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It's all about the chest! And his hair is pretty awesome too.
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Peter Wingfield. .I am on a retro highlander binge...I am weird.


Also Michael Praed...



It's the romantic vibe isn't it? That's what I love 😊
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Al Paccino!
Surprise!!!!
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lol not too surprised. How long has he been your crush?
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A cowboy who can dance! Dreamy!
Do you at least ask him if he has stds?? That's my biggest concern with sleeping with someone too soon.

Your approach was way too dramatic for a cap. He doesn't have time to deal with that. It's also pushing him away. Honestly, I don't think it's a big deal that he didn't message you that night. I'm not sure why you do.
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These pickup lines got me 😂😂
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Something made her uncomfortable and we hide when we feel uncomfortable. We also don't really like to break up or tell guys we just aren't interested because we don't want to hurt their feelings. If you keep reaching out to her, she might eventually tell you that. So either way, it's not going to make a difference.

You feel this way because you thought the date went really well and you thought your chemistry was good. But you were high so I think your perception was way off.
It's not exclusive until you have that conversation!
I have a Scorpio moon and I used to be very jealous/possessive. Maybe that's a common thing?

First of all, I think it relates to anxiety. You could try anxiety medication. I have glaucoma and take eyedrops 3 times a day. My medication for morning/afternoon is a beta blocker, which is found in some anxiety medications. So basically I noticed my nervous energy and jealousy was significantly reduced after I started taking it. I even spoke to my doctor about how I felt more relaxed about others things that made me nervous, like public speaking. He said this is a normal and positive side effect. So maybe anxiety medication can help. *beta blockers help block adrenaline

Time helps, growing confidence, feeling secure, trusting your partner.

Has he given you any reason to doubt his faithfulness.
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Oh I consider the other signs too. Daron is an Aquarius Venus like the cap I'm talking to. So that's partially why I seek his advice the most.


You guys got back together?
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We recently started talking and hanging out again.
A guy's Bumble profile: pizza is my second favorite thing to eat in bed
I thought Yasmin had bad bad health side effects. I take beyaz. No weight gain for me.
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Is teena a guy or a girl?


Lol!! That was a message from another user called yupvirgoo.
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Oh lol... I obviously didn't read the title 😂
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@pinkbird03

I've learnt a lot over the years. There you go if nothing else you have a friendship.

I know if I text my cap he'll respond but after what I've said lately and after last time we spoke he said he'll text soon. I feel he should reach out. It can't be one sided. I guess I'm mirroring his behaviour. I also know he had a lot on right now so I don't want to bother him either.

I think because they are workaholics that's how they get their distance. My dad is a Cap and when I was a kid he used to be a workaholic but when he did have time with us it was quality time.

Yes I'd say cap men aren't for the faint hearted. I'm Aqua Venus and Merc do i do like my own space sometimes. My cap is also sag moon so stick that with cap sun and space is what they like lol plus he's always had careers that means he travels. Although now he's getting older I think he's starting to see the work/life balance is needed. He's always had careers that are full on and require full dedication.


You're so strong!! I tend to cave in and message him because he's not great at texting me first a lot. Although this time around I'm not messaging him every day and I see it's making a difference. I'm waiting at least a few days because I now realize how important that is to him. I think you see that too and definitely put his needs above yours, which is very kind and caring of you. I hope he recognizes that!
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Reflection is good. You can learn a lot from it. Have you ever told him how you feel when he's distant? I don't think there's anything wrong with asking him to communicate a little more. You are in a long distance relationship after all. Communicate is 90% of your relationship right now and I would think that gives you a lot of comfort. I would think that's what you "need" right since you don't have any other perks that non-long distance relationships have. He might not understand that until you explain it to him.

I had a serious relationship 6 years ago and it ended badly so since then my heart has been guarded and I've been extremely picky about the men I date. Besides the cap, I dated a lot of men for two months or less. The cap was my longest. But with him, I was always nervous because I wanted him to like me and I didn't want to screw up. I literally overthought everything. I still do, but this time around I'm totally being myself and he can like me or not. I realize now how important that is. Then this last guy was a cancer like me and I felt beyond comfortable with him- to share everything, do anything. I really loved that and that was the first promising relationship I thought I was going to have. Until I learned that he lied about some things and it just didn't work... I was totally bummed. so I do feel defeated right now. I'm disappointed that I can't meet someone great and have the kind of serious relationship I dream of...

