Pisces men....are they really spirtual?

I am a Gem girl who fell in love with a Pisces. We dated 5 years ago and I dumped him. We then ran into one another 5 years later, and have been seeing eachother for the past year. He just enlightened me that he is not in love with me and has never been in love with me. I asked him what was it? Was it a mere sexual relationship? He said that it was what it was? I guess my question is this. If Pisces are so spirtual then why do they use woman for sex,and why do they get so mean at times? I think that is not the spirtual thing that comes from God. Sounds to me its more of an spirtually evil thing. Anybody want to comment.Oh, by the way he told me he loved me and not to tell anyone and that he did not want it to go to my head. What kind of games do they play?
FRUSTRATED GEM!!!

I'm sorry to hear that yet another warm hearted lady has fallen for the dreamy Pisces male. They have a very hard time commiting to long term relationships. I've heard that time and time again about the Pisces men. They seem to captivate a lot of loving hearts yet want to remain single and swim freely. There isnt any easy explanation for their actions other than what I call fear of being hooked. Find someone who wont play games with your emotions. In my opinion a Gem lady with a Pisces male spells "frustration." As a Gem lady I'm sure you have an active social life. My advice would be to let that fish swim long and far away from you. Sorry.

The Pisces guy I work with is really full of himself or so it would seem...

I learned from my Step-Dad, who is Pisces, that while he seems to be the "Macho, can-handle-anything-that-comes-my-way" etc., as well as being "in-tune" and spiritual, that they are insecure and feel vulnerable...this is something that it took me awhile to learn...it is not like they tell you this!

I am Aquarius and we are described as "detached"...to me, the reason I am this way is because I feel great passion, but do not want to scare the other person...or make them feel obligated...so, I act like things are no big deal...even when they could be a HUGE big deal to me...
I guess each has their own thing to overcome...

I perhaps wasn't much help.
Take Care.
Star

Gosh, been there done that! Pisces are a piece or work. Indecisive, indirect and emotionally inhibited. That is what I have encountered with my fish. Mine would never tell me how he felt about me. He even called love the "L" word.

Even so, he is very spiritual and wants to walk the higher road. He just doesn't know how to get there. I believe Pisces men get mean when they feel the most vunerable. They don't want to get hurt and they really don't want to be guilty of hurting anyone. Basically, I think that this type of Pisces men are passive-agressive. I wouldn't waste too much time on this one. Besides, why did you dump him in the first place?

CL

CL
I agree that they get mean when they feel the most vulnerable...good way to put it!

Take Care!
Star

CL, Have you moved past and left that Pisces? Or do you still love him?

I let my fish go a couple of weeks ago. Do I still love him? Of course. When a Cancer loves, they love deeply and completely. It's a love that does not die easily. It can be damaged and sometimes blown apart, but there's always a little piece left behind.

CL

I met five pisces men at different intervals, and periods, and sorry to say that they ALL cheated on their wives. However, they cheated with one other female ( at a time ), and called her their 'mistress'. They seem to love to feel 'tangled' in a web of 'lies', and adore playing macho, when the truth is that they are romantic, passionate, sensitive, and ...spiritual. They just don't know how to balance these out

holy tapdancing jesus.

allow me to apply my own experience to the rationale presented here - every scorpio i've ever met has been manipulative, sadistic and unstable. yes, i want to have freaky sex with a lot of them, but they're jackasses, so f*** all scorpios right? because, surely if the HANDFULL of them i've known were assheads, ALL of them must be inclined to be assheads, yes? scorpio must be an asshead sign? can you just feel the sarcasm here?

c'mon.

realize that the way you view people says more about yourself than it does about them. nobody is objective about relationships. if you've been cheated on, don't assume there's some inherent inclination in an entire group of people to do so. i don't think astrology can be that specific. it can tell you about the larger, sort of macro-inclinations, like sensitivity or leadership, but not things like a predisposition for breaking commitments.

it's easy to dump on other signs, but wouldn't you feel compelled to defend your sign if someone chose to rag on it for a while?

in my opinion, there are successful pisces and unsuccessful pisces. by that, i mean there are those fish who manage to balance their polarities most of the time, and those who cannot. i know a lot of pisces, some of them are awesome, and some of them are just sad. i happen to be a successful pisces, so i know for a fact we can be godlike. 🙂

also, signs seem to be very much linked to circumstance (like location). for example, if a pisces lives in a city or state where a sort of macho life style is held in especially high esteem, then you've probably got a large group of pisces who feel it necessary to submerge their sensitivities.

so i guess my advice would be to travel more. s*** i dunno. what do you think?

