Cancer ?

What’s their to question? Seems obvious
The original was 10000% better.

New one was lame.
I’m in love with love. I love to feel it all the time. I love to give it all the time. But only if I have serious feelings for you
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i've also forgotten to mention that, he would usually tell me on his own accord that he's coming to my city but this time i had to ask him.. maybe im overanalyzing, idk.

ugh he's the only person i met in life that im most aggravated and confused about! lol.


I think cancers will be straightforward when they know exactly what they want. But when they are confused, they act wishy washy to figure it out. Usually not a good sign for the other person.

Right now he’s avoiding the uncomfortable conversation. He might not ever come back to talk about it. Maybe something else. But not that.



So now, I’m way more confused lol but definitely a sign to take things slow. After he said he’s coming to my city for the weekend again, I apologize for my previous text for expressing my emotions and that it was definitely wrong of me to drop all that on him, and I invited him to hang with me and my friends when he get in. Though he didn’t say anything about it we ended up discussing about him joining me.

Long story short, he texted me the next day that he couldn’t come to my city because of last minute work, and I told him I understand and he sent a smiley emoji. So we exchanged a few more words after. And his texting style seem to have changed, it’s a tad warmer now.

I was so sure I scared him away, yet after I apologized for my outburst of emotions he seemed to be a little different, like he’s slowly opening up again, as a matter of fact a very much little better than before. I’m also starting to write to him like how I would write to a friend and I’m no longer expecting to look forward to anything.

Did anyone experience something similar? Or have any insight about this? Lol I feel like he’s just so confusing.


I personally get close to someone and then it freaks me out so I pull away. Then eventually I get close again. Then pull away. Usually because I’m afraid.


Wow then I have absolutely no clue how to move forward with him then. It would just be throwing me all over the place. And I just don’t understand

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Have you ever asked him how he feels about you?
My bf never compliments me...
But I always catch him checking me out. And putting his arm around me in public. Actions speak louder than words.
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i've also forgotten to mention that, he would usually tell me on his own accord that he's coming to my city but this time i had to ask him.. maybe im overanalyzing, idk.

ugh he's the only person i met in life that im most aggravated and confused about! lol.


I think cancers will be straightforward when they know exactly what they want. But when they are confused, they act wishy washy to figure it out. Usually not a good sign for the other person.

Right now he’s avoiding the uncomfortable conversation. He might not ever come back to talk about it. Maybe something else. But not that.



So now, I’m way more confused lol but definitely a sign to take things slow. After he said he’s coming to my city for the weekend again, I apologize for my previous text for expressing my emotions and that it was definitely wrong of me to drop all that on him, and I invited him to hang with me and my friends when he get in. Though he didn’t say anything about it we ended up discussing about him joining me.

Long story short, he texted me the next day that he couldn’t come to my city because of last minute work, and I told him I understand and he sent a smiley emoji. So we exchanged a few more words after. And his texting style seem to have changed, it’s a tad warmer now.

I was so sure I scared him away, yet after I apologized for my outburst of emotions he seemed to be a little different, like he’s slowly opening up again, as a matter of fact a very much little better than before. I’m also starting to write to him like how I would write to a friend and I’m no longer expecting to look forward to anything.

Did anyone experience something similar? Or have any insight about this? Lol I feel like he’s just so confusing.
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I personally get close to someone and then it freaks me out so I pull away. Then eventually I get close again. Then pull away. Usually because I’m afraid.
He isn’t ready to let go of you completely, yet he doesn’t want you to get too attached to him because he doesn’t want a serious relationship with you.
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Op my aqua always says " if you want something just ask me" . Why donT you stop with the games and tell him what you want??


Funny. My aqua said the same thing once.
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I started dating an Aquarius!

Besides the birthday issue, do you have any other issues with him?


I just want him to be more direct and make a decision. He had Libra moon but he is way worst than me on this end! He is a sweet heart and I think I love him but then I have to ask myself do I really love him if constantly teaching him is messing with me so much?
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No one is perfect. Everyone has flaws. But then again there are deal breakers. Things you absolutely cannot live with. Can you live with him being less direct than you desire?
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i've also forgotten to mention that, he would usually tell me on his own accord that he's coming to my city but this time i had to ask him.. maybe im overanalyzing, idk.

ugh he's the only person i met in life that im most aggravated and confused about! lol.


I think cancers will be straightforward when they know exactly what they want. But when they are confused, they act wishy washy to figure it out. Usually not a good sign for the other person.

Right now he’s avoiding the uncomfortable conversation. He might not ever come back to talk about it. Maybe something else. But not that.

The guy has the meet most of my requirements for me to consider dating him.

The only sign requirement is that he’s not a Sagittarius. I like them as friends but other than that, they are just tooo fiery and bold for my soft watery side.
Just stayyyyy 😁
I started dating an Aquarius!

Besides the birthday issue, do you have any other issues with him?
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It seems like things went downhill right after you met his family and friends. My guess is that they don’t like u too much and that impacted his feelings somewhat. Not entirely though because he keeps talking to u.


I am not sure too. But I know I was pretty quiet and reserved. Met the sister and bffs a few times thereafter too and they seem okay with me. So I really dont know.

Was there any other major events that occurred right before he stopped talking to you as much?


Nothing happened. I guess he just got busy with work? And I am not sure if he got unhappy when I asked him if he was really that busy.
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As a cancer myself, I’d actually find comfort in you asking because it shows you care about me.

Cancers are jealous creatures. Did anything slightly make him jealous maybe when u were out or even on social media?
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It seems like things went downhill right after you met his family and friends. My guess is that they don’t like u too much and that impacted his feelings somewhat. Not entirely though because he keeps talking to u.


I am not sure too. But I know I was pretty quiet and reserved. Met the sister and bffs a few times thereafter too and they seem okay with me. So I really dont know.
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Was there any other major events that occurred right before he stopped talking to you as much?
If he works a lot, that explains everything. He’s trying to be successful. He’s doing it for his future and that possibly includes you. Be supportive. Be loving. Show him you appreciate his efforts and can be independent too. Believe me, you will enjoy your time together so much more when you do get those opportunities to do so.
Traffic in and out of Seattle is annoying

But I love the I90 route