

Hi,im a Pisces male and just so i dont want the pisces good reputation to go bad i just want to say that i found out that a pisces man can be everything u want him to be or everything u dont so i guess there all different...i for one wouldnt do that to a girl cause if i had a girlfriend myself i would be very greatful that she loves me and i would love her back and of course tell her.

The truth is...we all want to feel as though we are loved. If that sounds korny? Well then, so be it. We as human's love within our hearts (I would like to hope so anyway) the people that make us think, laugh, grow and most of all, care because we want to. Just my thought's. What do you think?

I guess I should have signed that last post- but I like to remain private most of the time. I'm really not very smart.

Heather

I hope that things will work out to your advantage in the long run.
What I mean is that you will eventually learn from this bad experience.
Life taught me that what you expect from a man may be totally different from his intentions.
He may get along for a while but hey..., he has got a life laid out and it is HIS life, and it may not be exactly what you want or anticipated.
Seeing it from HIS side, will help. Do not be 'involved' totally until you 'meditate' on any day's events - every single day. Men do not behave to please you. They do what is BEST for them.
When you go to sleep, think back of the events of the day, and try to be as uninvolved as possible. This helps to unwind you, and your expectations, which may at times be 'unrealistic'.
Being philosophical this hour?
Well, it helps,......sometimes

hi im new here...
mike.