Pink Bird

I think you need to take this relationship as a lesson and become a better person for your next relationship with someone new. The damage is already done and staying together will only lead to another repeat in the same toxic cycle. Time for both of you to heal

There’s no rule. When it feels right. Different after every relationship.

Why were u so harsh to block him?

Just because u didn’t want a relationship or sex with him doesn’t mean you can’t be friends. But u went as far as to block him.

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Hiking is the new Netflix n chill or Starbucks date

This sounds like the title of a 48 hours episode

He can have mine if he wants but I don’t want his. Unless we r married. I have my dads location and I like to track him only to see how long until he’ll be here when I’m waiting for him

Can you prove your friend got you sick? No.

You could have gotten it from anyone. So the only person to blame is yourself for not wearing masks and social distancing.

Can you prove your friend got you sick? No.

You could have gotten it from anyone. So the only person to blame is yourself for not wearing masks and social distancing.

Be honest. Say I don’t think we are a match.

I respond to them but don’t extend the conversation. For example….

Him: hey, how was your day?
Me: Good. Thanks for asking.

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Trust is hard. I’ve also been hurt a lot also so when I text the guy I’m seeing n he suddenly stops for over an hour I get upset too. It’s honestly not okay to assume shit from a guy who hasn’t given you a reason to not trust him. So I’d say this is something you need to work on.

My question to you- I know you waited hours to write back, but what exactly did you say when you did? Could he interpret u were upset with him or that you were emotional? Because that’s the kind of stuff men ghost women for.

He can be indecisive so that causes me to mistrust him. However, that is something I need to work on. I struggle to trust anyone.

When I texted him back, I just told him to feel better, and I asked him if he wanted to reschedule or wait. He likely interpreted as me being upset, because I waited so long to respond. However, I wasn't emotional. I work very hard to control my emotions with him.

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I struggle with trust too. It’s hard to overcome.

After reading your response, I don’t feel he should have a reason to be upset with you and ghost you. I say move on. He sounds toxic.

New born n the moms not around? The rest of the facts cannot be good.

Trust is hard. I’ve also been hurt a lot also so when I text the guy I’m seeing n he suddenly stops for over an hour I get upset too. It’s honestly not okay to assume shit from a guy who hasn’t given you a reason to not trust him. So I’d say this is something you need to work on.

My question to you- I know you waited hours to write back, but what exactly did you say when you did? Could he interpret u were upset with him or that you were emotional? Because that’s the kind of stuff men ghost women for.

Kids do not know how to cope, control their emotions, build positive relationships naturally. It’s all about parenting or lack of it. Schools have prioritized SEL (social emotional learning) because so many children struggle with it, especially in low-income areas.

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Just ask him out. I once asked a Gem girl out (cap moon) and she was so weird. She left halfway through the date although it wasn't a date more like a friendly date. Then she kept in touch when all I wanted was to meet. Then one day out of nowhere she asked me out but I had a gf by that time. So idk. I'd say best is to be direct to avoid confusion, even if he isn't direct, you can be.

I don’t want to ruin the friendship, I’m blunt with my actions somewhat, I point out the things I like about him, I flirt with him and I half jokingly mention meeting up (which he responds in a similar manner).
I’m just worried that for him it is just friendship, you Aqua are a lil….hard to read. He seems to enjoy my company somewhat so I know that’s a good sign.


Also she didn’t deserve you that’s so mean

I don't hold grudges. Idk if it's an Aqua thing but being friendly is good for us in many ways. I don't think you'll ruin the friendship, but I know Geminis and air signs like to keep friends and people close cause we are communicative. But what if some other girl comes along, how will that affect your friendship?

funny you should say that, there lies my issue with aquas, I always seem to think theres more then bam outa no where you start dating someone but still try to talk to me and out of respect for the girl friend i take myself out of the equation.

There is another girl tbh, he spends alot of time with me and her. She talks to me but i know she sizes me up alot which makes me suspect she likes him. Hes actually told me clearly though hes not interested in her which makes me feel like he may like me because why else tell me? i never asked.
I think for now I'm going to try and arrange a meetup, see if the vibes are still there and go from there?

Yeah it's the only way of knowing with us. Air signs need motivation sometimes.

I honestly don’t get him, I get mixed signals 😩

Could be he's playing with you. He probably wants control. Depends if you're up for those type of games tho.

Or he isn't interested. Either way he knows what he's doing.

I don’t think he’s playing with me, he seems sweet but I’m starting to lean more towards he’s interested just not alot yknow? Like a curious thing, I practically begged to know him more only to get nothing in return so I’m gonna just give him the same energy from now on. He’s just a guy on the internet at the end of the day, he seemed cool. I liked but I’m not a fool lol.

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Are you asking specific questions or more general like tell me about yourself?

I say be patient and let it evolve naturally.