He's only been like this the last couple of month I guess that's why I've found it difficult. We were talking nearly every day before that. In the past when he'd go distant, I brought it up and then he started being more attentive and warning me if he'd be away for a week with work. You're right communication is key for us. Right now it feels like their isn't any. Yes the other week after that incident I told him that I found it hard and that's when he apologised. I don't think he's up for talking to anyone at the moment. He's a head down, get on with it kind of guy, when under stress. Maybe he feels like he doesn't want to burden me with everything.

Sorry to hear about that. My marriage wasn't the best but I learnt and grown from it. I know what it's like to be guarded I was the same. Until I met my cap but he just made me feel at ease straight away. I never had a guard up with him. We were both just open and honest from the start. We were very easy in each other's company.

Yes he probably seen straight through it aswell or felt something wasn't right. Don't ever not be yourself, The right person will like you for who you are. You seem lovely. If they don't then they aren't right for you it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. When you go through bad relationships it's easy to blame yourself but the reality is they were the problem not you. People come into your life as a lesson or a blessing. The cancer guy was a lesson, not all bad came from it. You realised that you can open up and be yourself and not be so guarded. He turned out to be a liar and that's his problem not yours. He's the one with the issues.

Now your back in touch with your cap just relax a bit and enjoy it. Don't over think it, over analyse it. The best things in life are worth waiting for. You have the right attitude now. If he doesn't like you for you, then he's not the right guy. Trust your gut and go with the flow.

Thank you for your kind words! I'm starting to feel better 😊 Awhile after we broke up I started to act more like myself and he didn't think I was being genuine! He said something like that to me once. I had to explain it to him. Yes, I'm just going to go with the flow. If anything, he's a great friend to me.

Only sometimes he's a little distant. Like he might take hours to respond, but he always does. I'm kind of curious what it's like to live with a cap man. How they can have the distance they love while living together? I wonder if that's a challenge for them. Also a challenge for the woman too.
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I'm 27. He's 37. Age doesn't bother either of us. Focusing on yourself is good and peaceful in a way. I've been having a lot of guy problems lately. I was dating someone else not too long ago for a month and it didn't work out. I just don't have much luck, which is why I don't really have my hopes up for the cap. It's just so hard to find a good guy like him. Who knows. Everything is a question for me. What are you questioning right now?


I was just curious about the age thing that's all. My cap is 5 years older than me.

Yes I've just found that I've started taking up Yoga again and just started thinking and reflecting. My mind goes at 100 mph usually. Always ticking over thinking about work, the kids, my to do list etc where as I've found myself allowing to think about my emotions and thoughts rather than just pushing them to the back of my mind. I'm not a talker when it comes to my emotions so I find writing them down helps. I know I talk a lot on here but that's because no one knows me. I'm extremely private in RL.

I guess I've been thinking about my relationship. I've struggled with his aloofness of late even though I understand the reason behind it. He throws himself into his work to stop him thinking about what's going on at home but it feels like he's forgotten about me too sometimes. I know it's not intentional but it just sucks at the minute. When we had a chat after he forgot my birthday I told him that I felt like he didn't care. His reply was "of course I care, how can you think that I don't, my head has been up my ass lately but that's no excuse, so I'm sorry". I guess I just have to accept it's his way of dealing with things and the fact I'm so far away, I kind of feel a bit helpless. I guess I'm thinking how long is it going to be like this for? etc I don't know, I usually just go with the flow but this retrograde got me questioning and analysing everything lol I've even been thinking about my marriage and my ex (not in that way) we've been separated for years but just reflecting I suppose.

Have you had any long relationships in the past? why do you think you've not had much luck? wrong type of guy? sounds like you feel defeated as if you think you're the reason they haven't worked out?
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Reflection is good. You can learn a lot from it. Have you ever told him how you feel when he's distant? I don't think there's anything wrong with asking him to communicate a little more. You are in a long distance relationship after all. Communicate is 90% of your relationship right now and I would think that gives you a lot of comfort. I would think that's what you "need" right since you don't have any other perks that non-long distance relationships have. He might not understand that until you explain it to him.

I had a serious relationship 6 years ago and it ended badly so since then my heart has been guarded and I've been extremely picky about the men I date. Besides the cap, I dated a lot of men for two months or less. The cap was my longest. But with him, I was always nervous because I wanted him to like me and I didn't want to screw up. I literally overthought everything. I still do, but this time around I'm totally being myself and he can like me or not. I realize now how important that is. Then this last guy was a cancer like me and I felt beyond comfortable with him- to share everything, do anything. I really loved that and that was the first promising relationship I thought I was going to have. Until I learned that he lied about some things and it just didn't work... I was totally bummed. so I do feel defeated right now. I'm disappointed that I can't meet someone great and have the kind of serious relationship I dream of...