-ichthyo

Dear Godlike Ichthyo!

You are good! So true, people live what they know! And, there are differences in areas right here in the U.S....

Every sign has good and bad...as you know!

Your Friend and Supporter!
Star

OK...I was a bit sarcastic with my opening...
Please understand it is just my weird sense of humor...

Your friend,
Star

word up sister.

i feel the humor. i feel it good.

- ichthyo

I fell for a fish man too. He had me coming and going. I never knew where I really stood. Non-committal and very aloof. How is that in touch with one's spirit? I think a big part about fish is the ish part in selfish! The world revolves around them. Well, my world doesn't any more.

Yes, the fish I fell for was also a cheat. Good thing he finally let his wife go so she could get on with her life.

blasphemy!

you all must be fishing in the wrong body of water! the fish up here in the northwest are messianic. 😉

pisces are not naturally inclined toward infidelity. i'm not, and neither are the other 4 pisces i know.

however, we can't stand dependent lovers. if a partner is more dependant than we are, we get bored and look for something stronger. it's sort of pathetic, but we really do live to serve. we want people who are more independent than ourselves, because it keeps us wanting more. as for not knowing where you stand with a pisces, or not knowing how he/she feels...i don't know what to say. i'm not like that at all...i always know what i'm feeling and i can express myself clearly. anyway, before you write off an entire zodiac sign, reflect on how YOU functioned in the relationship, because you can't blame the other person entirely for things not working out. it's really amazing how quick people are to exclude themselves from the causes and symptoms of breaking up with someone.

but maybe i should just speak for myself, because i could be an exception. like, if pisces were a religious order, i might be jesus. 🙂

sorry, sorry. i'm just playin' around, but really...pisces rock and i'm your proof.

-ichthyo (STAR, i'm really not this cocky in real life)

Hey!

I think you are hilarious! I loved that! "Messianic"...who elso would even think of such a word??!!

On a more serious note, I think you bring up some valid points. Real valid points. It is not a one-sided thing...being together or breaking up...and how the two interacted with each other...

Haven't you met self-centered women who couldn't see beyond themselves to have any clue about how their man is feeling? Or the same in reverse regarding men? It is not always a sun sign trait for heaven sake! (Mentioned "heaven" just to make you feel at home!!)

If a person jumps around and reads the boards, there are women complaining about every sun sign...some more than others perhaps...

I try to understand relationships myself...but, I still say that there is more to it than just astrology...
Such as how they were raised (nurture) and if they were the favorite or the least favorite (many times this is a perception!), birth order, life experiences, etc...

Maybe they have BAD Rising Signs...and it is not the Sun Sign that is responsible..

Anyway, we may not be able to convince them with words...

The Pisces men I know are into their families and faithful to their wives. They are happy!

You are a good example, Ichthyo! More power to ya!

Take Care!
Star

totally! totally...

and thank you for providing positive fish examples. we do so dearly need more...

i wish some of the other pisces males would speak up more often. aw well....they're probably out making sweet love and inflicting multiple orgasms like there's no tomorrow.

...which is exactly what i intend to do tonight, to my virgo girlfriend. HUP HUP HUZZAH!

-ichthyo (star, was that more information than you needed?)

Ichthyo!

Rock On!!

