ARE ALL CANCERS WACK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I POSTED ON CANCER FORUM INSTEAD OF RELATIONSHIP ASTRO.... CAN ANYONE WITH EXPERIENCE WITH CANCER MEN TAKE A LOOK AND GIVE SOME THOUGHTS PLEASE

maybe

If they're 'whack' why d'ya need relationship advice?

They can appear tough on the outside (like the hard shell of a crab) and a lot are very good looking, but they'e too sensitive. They cry and complain the most out of every other sign. If they're boys -- they're mama's boys lol. They're always miserable and their zodiac name rightfully explains what they're like: Cancers lol

Forgot to add, most are very good in bed and passionate. Perhaps it's because of that sensitivty thing. They're also too too clingy...

Apparently... they are!!




lol. They're just tooooo sensitive. gotta take the good side with the bad 😉

I didn't read your other post by the way .

i have a moon in cancer, i'm also a cap in the sun department. i CANNOT STAND Cancer's! they're really dramatic and way too emotional. maybe its cuz of my moon sign, idk. but every cancer i meet is a drama queen and even if i distance myself from them and keep my opinions to myself, they still find a way to hate me. the one's i've met (5-10 ppl) are all crazy!!! real petty and manipulative too! this one chick i was close friends with who was a cancer, had a bf and all that, but yet i'd feel like i was dating the chick but i'd have to deal with the bullshit minus the sex or heavy "petting." it was ridiculous. one time she refused to talk to me for 3 days and wouldn't tell me why. i found out later in the week it was cuz i didn't call her back when she wanted me to. REALLY!? such a fucking child!!! Cancer's are fucking nuts. i've heard the sex is good but it's really up to you whether you want to date a clingy psychopath. thats just my opinion. i always tried being diplomatic with them but they play mind games like you would not believe.

Games. Games. Games.

Posted by aquarius21
They can appear tough on the outside (like the hard shell of a crab) and a lot are very good looking, but they'e too sensitive. They cry and complain the most out of every other sign. If they're boys -- they're mama's boys lol. They're always miserable and their zodiac name rightfully explains what they're like: Cancers lol

I CONCUR

I only know two Cancers. 1 - a girl who is super sweet, bright, and so pretty. Andddd has a load of issues cause of her crazy mum. 2 - a guy who doesn't really say much. I'm sure if I spoke to him I could get him to talk, but Pisces aren't really initiators😛

Posted by aquarius21
They can appear tough on the outside (like the hard shell of a crab) and a lot are very good looking, but they'e too sensitive. They cry and complain the most out of every other sign. If they're boys -- they're mama's boys lol. They're always miserable and their zodiac name rightfully explains what they're like: Cancers lol

Soooo mean lol.

Posted by iceredrobot
I only know two Cancers. 1 - a girl who is super sweet, bright, and so pretty. Andddd has a load of issues cause of her crazy mum. 2 - a guy who doesn't really say much. I'm sure if I spoke to him I could get him to talk, but Pisces aren't really initiators😛

Posted by aquarius21
They can appear tough on the outside (like the hard shell of a crab) and a lot are very good looking, but they'e too sensitive. They cry and complain the most out of every other sign. If they're boys -- they're mama's boys lol. They're always miserable and their zodiac name rightfully explains what they're like: Cancers lol

Soooo mean lol.

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i kno sorry lol truth hurts

I find cancer people to be very withdrawn, very much like serial killers lol.

Posted by XXMR2NICEXX
I find cancer people to be very withdrawn, very much like serial killers lol.

LMAO

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Posted by UsernameTaken
i have a moon in cancer, i'm also a cap in the sun department. i CANNOT STAND Cancer's! they're really dramatic and way too emotional. maybe its cuz of my moon sign, idk. but every cancer i meet is a drama queen and even if i distance myself from them and keep my opinions to myself, they still find a way to hate me. the one's i've met (5-10 ppl) are all crazy!!! real petty and manipulative too! this one chick i was close friends with who was a cancer, had a bf and all that, but yet i'd feel like i was dating the chick but i'd have to deal with the bullshit minus the sex or heavy "petting." it was ridiculous. one time she refused to talk to me for 3 days and wouldn't tell me why. i found out later in the week it was cuz i didn't call her back when she wanted me to. REALLY!? such a fucking child!!! Cancer's are fucking nuts. i've heard the sex is good but it's really up to you whether you want to date a clingy psychopath. thats just my opinion. i always tried being diplomatic with them but they play mind games like you would not believe.

