Pisces man wishy washy

I live in Asia. Earlier this year I started going out with a pisces foreign man who was working here for a few months. We had a great time and we sort of traveled together towards the end of his stay here.

Before he left the country for good, he came back to my city for one day just to spend the last 24 hrs with me. I told him I wasn't too fond of his thick beard so he asked me to take him to a barber. When we got there, he told the barber to shave it however I wanted it because he was doing it for me. When I dropped him at the airport, he said, don't wait for me. In spite of saying so, he kissed me passionately and hugged me for the longest time.

We kept in touch after he left but there were times where he wld disappear for a few days or weeks. I just kept busy with work. And then in October, I flew out to him for a three week visit.

The first few days I was there, he was distant but I stayed with him so things soon got back to what it used to be, this time even better and we got incredibly close. He started opening up to me and telling me he really cares for me and will continue so and that he cannot see or hear abt me with another man.

The last few days I was there were the most romantic days of my life. He treated me like a queen and was always hugging me and kissing me and telling me he cares for me. He also gave me his pillow to take home, along with a tshirt that said "a piece of my heart".

And then he told me he doesn't want to do a long distance thing and I shld forget abt him. When I got back home, we kept in touch and he said he missed. We talked for every day until I said I was actively pursuing a job over in his country.

He disappeared and all the warmth disappeared along with him. And then one day we spoke and he said we weren't on the same page and that he missed me maybe for a day after I left and now he feels nothing for me. He told me not to move out there because he doesn't see us working out if I moved out there. It's difficult to digest especially when he's the one who's been incredibly intense with his feelings for me before this.

After this call, he texted me about doing some long distance business with me. Nowadays we talk only about business but he still keeps in touch. Whenever we call each other, he's warm and friendly but keeps the chit chat about business.

I'm sorry this is so long but if you saw us together when we were together, you'd be as confused as I am now. Why reject me if I'm willing to move for him but still try to keep me around with silly business deals? Probably nothing to do with him being a Pisces? Is he just using me to make side money or is he just trying to keep me around while he looks for something better out there? Help!

well ..... he told you three times that he didn't really want to be with you. Just move on

I forgot to add the fact that in September, I got really busy with work so I didn't exactly text him as much and he didn't either. I never complain about him hardly texting or the fact that he sometimes doesn't reply my texts.

But when I was with him in Oct, he says he bumped into an ex in September and went out with her couple of times. And he casually added that I didn't text him much in September so that's why he strayed.

Lol it was my fault apparently. What a joke. He said he sent her off on her way when he told her I was coming in October.

I didn't argue with him, I didn't start a fight. I just ignored him for a few hours and he suddenly went "I'm aware there are a lot of questions regarding where we are and what we're doing. But since you never bring it up, I'm just gonna tell you. You know I care about you right?"

This was the night before my flight home.

Juz dont buy any pisces guy manouvre. Apparently theyre all the same. They keeps their ex'es around, and then got back to you, then perhaps meet another new. But still keeps you.
Ive been surrounded by too many pisces over mylife, male-female, their highlights actually pretty the same. Is juz the boys Im very aware of, highly slicky on their games, mixed with insecure, and commitment phobic.
To me its eye for an eye. He cheat I'll cheat. Theyll makes you the hard victim, so they can step allover you. Meanwhile youre feeling miserable, they controls on you by his abusive distant emo and being not fully-present in the relationship anymore.
Its a kid playin afterall.
Dont get too serious with pisces male.
Ignore him as much will do you comfort.
By time, youll get the real man. Not some back and forth slicky fish.
Okay, thats it 😄

He's wastin your time. Tell him straight up if u want to take thid seriously or not. Give him 3 days to think about it and then go from there. ( block his azz if hes still actinng the same ) using u whenever he likes and pleases while keeping u hanging on the edge of pain.

Wow some guy he is. #fukhim

Posted by Vixen2
I am always suspicious of postings the contain the textbook word "wishy washy" ...it screams troll and is totally inaccurate.

Lol not trolling. Just a lack of a better word I guess.