Shy Pisces Guy Likes Even Shyer Pisces Girl...

Hi Guys,

This is my first formal post or thread creation. Anyway, I wanted to get advice from the pisces ladies on the board as to a situation I've encountered and some suggestions as how to proceed (or not) depending on your feedback. The target at hand is a pisces female and I'm a pisces guy.

Anyway, she's a girl in my class that I've had my eyes since class started but never really had the nerve to go up and talk to her. It turns out during last class while the lecture was occuring we locked eye contact from the across the room so I smiled in a gentle welcoming way and as soon as she saw that she did the same in return...only for for a split second (she didn't even completely finish smiling) and then suddenly turned her head to the opposite side to face the professor (almost like I startled her). It was all so sudden I didn't know what to expect of it. Anyway I continued to look at her (but not stare like a creeper) and after about 10 seconds or so of facing the professor, she kind of tucked her head down and started staring at her paper right in front of her. Eventually, she started looking up again (not directly facing me) but close enough that I was within her visual range or peripherals so to speak and kept her eyes on that spot for a little bit. At this point I didn't want to come off too strong or like a stalker while she was doing that (in case she was using her peripheral vision) so I just listened to the professor talk. After about a couple of mins, I noticed that she looked at me again and I got nervous so I looked down (I'm shy). After that break came...

At break, I wanted to see how she would react if I got close enough to her so I walked up to the professor (close to where she was sitting) and as I was walking I wanted to make sure that I could see her in my peripheral vision and so I did and from the time she made eye contact with me she kept looking at me in the face from the side (she was sitting down at her desk). I went up to the professor, talked to him, turned around and she was still staring at me (her head was moving depending on my position relative to her, LOL)... anyway it was break time so I wanted to go the washroom so from where I had my conversation with the prof I went for the door, right as I was opening it, I looked back at her, and she was still looking at me....

That's basically it, I know she's a pisces and I think she's shy? Could you girls give me advice??_ (post continued on next message)

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If any pisces girls could give me any insight as to what this means, what they think of this case situation, and how I should proceed from here? Chances are a lot of you are going to say that it's up in the air right now and I need to actually go up and talk to her to see where she stands, but I've never really met her before, so what would be the best plan of attack here? I don't want to come off too strong because I know pisces and shy girls in particular hate overly aggressive people (I for one do).

Thanks for any help you guys have to offer. I know this may sound bad, but everyone needs a little friendly advice here and there : )

- MM91

She doesn't sound shy to me, she didn't mind you seeing her look directly at you.

If you continue to give her eye contact .. she will likely come talk to you.

Hi, MidnightMarauder91 & warm welcome (cool username, btw) ..

Just keep smiling and doing what you're doing, basically.. I agree, patience and non-aggression is key with the fish, so you will both be nicely n'sync, here. She's silently (cautiously) sizing you up, but doesn't want to seem too obvious.. and when she gets more & more comfortable and habits form, it will all likely come easier for you both. Maybe, if possible you could slowly start sitting closer to her in class, until you're within talking distance and perhaps ask a general question about your mutual studies or something light to break the ice..lol If she wasn't interested or curious about you at all, btw ..she would mostly likely completely ignore you or hide behind her hand or something. We are pretty good at giving off that please leave me alone, vibe..

Much luck to you..

Hey jgonzo, P-Angel, and mystic_fish (thanks for the welcome btw!),

Thanks for the advice! I more or less had the same idea in mind with what you guys have said in terms of continuing the eye contact and if the feedback (her reciprocating) and vibe is right, actually talking - so you girls more or less confirmed what I was thinking of doing. I guess the only issue now is that the semester is fast coming to a close and there are only a few classes left, so if something is going to happen and if I'm going to act on this potential opportunity, it has to be soon.

Regarding your issues:
jgonzo - an external source told me so.

P-Angel: I think that would be wishful thinking lol, but it certainly is a possibility. I could only see that coming from someone that was a gemini or a leo, but anything is possible.

I guess time will tell....

Thanks Again everyone!

😄