What to make of it...

Dear pisces,

I am back again to share, confirm and perhaps receive any valuable input.

I have posted 3 weeks ago story about pisces guy that I met and felt amazing connection etc and even the drama he created with me going on holiday.
Anyhow 3 weeks holiday passed and we kept in regular contact, he kept telling me how much he misses me and to hurry back, to which I always replied equally and with affection. Upon my return we spent amazing evening/night together (or so I thought). I felt re-connected and happy that we managed to preserve the feelings between us.

However he has not contacted me since that night, I sent 2 shorts sweet sms in next few days to which he always replied immediately but few words only. No response from last night, which is first time ever. I am aware that you guys sometimes need your time alone which I am fine with even it is little surprising after the intensity while apart.

Main questions is though and what made me nervous is that he is still very active on web where we met and he chats to other girls. I do not want to make mistake by reading too much into it but in the same time I dont want to be fool who blindly trust man's word about wanting to be bf/gf while he might be a player.

I was thinking when he will contact me and ask to meet that I will ask him what is he looking for (relationship, exclusivity). From his reply I should see if we are on same page and can go forward.

Feel free to give me your pisces opinion.

Thank you

Posted by Cappieg

I will ask him what is he looking for (relationship, exclusivity).

Why would any person push for relationship, exclusivity with a person they barely know?

Cappi from what you describe he's a nice guy but not ready to stop everything for you just yet.

If you like spending time with him then of course keep him as an option but keep moving forward until you meet the one guy who is ready.

Get back online and continue to do whatever it was you were doing before you met him

It sounds like you're in the getting to know you stage and that he's got other girls he's interested in. You're hanging too much on a short term connection which puts just the right amount of pressure for it to break. I find that Pisces men in particular don't like being pushed into a relationship. If you're going to be with this guy, you gotta go with the flow, and realize every step of the way that there are no guarantees no matter what honeyed words come out of his mouth. That's all part of "getting to know you....getting to know all about you." You can't bypass that process but you might well short circuit it by applying too much pressure and getting intimate too fast.

Hello ladies,

Thank you for the input, surely your comments make perfect sense. Words in one things Action another, things take time and this is just beginning. I am not head over heals yet but certainly developed feeling which I shall manage better.

Guys,
Just realized that i might have contributed to his distance. On the last night we were reasing each other and i might have non intentionally hurt him. It was sensitive looking back now. Should i still let him be or try to clarify/apologize regardless the outcome.

Djbuck,

You are right, it is the subconscious insecurity which I have thought was diminished, sadly not or I wouldn't be here asking for other's people input after getting myself in a pickle due attaching emotionally early on and not reading obvious signs.

All comments appreciated.