Pisces man and cancer woman

Hi everyone,

I am 26 and new to dating (yes- haven't had a bf before, and never believed in astrology this much before to invest in trying to make things work). The man I am seeing is a Pisces and 27 years old. I hope you can help me.

I met him on a dating app a month ago and we decided on a date really quickly just after a few hours of talking. He seemed really keen about me. It was an amazing date, he took me out for dinner and drinks after. We both came home past midnight. We got along very well and it seemed like we knew each other for a long time. We still talk everyday-but lesser.

On our second date, we went to the cinema, and dinner after and followed by drinks. I still don't feel the romance and he doesn't show anything flirty etc. We went back to his place, at first I was scared that it would lead to sex as I'm a virgin, but it was just to call me a taxi as he lived closer to the place we had drinks. I thank God for that. After that he texted me if I got home safe.

Our third date was me cooking him a meal. He was really impressed and enjoyed the food very much and we watched a film. Still no kiss but I laid on his shoulder through the entire film. He didn't lean on me but his feet was printing my way and we was lying down my way too- which I read online that he was interested. Sometimes he copies my movements too.

We are meeting for a 4th date this weekend. I am not sure if our dates has been more friendly or a romantic date. This pisces man is the sweetest I have ever met. Hé showed me compliments and always say how beautiful I look, and he respects me. What i mean my respect is sex. it was never brought up and I'm glad as I was sexually abused in the past and I feel afraid. no he doesn't know that yet.

I used to be a big girl and recently I lost a lot of weight and people start to look at me more. I have been asked on dates and refused as I was already seeing him - if we are seeing each other. We are quite honest with each other and always have something to say. We always text and meet once a week. So the other day I needed to get something out of my chest and I Told him that these 2 guys were very interested in me and reassured him that I wasn't flirty and I haven't looked at other guys since I met him. I was having an emotional moment. I quickly learned that it was a big mistake telling him even though I mentioned I didn't want him to think differently of me and ruin things between us.

He came out of a 4 year relationship that ended 8 months ago. he told me there was no chance they would get back together and they still text every now and then but that's very rare. I know exes do ruin things. So he told me that he doesn't know if he's ready for another relationship, and he really appreciates me for supporting him and that I really care. he really likes that. He also said, whatever happens, relationship or not, he still wants to be my friend - which I don't think it will happen from my side as I don't want to keep in touch if nothing happens between us. He knows I haven't been in a relationship before and he said it's cute and not of putting ad he thinks I'm a really great girl.

I have been supporting him a lot as he's about to lose his job. I keep him positive and know that he's not alone. I am a very caring person in general and I do care a lot about him even though we only know each other for a month. He's a keeper and I want him by my side. We still text everyday but lesser than usual. I understand that he's busy at work and has gym sessions after most of the time, and I have never once become clingy. I gave him his space and allowed him to reply to me whenever he wants. Yo relax he watches tv series and play computer games a lot to escape reality. I still remind him that no matter what, I'm still there for him. I know pisces don't like clingy people and like to be in their own world. I am quite dreamy too.

This might sound weird, but this pisces man and me, we have so much in common. we like and don't like the same food, we have the same house number, his best friend is from my hometown. Does it mean we're fated? I was pretty shocked learning all these too. But in a good way.

I wonder why he doesn't put me as his priority, and does this also mean why the lesser text? I know he puts in effort in all our texts as they are basically long texts. We always have a lot to say, most of the time it's me. He said it's not a chore texting me as I asked him before.

Do you think there is a chance between us? what did I do wrong and how can I improve? Should I talk to him? I feel like he Is a little distant op, but this might be that he's busy with work as he Is working full time and I am doing my postgraduate degree.

Please help. I really like him and I don't want to lose him as a potential partner. I am lost and confused with what's going on. Especially with the 4th date coming up in a few days. We are going to cook together and watch a film either at home or cinema. Should I observe something? or try to lean in him again? I'm still hoping for a kiss. I was ceritain it would happen on the 3rd date but it didn't. Maybe the 4th but now I'm not sure anymore.

Thank you for reading.

If he is still talking to his ex, then that is a major problem. As a Pisces girl, we generally don't flirt and we feel betrayed easily if we see someone flirting with other people. If I were you and really wanted this Pisces guy, I would try hard not to even have the appearance of betraying him, I would not tell him about the other guys, and I would rebuff the advances of the other guys before they happened. It is possible that he was hurt when you told him about the other guys and told you about the ex to try to make you jealous, so if you want him for yourself, you should be outrageously clear that you want him and you won't share him.

I think it is also important to differentiate between his respect for you and sexuality. The only Pisces guy I dated was very passive and never made a move, and that in my mind has more to do with passivity than with respect. If at some point after you have healed from your past abuse, you will want a man to take charge, then you should tell the Pisces guy you would love to keep him around as a friend (he will probably love that, and it will allow you to get more information on that ex of his and how much she is still in the picture), and date around until you find a respectful man who is also ready to take charge as a man.