LMAOOO this is hilarious this post

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LOL its def funny to laugh about NOW. i don't so much about back then. damn, i'm so happy that that shit's behind me lol. her last words were "you're never gonna get rid of me!" i was like, "we'll see about that biatch! I love a challenge! LOL!

Crabs can be all over the place, it just depends on where they are in life (how evolved they are). The whack ones are 99999999.999999% NOT evolved, maybe still living at home, not focused on the future and in no shape to settle down. Those types will play, manipulate, push/pull, you name it - making them whack because they will drive you crazy not knowing what their next move is. They're very sly and calculating and also know exactly what they're doing even if they give you the impression that they don't. And the sex? Yeah, it's purdy forking amazing.

Rather ranting about how wrong you are . I instead read your post and my heart goes out to you . I am sorry for what you went through and what that guy did to you . That particular cancer was a dick truly, and clearly an unevolved douche who took advantage of you. It totally sickens me to think that he used you like that. With that said, I will tell you that there are some really decent Male cancers are out here, and that you really got the crappy end of the cancerian spectrum. I know how easy it can be to write off cancers totally thanks to one bad experience, I can say that cause a female cancer screwed my head up real hard when I was younger and it took a lot of self helping and actual counseling to come to terms with it but I'm better for it . I know you can find the strength to pick up the pieces and not let this incident stifle you. I just wanna say were not all that bad....

Posted by XXMR2NICEXX
I find cancer people to be very withdrawn, very much like serial killers lol.

A crab friend of mine said to me one time (as a joke(ish)) that he's 'been recruited by many biker gangs because I am a stone cold heartless killer.' He either had just finished watching Sons of Anarchy or was flexing his wit.

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Posted by UsernameTaken
i have a moon in cancer, i'm also a cap in the sun department. i CANNOT STAND Cancer's! they're really dramatic and way too emotional. maybe its cuz of my moon sign, idk. but every cancer i meet is a drama queen and even if i distance myself from them and keep my opinions to myself, they still find a way to hate me. the one's i've met (5-10 ppl) are all crazy!!! real petty and manipulative too! this one chick i was close friends with who was a cancer, had a bf and all that, but yet i'd feel like i was dating the chick but i'd have to deal with the bullshit minus the sex or heavy "petting." it was ridiculous. one time she refused to talk to me for 3 days and wouldn't tell me why. i found out later in the week it was cuz i didn't call her back when she wanted me to. REALLY!? such a fucking child!!! Cancer's are fucking nuts. i've heard the sex is good but it's really up to you whether you want to date a clingy psychopath. thats just my opinion. i always tried being diplomatic with them but they play mind games like you would not believe.

wow, for once you aren't projecting and are being honest. thank you for that. i shall post this in the cancer forum for you.

anyway, i don't blame you. i personally can't stand capricorn men. they use people and when they don't have their way, they throw a fit! oh boy. i dated one and man, was he a handful! i thought i was out there ... he was ten time worse! when i tried to communicate with him, he wouldn't talk ... he would just sulk and say "that is that and i don't want to talk about it."

the feelings mutual.

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I'm not saying all cancers are like this, just the one's i've met, but it kind of has made me want to avid them or at least remain distant because of past actions like that. i do kinda admire the comfort Cancers have with displaying the amount of emotion that they do without feeling uncomfortable about it. being a Capricorn, that's alien to me.

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Posted by XXMR2NICEXX
I find cancer people to be very withdrawn, very much like serial killers lol.

A crab friend of mine said to me one time (as a joke(ish)) that he's 'been recruited by many biker gangs because I am a stone cold heartless killer.' He either had just finished watching Sons of Anarchy or was flexing his wit.

