Post-breakup Pisces man confuses me

Hello everyone,

I'm a Libra/Scorpio cusp woman (Oct. 22nd), with Aries Moon and Scorpio Rising. My Pisces man is also a Cusper (Feb. 22, so that makes him Aqua/Pisces cusp right?), with Capricorn Moon. We have known each other for 2 years and in relationship for 1 year.

At first, the attraction between us is great, almost unstoppable. Despite lots of differences in life style s and personalities, we hooked up and even decided to share one apartment. After 1 year, things are good as we have been through so many obstacles yet somehow become more matured together.

Recently, as I quit my job and have been looking for new opportunities, I do become more sensitive, demanding and clingy while my Pisces man is busy with his work. I tend to question everything he says or does and even throw things, esp. anniversary gifts away, when I'm angry. Last week, after I broke down and cried over small things, he said we should break up. He said I should look for another guy as he saw my sadness and insecurities. I did not agree, but he insists that it is the best solution for us and he wants us to remain 'good friends'.

The thing is after saying break up and deciding to move out, he still takes care of me and treats me exactly like before. The atmosphere between us becomes less intense and angry, but more comfortable as talk like those happy times at the beginning. Next week he will move out, and he still texts/calls to check on me. He does not even avoid body contact (small caresses, sweet nickname, hugs and even sex). And the sex is just as passionate as usual. Last night he was even mad at me because I came home too late.

He confuses me to no end. Actually we did break up before but got back together after 1 month, in an exact manner as this time. I know that he remains friends with his ex-girlfriends, but this kind of intimacy really troubles me. Deep down inside I still love him and I do not want to be apart (I let him know that), and I sense his feelings for me as well.

Recently he said that he knew this was the best choice, and maybe separation makes people realize if they really love and need each other. But he still calls it a break up, and two of us still carry on the behaviors of a normal couple. Our mutual friends also say that this is like a joke.

I just do not understand. I think that he does not even understand himself and his decision. Both of us need space and time to do some reflection, I guess.

What do you guys think? Should I

😢 Some errors did not allow me to edit the rest of my 1st post, so...

What do you guys think?

Should I try to be his friend first before winning him back, by giving him time and still keep in touch with him?

Is separation the wise move now?

Thank you in advance! 🙂

Sounds like you make bad choices for yourself. In this case, the bad choice you've made is to give him all the power to decide your fate.

You're not alone, though ... most people are as weak as you, and so therefore aren't capable of being self accountable for their actions, and will do the same thing you did here = come in here and attempt to blame the other person because you aren't pleased with your choices.

i'm in fairly similar situation as you. How did it turn out for you?