Advice about Cancer guy!!!!!!

Okay so here's the deal. I'm a libra and I met this amazing cancer guy last year and we really hit it off, we ended up talking until really late into the night. We exchanged numbers and started texting and everything and initially he iniated the conversations alot, but for the most part we took turns starting conversation first. Well, school and life got in the way and we fell off and stopped talking... Recently we started talking again a couple months ago because he hit me up on facebook and we got to talking again and we exchanged numbers. Now keep in mind, he doesn't live close to me, he's about 2/3 hours drive away from me. Anyways so we exchanged numbers and everything and this time around I really really like him, we started off texting alot, he would initate the conversations alot and then we would take turns texting/calling each other... Recently we went on a first date and it was wonderful! he was a REAL gentleman! the best date I've been on! He held the doors open for me, wouldn't let me pull out my waller for ANYTHING and he was wonderful with the cuddling and hand holding! I really enjoyed myself!. I can't help but notice that after our date the communication has fallin off though.. I'm usually the one to iniate the conversations and getting him to open up? Forget it, that's impossible. Now I've read that with Cancers you don't want to smother them, to give them space and be patient with them, but at the same time I'm getting confused.. Did I do something wrong? is it normal for cancer guys to just kind of stop communicating as much as they used to? The biggest question is am I smother him by always being the one to text him? Should I wait for him to hit me up? I mean I've stopped texting him and contacting him and waited for him to contact me before but that's EXACTLY how we fell off last time and I'm determined to keep in contact this time! but how can I do that when I'm the one always iniating conversation? and when I do ask him questions theyre short and to the point. Like "how was your day?" and he'll be like "good" no further explanation. I really really really like this guy, but is he completely uninterested now? he seemed plenty interested on our date. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
-Confused Libra girl

Maybe he didn't feel there was any chemistry between yall. If so, he should have been man enough to let you know.
I wouldn't bother with trying to initiate contact anymore. Seems like he's not interested. But he sounds like a real chicken shit for not being honest with you. Sorry he didn't work out.

If he stopped wanting to relate to you after meeting you in person ... then maybe he doesn't like the way you smell. Most people's scent is what actually makes/breaks, no matter how much they may believe what their feelings tell them to cover for the fragile ego.

Posted by tinkchic2

... he doesn't live close to me, he's about 2/3 hours drive away from me.

This really stood out in my mind, and makes me wonder what reality you reside in.


2/3 hours drive would be considerable for a person to be a 400 or miles away because stops for gas, potty and food have to be taken into consideration. But, one hour is roughly 60 miles .. so 2 hours is 120 miles, and 3 hours is 180 miles ... and a person travelling that distance is likely to drive straight through and not stop for an hour long shit break.

If you had said, 2 to 2 1/2, or 2 1/2 to 3 hours ... then that would be closer to being believable if the person had to gas, shit and eat, along with driving really slow or really fast.


But, the normal person will shit before leaving the house, and only stop for gas on the way .. and if he's coming to take you on a date, then he's not even going to eat along the way because the two of you are going to dinner, most likely.


The moment I read that .... I knew you were deceptive, and maybe he's sensing that also, and so is stepping away from you.