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probably sons of anarchy LOL

Well I am with a Cancerian and am an Aries. While we've had some good times...he keeps disappearing. At the beginning it was for a couple of days at the beginning of the week and then he'd appear. I quizzed him and he said - nothing sinister - just catching up with friends and most sleeping in. I left it at that and was getting used to this trend...then he stood me up after making plans to spend the evening with me at my place. I got angry and blasted him - was a bit tipsy as well. I apologised the next day but he still didn't turn up for a house party I was having. He finally contacted me 4 days later and said he'd been down with gastro. I know that he wasn't bluffing cos his flatmates had come down with it as well. But I did ask him if his fingers got gastro too and that in the future he needs to send me one text at least to let me know since silence sends out all kinds of wrong vibes. I went away for 2 months - he kept in touch, waited for me and initiated our catch up. I was so impressed with his staying power. Another friend of mine was away for the same amount of time and her bf dumped her once she got back - 'you were gone too long' - was his excuse. So in light of this I admired what my guy did. However, since the morning after our catchup I have not heard from him. It's been 12 days. There was no indication of him losing interest or being detached - no at all. My flatmate's puzzled too at the moment since he saw him and even told me he was 'super keen'. I know he's broke and cannot find a good job....and worried about his visa. And he's been going through this for the past 5 months. I know he's in a bad place but he shouldn't go all silent like this. Am trying not to take this personally but it hurts. At least send me a text to let me know he needs to sort things out or that he wants to break up. I don't know whether I should attribute this to him being a Cancer...or to depression or that he's plain gutless and rude. Only time will tell I guess. I am not prodding him. I have let him know am here if he needs to talk and that I am not angry....just concerned. I guess he has gone into his shell out of pain....but it's not nice to keep me in the dark 😢 I have seen what depression can do to a man...my ex lost his job, spiraled into depression & broke up with me. He was a stranger to me....he loved me a lot and was wonderful to me before he went down. I hope I don't lose another good man to this. However, it might all be cos he's a Cancer...!!

shady business. sly like a snake but very passive-aggressive about it.

ARE ALL CANCERS WACK? I DO NOT KNOW BUT I KNOW
A FEW THAT SEEM TO FIT THE DEscriptION!!!

Manipulative men... my ex was the KING of manipulation and held his emotions inside unless he wanted something then bam we will whip those suckers out. Always putting the blame on you even when he is clearly wrong. Has selective memory and controlling. He would be out all the time and when I would go out with friends he would raise all kinds of hell saying I'm not a good mom or wife. Even though he was out doing all kinds of crazy crap all of the time. Liar big time. Stingy as all hell in every since of the word and in all situations. He would also try to make me jealous a lot then act like it's no big deal. For instance I came home from the gym and he was sitting in our female neighbor's car (she was in a bikini and a stripper by the way) and he was dirty from fixing the car. Did I meantion she had white leather seats in her Beamer? When I pulled up they BOTH looked like they got their hand caught in the cookie jar. Needless to say I raised all hell and he said your being ridiculous but thank you for caring and tried to hug and kiss me. Pfff jerk.

When I get my divorce I'm having a free bitch party and wearing a tiara. ;D Happy days are here again now that piece is gone.

Not that ALL crab men are the same but yeah be careful.

"Forgot to add, most are very good in bed and passionate. Perhaps it's because of that sensitivty thing. They're also too too clingy..."

Clingy... hell yes very good in bed.. lmfao I'll have to disagree with that statement. Yeah I'm not touching that one. But not my ex-cancer. He totally killed my desire for cancer men. Never again. I rather date a Gem and that's the kiss of death for mermaids.

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I'm having a free bitch party and wearing a tiara. ;D

Aha ..

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Dude it's going to be GLORIOUS 3 months and counting. Screw Christmas.

I heart Cancers.

No, not ALL Cancers are "WACK".. I've met/known a few, to be sure.

