to all the pisces females please help .

so i 've been dating a while ago this pisces girl we broke up , and we didn't talk for a few months cant determine ... last night she contacted me out of the no where asking me to forgive her and she hopes i dont hate her and she's sorry for everything .. can someone please explain to me this behavior

Posted by Huldra
What's your sun sign OP

virgo

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Posted by MsFisk
She's been carrying the guilt for all those months and letting you know she fucked up and is apologizing. That's what people with conscience usually do. What are YOU reading it as?

Agreed. Plus as a pisces I prefer to keep things amicable between exes.

Don't assume it means she wants to rekindle things with you romantically. She may simply want to keep things friendly because you were someone she cared about and she hates that things ended on bad terms. She may even want to maintain contact, but purely platonic. Again, do not assume she is attempting to reconnect with you romantically.

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yeah i know she isn't trying to reconnect with me , but found it weird to get a random contact , since it was her that cut it in the first place , the break up wasn't that bad , well we could say it was more of a her exploding at me with everything she felt that she didn't tell me about [ my flaws etc ] , but after that happend she still kept contact trying to get me back and then i just changed my number and went off social media for a while which led for her blocking me of them all ,
@msfisk , ididn't read it as anything , i do beleive sometime people miss someone not in a love way just the way they talked to them and all , and sometimes there is people that just get bored and decided to contact you and all , i m not the kind of person to come to assumation out of the no where unless she tells me why she contacted me , for now i just think she just trying to get things right and wants me to forgive her and no have an harsh feelings with each other and stay friends

Posted by MsFisk
a soft sport for Virgos.

😉

Posted by MsFisk
But I'm biased as I have a soft sport for Virgos.

haah well we are after all the opposite of pisces might be that , the way we get along and all

I literally did this to my virgo ex over the weekend....
I NEVER go back to an ex BUT when the relationship I'm currently in starts falling apart. I call the one I think I see the similarities in. While I don't tell them what's going on, I look for patterns. Either in my behavior or in the men I'm picking. I try to pick their brains and then I disappear again.

Posted by livictori
I literally did this to my virgo ex over the weekend....
I NEVER go back to an ex BUT when the relationship I'm currently in starts falling apart. I call the one I think I see the similarities in. While I don't tell them what's going on, I look for patterns. Either in my behavior or in the men I'm picking. I try to pick their brains and then I disappear again.

oh my i do agrree on pisces having a thing for disappearing she did so many times that probably why my feelings faded away

Agreed with all of the feedback. She felt guilty after all of this time and just needed to get that out of her system. I'm actually relieved that it seems like you guys will just be able to go on with your lives without either of you playing games. lol

I think Pisces women do this better than any other sun sign female.

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Posted by MsFisk
It looks like you are spared from a Drama Queen fish then.

Not really.

OP's story isn't really matching up.

Posted by jayjohnjay
but found it weird to get a random contact , since it was her that cut it in the first place

.. she still kept contact trying to get me back and then i just changed my number and went off social media for a while

The thing with Virgo men is, they'll paint themselves to be innocent and perplexed at peoples (re)actions, when majority of the time it's directly linked to something they may or may not have done.

Good on the fish for apologising though. She deserves someone better than OP that lives in complete denial of his wrongdoings.

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im not in denial of any of my wrong doings , im a mature person that knows when i've done something wrong i apologize and make it right , just because i am a virgo doesn't mean that all virgos are the same , pisces women are well knows that when you do them wrong they dissapear for good , and she came back right now because she her self knows that ididn't do her wrong and even when i did i tried my best to make it right , also everyone is not perfect everyone makes mistakes , it just up to the person to know when they are wrong (:

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just because i am a virgo doesn't mean that all virgos are the same , pisces women are well knows that when you do them wrong they dissapear for good

So, let me get this straight .... you felt compelled to point out that not all Virgos are the same, and then in same breath (sentence) you insinuated that all Pisces woman are the same

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
What I wrote down wasn't just based on the fact that you're a Virgo male, but was based on what you wrote down here.

You painted the Pisces to be out of control of her emotions, and the way you wrote it down has a very detached nature to it.. As if you were not involved in the downfall of the relationship to begin with. That is the denial I'm referring to.

I'm not really expecting you to truly understand what I've just written down though, seems like you're more interested in maintaining your image.

"pisces women are well knows that when you do them wrong they dissapear for good"

That's not necessarily true either, but hey whatever makes you feel better about yourself.

whatever you say , being defensive over a personal opinion , i feel great about myself i know who i am and what i said , yes pisces girls are more likely to walk away / disapear , most certainly can say im not the only one to agree that , but like you said whatever makes you feel better about yourself lol

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Posted by jayjohnjay

just because i am a virgo doesn't mean that all virgos are the same , pisces women are well knows that when you do them wrong they dissapear for good

So, let me get this straight .... you felt compelled to point out that not all Virgos are the same, and then in same breath (sentence) you insinuated that all Pisces woman are the same

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ITS FUNNY how you said " all pisces " where did i even say all pisces i said " pisces women " there is a difference haah read it right , but whatever float your boat

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just because i am a virgo doesn't mean that all virgos are the same , pisces women are well knows that when you do them wrong they dissapear for good

So, let me get this straight .... you felt compelled to point out that not all Virgos are the same, and then in same breath (sentence) you insinuated that all Pisces woman are the same

ITS FUNNY how you said " all pisces " where did i even say all pisces i said " pisces women " there is a difference haah read it right , but whatever float your boat

don´t make a fool of yourself, read again - she wrote pisces women .....

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you just made a fool out of yourself " you insinuated that all Pisces woman are the same" read again yourself (:

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Posted by jayjohnjay

just because i am a virgo doesn't mean that all virgos are the same , pisces women are well knows that when you do them wrong they dissapear for good

So, let me get this straight .... you felt compelled to point out that not all Virgos are the same, and then in same breath (sentence) you insinuated that all Pisces woman are the same

ITS FUNNY how you said " all pisces " where did i even say all pisces i said " pisces women " there is a difference haah read it right , but whatever float your boat

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When in reality, to speak of a category in plural form is referencing them as a whole.

What's funny is that a Pisces is telling this to a Virgo ... it's like, it was that easy to get your panties wadded up your ass, in that an emotional outburst happened that readily.

Oh, I do love irony.

and we know you lost your emotional composure because of the foolish thing you said, and tried to convince us otherwise. The Virgo cannot handle himself in emotional situations ... they will spout out bullshit and call it truth.

This is your blindspot, but, you don't know that because you are blind to it. The Almighty Virgo who prides himself on having emotional control, is actually the one who has next to no emotional control. But, they can't see it because a person is actually ignorant to what they don't know.

Points given - for not being a wuss
Points taken away - for believing nobody would notice that you were being a dumbass