Unforgiving Pisces Male

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by YummyMummy on Monday, September 19, 2005 and has 20 replies.

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@YummyMummy
21 YearsScorpio

I am a scorpio woman (18/11/1977) dating/seeing whatever-ing a Pisces Male (22/02/1974)...

We message each other during the day and so forth...because he's work doesn't allow him to be near a telephone...mmm

Are Pisces men always so unforgiving....?

I nearly love him....but my Scorpio Intuition tells me to chill....he will be back *grinz*

Please shed some light for me!!!

Thanks
YumMum

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@YummyMummy
21 YearsScorpio

UNforgiving....as in like....

Ok Last week there was a major breakdown communication....nearly 4 days...and not a word...I sent a sarcastic message...got a swift reply...he was out of airtime...he's grandfather and mother was ill...he's son was in and out of hospital...so I apologised for the sarcasm...but remained adamant on the fact that it's "common courtesty" to let ppl kno what's going on....

He's also got so much happening...moving house at the end of september...etc..etc...

How can I charm him back into my lair?

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Ah,okay,so listen to your intuition about chilling out.Understanding thier position and playing nice is usually the best thing to do with those things.Wait it out a little for things to settle down.

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@YummyMummy
21 YearsScorpio

Thanks....I have kept communication open though...I sent a message this morning sayi ng good morning...and was contemplating calling him from the office just to say HI and see what reception I get...

He's a crisis junking though...He's grandfather is in he's 80's and has had 2 strokes...He's mum lives with him to look after the grandfather...he's got a 3yr old son from a previous relationship...

I am willing to come somewhere in the TOP 5 but I deserve better then 11th or 12th down the line!

So you think I should lie low and let him come to me?

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@Kupo
21 Years

I find that Pisces always want what they can't have, but I suppose that is true for all humankind. In my opinion if someone really likes someone, then they will take the initiative...

I say just wait. You can always tell if someone really likes you or not. I believe sometimes astrology can be a self-fulfilling prophecy. We read how harmonious and divine a relationship can be, but sometimes it just isn't true.

Take a step back, see his actions and reactions objectively, and see from there.

If you're wondering which sign this advice is coming from, I'm a Cancer.

Good luck.

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@Kupo
21 Years

Kupo is what a moogle says, it's from a game called final fantasy. Sorry to disappoint u, I'm not from Hawaii. 😢

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

oh yeah,yummymummy,you could keep communication open still but I don't think you should worry about being last on his list unless theres more to it than that.Im probably gonna get considered a pisces basher for this but they don't handle things too well when it comes to feelings and emtions,they will break down,panic,run away,snap at people,etc etc when things get crazy.I guess,mainly my point is to wait it out a little and just see what happens rather than beating yourself up over his moods right now unless it's an obvious something that stands out.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

I say you continue to putting charms on him. This will be funny for you too. Because with all those problems in his head, he will hardly notice you. Just don't go inactive.

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@Kupo
21 Years

Yummy,

I forgot to add that 4 days isn't that big of a deal. If you guys just started to date, it shouldn't be the source of a big problem. Maybe you should be upset if you guys dated for 2 years or something.

Sometimes, when I'm having problems I don't contact anyone for awhile too. I can definitely understand where he's coming from.