unemployed pisces male, working gemini female

HELP PLEEEEEASSE!!!!!
I am so frustrated. I am a gemini woman and im with a ( younger than me, he is 26, im 31), pisces male. He didnt have a job when I met him, but he has potential. He has a good heart, very affectionate. He is more clingy than i am. Usually its the other way around. I have been trying to get him motivated to go out there and get ANY job at this point. He thinks two hours of job searching is sufficent. I am 4 mo preg. And he says he looks forward to the baby comming but I feel hes not doing enough to "help out" or prepare.HELP PLEA SE....

naa..its a done deal for you young lady..prepare to be a just another single baby mother trying to get child support from the babies father, whom you will eventually hate btw..

a pisces & gemini relationship is HOR-RI-BLE..aww man its about to be sooo bad for you,seriously,im sorry

I totally agree with all the responses.i have tried to break things off a time or two, and he is unwilling to accept that it most likely wont work out, he keeps tellin me to have faith in him, that he loves me and hes trying and looks for wk everyday, but no one has called him for a hob, and I dont care what kind of legal job it is as long as its a job, but my patience is wearin thin and im just about ready to permanently boot him out and call it quits, he takes it so personal when I tell him that, and he gets a lil jealous when I tell him if he doesnt step up someone else will. IS there any chance he might snap out of it? His b day is march 3rd.

WIC, Well Child Clinic, friends, family, local churches if applicable. Layaway. Yard sales, second hand shops. Goodwill. Salvation Army.
Point is..prepare for baby. If he cannot find employment, or doesn't want too, you will be prepared for le bundle of joy.
Surely this is no surprise to you. This is the same man you fell in love with and created life with. Can't expect him to snap too because sperm met egg.
Great yes. Realistically I'd say not. Might light a silent fire under his ass if you just quietly do and stow the histrionics a bit.

He help with housework? Cook, rub your feet and rub oil into your belly while talking to baby? Hold your hair while you throw up? Bet he does.
Appoint him househusband and poopy butt god.
Five months to reality.

Got it. ..

Hiya, hope I'm not being too personal, just wondering whether this was a planned pregnancy? Because you got into a relationship with him knowing he didn't have a job to start off with and just wondering whether it's a wise decision to bring a baby into the world if you have issues with the father of the child not having a job to be able to financially support one.

Don't keep making excuses for him. Everyone has potential, it's what they do with that potential that matters. Are you still working now? How are you guys going to cope when you are too far along to actually continue working? I hope you have a sizeable nest egg tucked away, especially in today's environment where job losses and financial security is a concern for all.

Don't want to be a downer and ruin what should be a joyous time for you, but let's hope your man matures enough and man up and start taking some responsibility and assume some accountability for his role in this and start putting more of a concerted effort to look for a job.. ANY JOB.. in the mean time and help out financially in preparation for the birth.

PS. By the way congratulations and hope it all works out well for you 🙂

Thankyou pisces 1803, and everyone else, and OMG !! I just found a used dirty needle and one of MY kitchen spoons shoved in a plastic bag. I do not do drugs nor surround myself with those that do, not judging just setting standards for my self. I just packed his stuff and whrn he showed up made him leave with it. Im actually releived. (wooo). I dodged a big bullet. I have three part time jobs so I will be fine. God is so good and always brings the truth out at just the righy time. Thanku all for your quick help and responses, I hope all will be well with all of you. Now its time to move forward with my baby. All things are poosible with GOD.

Good jobless dude to user in one fell swoop, eh? Gotta tell you one of my sisters has been a substance abuser for a long time and they're usually sneakier than foxes or outhouse rats about it unless they don't care. Lies upon lies to cover up what they're doing. Scream they're clean with pupils the size of dinner plates. Everyone knows they are lit. Thieve, not shower, disappear on folks for years, etc. Hang with others that do the same so they can try to share a brain cell. Go to jail on the reg.
While I applaud the sentiment, it doesn't jibe.
In any event, do what you feel is best for you and little one. Still the child's father, so set all that up through the court so it is on record.