Ok, I got told last night by my 15 year old Taurus son. I am always kicking him off of the computer to get on here (and I do pay for it, so have the right) Well, he saw what I was doing and told me, "Mom, a relationship shouldn't be that hard, you shouldn't have to go on there everyday and ask for advice" Of course I got all defensive, but he is right. I make it so much harder than it is. I do like to come on here and see what everyone has to say though and I told him its like myspace and twitter, which he is on constantly!! Just had to laugh. Sometimes we need to have a childlike approach on life🙂
Relationships shouldn't be this hard
Posted by sortilege85
^^^ Once you stop your endless thirst for questions and begin to take on the challenges that are in front of you and begin to understand them, then you'll realize that there isn't a need to always feel the need to ask for help when you yourself has enough examples to help guide you for the next challenge you are going to take.
Wow, great advice! I need to frame that and put it on my desk!
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
I guess I'm just weird....relationships do take a little work,but if a relationship takes LOTS of work and causes so much confusion (not just yours,but anyone's)I'd have to assume I was not with the right person.
Or your a Virgo that over analyzes everything🙂 lol. I do agree some work is required though.
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