pisces men - what's with the silence?

Hi there. I have a problem....my pisces man is giving me the silent treatment! He doesn't respond to text msgs or e-mails, he's hardly said anything to me for the past 6 weeks! He is driving me crazy. Can anyone explain this behaviour, yet he has said that I have captured him and that the feelings mutual!!!! help.

I'm dating a pisces and I have to tell you. The silence is always gonna be. They hate answering loaded questions and having to explain themselves frustrates them.

I was with a Pisces for 13 years - it was awful. Much of the time he looked like the sky had fallen in - he had his own personal raincloud which hovered only over him whenever he walked in. He could then walk out and go elsewhere and be totally happy and jolly, thus giving the impression that I and I alone was destroying his life.
Being a patient Taurus, I spent years of time gently exploring to try and see what was wrong. Never did get to the bottom of it, but after thirteen years and three children, he left and married his first ever girlfriend who (being an Aries) had kept her virginity in waiting for him for all that time!
What a waste of my life *that* was. Silences - take 'em or leave 'em IMHO.

Thanks ladies for your input but I am not prepared, any longer, to put up with his behaviour. That was one of the shortest romances on record!

man, what an @*!~&*@!#
just can't take it.

Ok, plain and simple to answer all questions..You taurus/aries, were with a Pisces for a 13 years !!!!!!!! no wonder he was depressed with you...no offense but your boy psices lost the that BLAZING flame for you, after the 1st 4-6 years...yet alone 13 😐
He was depressed becuased you backed into a predictable life, that had no change, no spontaneity, no uncertainty, no imblanace...this is what a Pisces Male NEEDS from time to time, or else we will get dpressed
As for the siletn treatment..he wasn't doing it to get back at you...he's already adjusted to a life style without you....he was doing what we do best....he went cold trukey on you, to numb his feelings and start moving on...got to love our super powers 😄

Hi Evo Fish...thanks for the insight into his behaviour. I have one question...why doesn't he just tell me its over! Being a Gemini this not knowing is driving me crazy, the constant not knowing is really eating away at me. It doesn't help that every time I see him my stomach flips!

just confront him...

i normally use that silent treatment as an early warning.. something is wrong...when confronted i say whats wrong.. these days directly 🙂

mind you people are different...it may not be over.. BUT may be on its way out.. maybe there's something that may be done..

all the best noproblem

Pisces male is regarded as the most misunderstood sign, becuase soo much is going on in our head, you can't directly ask us to open up...we are the FINAL sign of the zodiac and so we LITERALLY hold the q

Thank you Pisces boy for your help. Things changed after a lunchtime liason we had, I was nervous/scared of being caught (its all very hush hush) and I think I worried him. I also get cramp at the wrong time and that has been mentioned by him along with me keep jumping up and looking out of the window, am not good at this secret stuff, having been a good girl up until I met him!! If I was to be honest with myself, I think I was just some fun to brighten up his winter.

Pisces male is regarded as the most misunderstood sign, becuase soo much is going on in our heads, you can't directly ask us to open up...we are the FINAL sign of the zodiac and so we LITERALLY hold the qualities of every sign before us.So we get the secretive nature from Scorpio.

Ulitmately IF you want to keep a Pisces man INTERESTED, be affectionate, but subtly challenge him from time to time..If you have an artsy side, SHOW, he will fall for you instantly, espceially if your REALLY passionate about it.Be gentle with them but no punishing or underminding them, just approach from a n "understanding" point of view, when dealing with arguments or confrontations, they will open up to you instantly if the sense the sincerity...

noproblem...

if you have any feeling for him... confront him...
DO NOT ACT based on WHAT YOU THINK... incomplete information can lead you to actions that you might regret...

undoubtedly your condition is a bit uncomfortable to say the least 😢
but really i think the only thing that can help you now is to confront him.. but do it politely and definitely DO NOT GIVE the BULL CHARGE 🙂

me piscean males do not like to bullied...

if he has something for you... he has to say else he risks losing you.. but if you are not that important to him.. then ask yourself a question... does he really deserves a place in your heart.... I DONT THINK SO...

having said all that....
you are the only person who KNOWS the situation best.. and how to handle it & him 🙂

may the force be with you 😉

I think my problem is that I am too open with him. We used to text frequently, 30 odd txts a night, and amongst these I would declare my undying love for him...I know its wrong to do that but I can't help it. I hate Fridays and Saturdays when he is out doing his other work, in case something happens to him in the night. I only send the odd text now and then. The last Friday I texed him, I made myself look a complete idiot. I have never been so in love with somebody in my life, and I am sure that I overwhelm him and all this silence is his way of coping with me. I sent him one text and what I said shocked him so much he dropped his phone and broke it, I need physchiatric (I bet that is spelt wrong) help!! If I am not careful I will turn into a bunny boiler and I don't want to do that as I will loose him completely. Can anyone tell me how I can be so completely in love with this man. I even said he made me boody and I am 51 for heavens sake! I am such a sad person!!

if you think you overwhelm him....then give him some breathing space...

i would have felt the same....

too much of anything is not good 🙂

and i dont think you are in love... a simple case of infatuation .. but it does not help.. does it

I have taken a step back the past 5 months but its been agony. I love to see him, just knowing that he is here at work makes me happy and if I get a text or e-mail ...well..they all know something nice has happend here as it makes me really happy. I should act my age and be an old granny, at home knitting things for my grandchildren. Still....I have my memories of such wonderful lunch hours. The very thought of them give me a warm glow.Bliss..

🙂