Ok so I met this Taurus guy on a dating site about a month ago (I know: such a small amount of time to start worrying) and we actually hit it off pretty well at first and then things started to change. He was super flirty at first and wanted to know about me and everything and would text me until I went to sleep and would tell me things like " I wish we could cuddle" and stuff and he would send selfies and like stuff that he bought and would tell me about his family and his love for his mother and how he wants to be rich (he's pretty materialistic!) and then he asked for my skype but my webcam wasn't working so we just texted on there and idk we talked about like everything and we would sometimes talk until I fell asleep but then he texted me on the dating site again the next day. And then about a week ago from today he kind of became distant! He stopped texting me for a while and I started to wonder what happened. We didn't talk for like 5 entire days ( I know it's not long but it was for me!) and then out of the blue he texted me saying "Eeyyyy" as if he's been wondering where I have been and we spoke for a while that night and he sent me pictures of his dog lol and I told him about how I wanted a pet and stuff and he asked me what I wanted lol but anyways we talked and then around 8 we stopped. I decided to just text him the next day because I felt assured that he likes me and stuff but he texted very bluntly and short. I realized that every time that I texted him first (which was about 2-3 times) he would answer shortly without really engaging with me. So it's been about 3 days since I spoke to him and I don't know if he has lost interest or found someone else like I'm just really confused! I don't know if I said something that I didn't realize offended him or what. Could someone just give me advice on what I should do and why he's acting like this? Maybe some Taurus people too would help 🙂 btw I'm: libra sun, Venus in Virgo, moon in Aries. All I know is that he's a Taurus sun (May 3). Thank you so much for reading and helping!
Advice on Taurus guy please!
Yeah he's still on the dating site because I would know if it's deleted but I don't know if he's active or not. Thank you for replying!
Posted by TaureyeOhh ok, yeah I never actually asked what he was looking for so I probably should! So you think I should just be upfront and ask him? Or should I wait?Posted by PassionateLibraGirlYou're welcome Have guys talked about possible exclusivity or this leading somewhere? He could be really busy too, or he's also weighing his options but as a bull i see it as , if you find someone you like and wanna build something with you'll find time to contact them especially if you've been talking to them constantly so i dunno I'm iffy on this bull for you right now. Be upfront and ask him where this is heading. It'll give you a better view.
Yeah he's still on the dating site because I would know if it's deleted but I don't know if he's active or not. Thank you for replying!click to expand
Posted by TaureyePosted by PassionateLibraGirlYou're time is just as valuable as his, Before you start to get too attached to him be upfront. If he can't handle your straightforwardness then trust me he aint gonna handle it if you two became a couple which is a problem. Be straightforward libra nothing wrong with that, don't weight your option to yes or no. Just do it. Know where you two stand, make sure it's clear and go from there. Don't be lead on because inconsistency like this isn't in our nature, and its even more seldom for people we care about.Posted by TaureyeOhh ok, yeah I never actually asked what he was looking for so I probably should! So you think I should just be upfront and ask him? Or should I wait?Posted by PassionateLibraGirlYou're welcome Have guys talked about possible exclusivity or this leading somewhere? He could be really busy too, or he's also weighing his options but as a bull i see it as , if you find someone you like and wanna build something with you'll find time to contact them especially if you've been talking to them constantly so i dunno I'm iffy on this bull for you right now. Be upfront and ask him where this is heading. It'll give you a better view.
Yeah he's still on the dating site because I would know if it's deleted but I don't know if he's active or not. Thank you for replying!click to expand
Ok! Omg thank you, I really appreciate this 🙂
Posted by TaureyeOmg lol, it's true thoughPosted by PassionateLibraGirlYou're welcome just don't dwell on it and do it. Lol having a libra ex i know how much you guys love to think and teeter between yes and no's. Good Luck!Posted by TaureyePosted by PassionateLibraGirlYou're time is just as valuable as his, Before you start to get too attached to him be upfront. If he can't handle your straightforwardness then trust me he aint gonna handle it if you two became a couple which is a problem. Be straightforward libra nothing wrong with that, don't weight your option to yes or no. Just do it. Know where you two stand, make sure it's clear and go from there. Don't be lead on because inconsistency like this isn't in our nature, and its even more seldom for people we care about.Posted by TaureyeOhh ok, yeah I never actually asked what he was looking for so I probably should! So you think I should just be upfront and ask him? Or should I wait?Posted by PassionateLibraGirlYou're welcome Have guys talked about possible exclusivity or this leading somewhere? He could be really busy too, or he's also weighing his options but as a bull i see it as , if you find someone you like and wanna build something with you'll find time to contact them especially if you've been talking to them constantly so i dunno I'm iffy on this bull for you right now. Be upfront and ask him where this is heading. It'll give you a better view.
Yeah he's still on the dating site because I would know if it's deleted but I don't know if he's active or not. Thank you for replying!
Ok! Omg thank you, I really appreciate this 🙂click to expand

OP, have you met in person?
Posted by Pandora101No we haven't /:
OP, have you met in person?

Posted by PassionateLibraGirlThen just arrange a meeting in person, before you get attached to somebody, who is not "real"...... I mean, you can connect or not if you meet in person...... dont fall in love only with your ideas about himPosted by Pandora101No we haven't /:
OP, have you met in person?click to expand
meet him in person and then you will see.......anybody can be lovely in virtual reality.... even talking in phone doesnt substitue for personal attraction....... if he doesnt want to meet you in person, then move on, because he is not genuine
Posted by Pandora101Oh omg ok! Thank you for this! 🙂Posted by PassionateLibraGirlThen just arrange a meeting in person, before you get attached to somebody, who is not "real"...... I mean, you can connect or not if you meet in person...... dont fall in love only with your ideas about himPosted by Pandora101No we haven't /:
OP, have you met in person?
meet him in person and then you will see.......anybody can be lovely in virtual reality.... even talking in phone doesnt substitue for personal attraction....... if he doesnt want to meet you in person, then move on, because he is not genuineclick to expand

@OP- I have been in your shoes before. I know I have these really great conversations before I even meet up with someone. Their energy is great so much we usually hit it off. Only when I meet it may have been too good to be true.
I can also ask questions to make sure I even want to meet up. Cause meeting up is like the ultimate proceed with friendship or it ends right there too. So go half on everything and ask questions about him before. I have experienced many right off the bat, impulsively risk taking types only to know it is just one of those things where I should slow down...Lol
Good luck
I can also ask questions to make sure I even want to meet up. Cause meeting up is like the ultimate proceed with friendship or it ends right there too. So go half on everything and ask questions about him before. I have experienced many right off the bat, impulsively risk taking types only to know it is just one of those things where I should slow down...Lol
Good luck
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