SO all PISCES are NOT the SAME

i think im getting the hang of the whole emotion thing now but i still find it hard to control them at times. not to mention people take advantage of my niceness a lot. but see i have a cousin we were both born on the same day just min apart but in different years. he 20 now but he looks years younger (the gemini lol). i would have have thought we would be very similar but were not. almost a little opposite. i cant help being nice to people in general. but him hes the nicest person to people he know "personally" but when it comes to people he dont know, he can be a complete asshole and verbally violent and physically if the other person touches first (not exaggerating)(if provoked) and his out look on life, people to be specific seems very dark. to him everyones an asshole till proven otherwise. and he told me the way to control my emotions when is comes to other people is to dehumanize them to see them for what we all are in truth. bones covered in a lump of flesh that will one day be nothing more than the dirt we walk on day and once you see that truth everything we do in life becomes nothing more than a means to an end almost pointless we might as well go back to living like animals. we make life so complicated when in reality its very simple. So let the currents just flow dont try to hold them back, you're only hurting yourself. to make a long story short.... just stop giving a fuck about people and what they think about you.""""" and that the text of advice he gave me... if we were basically born the same time but different year why are we different. is it because hes older and has more experience or what—?

Posted by NTSC
i think im getting the hang of the whole emotion thing now but i still find it hard to control them at times. not to mention people take advantage of my niceness a lot. but see i have a cousin we were both born on the same day just min apart but in different years. he 20 now but he looks years younger (the gemini lol). i would have have thought we would be very similar but were not. almost a little opposite. i cant help being nice to people in general. but him hes the nicest person to people he know "personally" but when it comes to people he dont know, he can be a complete asshole and verbally violent and physically if the other person touches first (not exaggerating)(if provoked) and his out look on life, people to be specific seems very dark. to him everyones an asshole till proven otherwise. and he told me the way to control my emotions when is comes to other people is to dehumanize them to see them for what we all are in truth. bones covered in a lump of flesh that will one day be nothing more than the dirt we walk on day and once you see that truth everything we do in life becomes nothing more than a means to an end almost pointless we might as well go back to living like animals. we make life so complicated when in reality its very simple. So let the currents just flow dont try to hold them back, you're only hurting yourself. to make a long story short.... just stop giving a fuck about people and what they think about you.""""" and that the text of advice he gave me... if we were basically born the same time but different year why are we different. is it because hes older and has more experience or what—?

Damn. o.O

But just because you were born on the same day (close to same time) doesn't mean you will have the same placements.

At all.

He may have a different moon, ascendant, and aspects with the planets altogether.

Plus you have to figure in human experience and upbringing.

Many factors, really.

his is different \/
Sun Pisces 2.50 Ascendant Gemini 19.14
Moon Cancer 6.34 II Cancer 10.16
Mercury Aquarius 29.55 R III Leo 1.02
Venus Pisces 11.25 IV Leo 25.11
Mars Aquarius 19.12 V Virgo 26.51
Jupiter Scorpio 14.35 VI Scorpio 7.48
Saturn Pisces 2.51 VII Sagittarius 19.14
Uranus Capricorn 24.31 VIII Capricorn 10.16
Neptune Capricorn 22.20 IX Aquarius 1.02
Pluto Scorpio 28.04 Midheaven Aquarius 25.11
Lilith Aries 24.58 XI Pisces 26.51
Asc node Scorpio 28.12 XII Taurus 7.48


mine \/

Sun Pisces 2.51 Ascendant Gemini 18.00
Moon Sagittarius 26.47 II Cancer 9.12
Mercury Pisces 2.19 III Cancer 29.56
Venus Capricorn 22.57 IV Leo 23.55
Mars Pisces 21.27 V Virgo 25.20
Jupiter Pisces 4.09 VI Scorpio 6.14
Saturn Aries 17.19 VII Sagittarius 18.00
Uranus Aquarius 10.05 VIII Capricorn 9.12
Neptune Aquarius 0.52 IX Capricorn 29.56
Pluto Sagittarius 7.59 Midheaven Aquarius 23.55
Lilith Libra 7.44 XI Pisces 25.20
Asc node Virgo 10.30 XII Taurus 6.14

If you truly believe people take advantage of your niceness... that's really a problem you need to solve. Or let yourself be used and abused and sooner or later you might just agree with him.

Besides placements, there's also experience.

whats sun square pluto?

Posted by aquasnoz
If you truly believe people take advantage of your niceness... that's really a problem you need to solve. Or let yourself be used and abused and sooner or later you might just agree with him.

Besides placements, there's also experience.

so i guess hes right then ... be an asshole to everyone?. just walk down the street and act like no other soul exist. or just out right tune someone out. like just the other day i was with my my cousins and the one im talking about was there. we got off the subway train, and i forgot i needed a transfer for the bus. so on our way upstairs, i remembered, so he said well lets go back down and get one. So there was this man looking over the stairs and said "theyre not gonna sell you a transfer because you already let the booth, i tired earlier but i got a token here for $ 2" my cuz says yes they will the guys like no they wont so my cousins like well ill just pay the whole bus fare (which btw is $ 2.25) the guys like no just buy the token for $ 2 my cousin says No why am i gonnna give you $ 2 when i can just pay the bus driver $ 2. the guys like "comon just buy the token off me" my cousin didnt even look at the guy he just walking right by him like he wasnt there and the guys was constantly calling for his attention and we"re half way down the steet.... like really whos does that, this poor guys just tryna make an honest dollar.

Your interpretation colors your cousins' teachings in dark when he is actually giving you important keys to find the beauty in life.
That we are lumps of flesh, not more important than mold accretions, is not really a dark outlook, but should open your soul to the importance of your own destiny in the universe. To be the thinking mold is a great chance offered to us and a chance that deserves consideration. To put other people fates second to yours is not "being an A***HOLE" but actually treating them fairly.
Listen to your cousin but pay more attention to the message than the messenger for the rule of two demands that you one day assume your rightful place.

I'd say being an asshole might be a bit too much. The example you gave to me I didn't get the impression he was treating the man poorly. Making an honest dollar might be stretched. Commendable you see the world with such purity I'll give you that.

My lesson came from helping the homeless. This was years back. I knew this one homeless guy from my workplace. He'd always have something funny to talk about, helping cleaning the store and generally nice. I'd give him free food and drinks at the beginning until he started asking for money. I should've caught on then. That night he comes to the store again, fucked up on drugs and trashed the place, couldn't be reasoned with to the point we had to call the police.

The experience before that was a lady supposedly stranded in the city because she had no money left to get back home. She pleaded with me because it's her grandson's birthday and saw a toy in those skill testers and wanted a chance at those with money to go back home. I thought I'd help her out, seemed like the decent thing to do. Until I found her in the slots/pokies section when I met up with my friends later on.

Homeless or not, people will take advantage of your good nature. That's why it's important to strike a balance between giving and not caring. Sometimes helping out or being good doesn't end that way at all when you realise you are enabling bad behaviour.

For one, no two pisces are the same. Their personalities are entirely dependent on who they hang out with. And they just learn from everyone, and their charts matter a lot too, they are their charts.

the only thing we apparently have that's the same is the sun in Pisces and Acc in gemini everything else is totally different (>.

Creep munch @basari lol 😛

Getting hurt over and over again, people taking advantage of you and when you finally realise it, you start to react to anything that can trigger that emotion of pain. You close off to strangers. I can relate to your cousin on some level. But that is the dark side of pisces. When pisces is healthy, the thing that makes them the most happy is giving themselves. We just have to learn to balance and make sure to take care of ourselves...