Pisces woman problem :)

OK, first of all my english can be quite a mess and hope you have patience to read.Everything started 5 years ago, I met this girl (Pisces) over the internet, everything was so lame, she came out from nowhere, I was young, we were from a different city. She was ''in love'' with a guy but never had a relationship with him. Day by day we got so close, speaking everyday until I have started to feel smth for her, distance was the bigger problem between us, she is a mess since I know her, always heart broken. After a year I think we started to get a weird behavior, talking like we had a relationship but we were just friends, we were close, she was jealous sometimes seeking for my attention.Meanwhile she got into a lame relationship which lasted 2 or 3 weeks just because a guy cried for her, ended up very fast. She had feeling for me too but after 3 years of loving this girl without seeing her in real life, a girl came up, I was so tired of leaving like this, tired of hearing same old crap ''we are so far away, i like that guy'' but I am jelous, I want your attention etc so I thought that it's about time to move on hoping that I will be happy, I neede to be fixed.

Ok, the funny thing came when she saw that slowly but surely smth is starting between me and that girl (that girl used to be her friend, and she was in my city) and boom, she asked me to try, to start something.I told her ''no, I don't think it will work '' being so tired of hearing about that guy and all of the excuses.Pisces girl found a guy, this is funny, we both found someone almost at the same time, I was with that girl 2 years and a half but pisces girl was with that boy almost one month, Gemini guy, ended because of pisces girl which have a weird behavior of treating with indifference, the guy was so sick of her and he said ''end''..what would you expect from a Gemini?My girl was a Gemini too. We had worst fights, bad words between us but we ALWAYS came back one to another, we always had relationship conversations, Pisces girl always told me that she cares about me, that she have feelings, that the Gemini guy was supposed to replace ME.To be straight, I feel like me and this girl, we share a strong bond, I have ended my relationship because of her, no matter how perfect was my girl, the pisces was my true love, the only one I want and I think I will never fight for someone like I did for her, I have always ignored her stupid behavior, acid words, she always came back to me, telling me that she will come to my city for me to study, making plans etc and she was so happy.

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Ok, the disaster came after I broke up with my girl for my old love, after one or two weeks, the pisces girl turned into a cold girl with me, LOL ! Telling me that everything she said dissappeared, that she stopped to feel this and she can't be with me because she can't forget his ex. I mean, his ex was important for her even when we had those conversations but now, everything she said is gone.She came here in my city, damn cold again. Everytime I try to get close to her I get this rejection, same words, that she can't and she loves me like a friend. I knew the is complicated but how can you stop to feel everything in 2 weeks, I simply can't believe, maybe the problem is me being available only for her, always has been like that..whenever I was busy with someone else, she came to me, when she was the only one...cold.

I was writing this because I need an advice, this is the short storry so every question I get, I will answer. I am thinking of starting to be unavailable for her, being cold and acting only as a friend, maybe this way I will push the trigger again, making her realize that everything she said it was true, it hasn't been said only because she was lonely. Or tryint to avoid her completly for a while? I think this will mess everything up.
The thing is that I don't know how to make her realize the old things again, besides that she told me that she know that I can't give her everything she need, to make her happy etc .Also, she know that I love her more than his ex ever did. Am I missing something here?Do I give too much so that's why she is running away?

I am a strong capricorn guy, hiding feelings and ignoring people is not a problem for me but this girl is my weak spot, and she knows that.She knows that I will always be there for her, maybe that's why she is so sure that whatever she is making, I will be here.

Any advices?especially from pisces girls 🙂

My God! Is she a teenager! She acts so immature, she doesn't know what she wants. You need to drop this girl completely and find someone who can treat you as a first priority