Star

That sounds so true.When I knew my Pisces 5 yrs ago he was sensitive,loving, passionate and kind. I met him once again 5 years later and he is not the same person. He has been hurt alot, and I can see this pain. I love him so much. I know that you have to "compliment" them, but how can I comliment him when he plays the "disappearing' act all the time?
He has been "bouncing" at a bar, and I swear he has picked up that "mancho" don't give a crap attitude. I see through all that, because the real person was what I knew 5 years ago.Ya know? I say...Will the REAL Pisces please stand up—?? I am not giving up because he means the world to me.
He also has an ex that he lived with for 5 years, which has alot to do with the "confusion" that is going on in his head. Should I walk away? My head says "YES' my heart says "NO". Do I listen to my heart or head?
IN DEEP WITH A PISCES!!!
K

I think that they are very "in tuned" when God does whisper to them. They have such a clear mind when it comes to the "spitual world". So let me get this straight.Jesus spoke in parables, and it seems to me that Pisces speak in riddles, but in this lifetime, and here on earth I call it playing games with peoples feelings. I know that he does not trust me, and I have tried to show over and over again that I love him and that he is the ONE For me. I am very independent. I have to have that "love" that is deep. I don't understand why they are scared of the REAL love that they are looking for, and want so much.Do they want it but feel that it does not exist? I love Pisces, but I do know that they are very "mysterious" and I am not about watching a magic show all my life. I can go to a theater for that, right?
I just don't understand why people are so afraid to love and to be loved? Has anyone seen the Moulin Rouge?
-K

In the Aquarian realm, we are afraid of vulneralbility...not that I exactly understand it...
We can give love so easily to our family, our good friends...but, when it comes to a special love, then, we don't say shit!

Not that it is right, or understandable...but, at least for a time...our heart is in it...but, our head won't acknowlege until their is evidence that the feeling is returned!...
Something like that!
Good Luck to you!
Just one word of caution, the most stable people in a relationship (regardless of sign) are those who took some time to recuperate and just be themselves in between relationships...and I mean years...at the very least, one year...
The time to reflect and retrospect is very important and prevents some of the "making the same mistakes"...
Well, Best To You!
Star

I am a pisces man, and I would have to say we are very spiritual. As for us being devoted lovers... when I fall, I fall hard.
Have actually just gotten through a scenario with a gemini woman whom weaved so many tales that I didn't know if I was coming or going!
This was the second time around when she said she was ready for a commitment.
I'd have to say that everyones situation is different, yes... astrology can be a guide, but it is also where each person is with there life that can help determine the outcome.
I will agree that if I get pushed too far then I will react in a manner of a verbal tidalwave, stating everything that the other may not want to hear or accept about themselves.
But... oh well, you live and you learn.

Hi Joe!

I agree...not only is it astrology...there are many facets and that is only one...

Where a person is at in their life is a BIG one! What they have learned and what they are WILLING to learn! If they are having too much fun being a f**kup, they will probably remain a f**kup!

Didn't realized you had added to this post 'til today...

Take Care!
Star

Ok...As a Pisces femme fatale I must add something...WE DO HAVE PROBLEMS with commitment...Bottom line. My father ia a pisces and a womanizer...We are indecisive and are often thrill-seekers. So, unfortunately, you must keep us entertained...ahhh..I mean, enthralled...ahhh... I mean, at the top of your list. We are insecure about receiving and returning love. REJECTION is always first and foremost on our minds. Better to be the leaver than the leavee, you know? ATTENTION. That's the key and be just as elusive as they are. Keep us in our place and keep us guessing...then you'll keep your Pisces! By the way, about those Scorpios...they make us look like ANGELS! Peace and Love

wow, what a group of perceptive fish and fish-ers. Of course, Pisces men (and women) are spirtual. However, a succesful relationship with a pisces requires patience, a sense of humour and definitely an open mind. We do swim in some strange and sad patterns at times, but we always come back with open arms (fins). try a fish dinner somenight, you will LOVE it.

okay, again a piscies male. i love it though. when i fall in love that's all that i can see. i swear the truth. i don't think i'll ever cheat i hope not 2 but this from the lonely kid hoping to catch a date someday.