But "WACK" comes in all 12 flavors of the Zodiac, as does "AWESOME"🙂

Im a cancer male with ascendant in cancer too and I can attest that we can be crazy and emotional when pushed to that.. I think it takes us more time to grow up than other signs possibly, but it depends a lot on other signs in your zodiac as well. I have a moon in taurus and mars in capricorn though which I think would make me have a more grounded approach when it comes to emotional physical scenarios.. but does anyone know if there can be a cusp on moon signs? my moon is in taurus by just minutes.. and I feel like I fit the taurus description until I went through some bad heart break after me and my scorpio/libra cusp girlfriend broke up.. it may have been part of the emotional cancer in me but I began opening up to everyone and talking about my feelings a lot and I had never been like that before so I am considering that maybe under a lot of stress I took on some gemini moon traits since it is so close on the clusp.. or maybe I am just another "wack" Cancer?

cusp*^ not clusp...

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Wack is the sound a duck makes imo.

A duck with a harelip. Should be "quack" shouldn't it?

Hang on, is this an African or European duck?

"A duck with a harelip. Should be "quack" shouldn't it?"

*gigglesnort*

@sweet: It could of been your cancer coming out. I'm not too sure if moons can have a cusp. Anything is possible though.

I thought this was interesting

It has more to do with the way the sky is divided up. It isn't about a planet falling within a constellation anymore, because the constellations have moved.

What it looked at is degrees...the sky being a 360 degree circle and each sign gets thirty degrees....from 0 to 29 degrees.

When the sun is at 0 degrees Aries, it is the first day of spring. For instance, this year, the first day of spring begins exactly on March 20th at 7:59 a.m. if you live on the east coast, and on March 20th at 4:33 a.m. if you live on the west coast.

If a baby is born on the east coast on March 20th at 7:00 a.m., he/she will be an Pisces. If he/she is born after 7:59 a.m. on the east coast, he/she will be an aries.

However, there are other influences other than the sun, which is why some people think that it is the influence of being "on the cusp".

For example, my birthday is June 6th...making me a Gemini...that is NO WHERE near being "on the cusp" of either taurus or cancer. Yet, my whole life, I've felt like the descriptions of cancer and pisces fit me more than the description of a Gemini.

Later, I found out that at the time I was born and the year I was born, pisces was rising and the moon, mars and venus were all in cancer...which explains why I had so many characteristics of a cancer, and not as much influence from Gemini. Get it?? I know it's confusing.

Your moon is also going to be influenced by what house it is in, what other planets are aspecting it and the house that cancer rules in your chart (cancer being the sign which the moon rules).

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I heart Cancers.

Same😄

Posted by UsernameTaken
i have a moon in cancer, i'm also a cap in the sun department. i CANNOT STAND Cancer's! they're really dramatic and way too emotional. maybe its cuz of my moon sign, idk. but every cancer i meet is a drama queen and even if i distance myself from them and keep my opinions to myself, they still find a way to hate me. the one's i've met (5-10 ppl) are all crazy!!! real petty and manipulative too! this one chick i was close friends with who was a cancer, had a bf and all that, but yet i'd feel like i was dating the chick but i'd have to deal with the bullshit minus the sex or heavy "petting." it was ridiculous. one time she refused to talk to me for 3 days and wouldn't tell me why. i found out later in the week it was cuz i didn't call her back when she wanted me to. REALLY!? such a fucking child!!! Cancer's are fucking nuts. i've heard the sex is good but it's really up to you whether you want to date a clingy psychopath. thats just my opinion. i always tried being diplomatic with them but they play mind games like you would not believe.

I know a cancer girl that plays mind games too. Gets guys stuck on her even when she has a boyfriend she supposedly loves she still texts my brother and a few other people I know. I swear she tells guys she is pregnant just to get their attention too. 2 times 2 diff guys who were in love with her she told she was pregnant then all of a sudden shes not.. smh... and guys just keep going for it. My brother said she is crazy one minute shes sweet the next she is yelling at you for something and my other friend who dated her said everything was great then all of a sudden she vanished calling him 2 weeks later saying she was pregnant and now all of a sudden shes not...

I talk to a cancer guy right now and I keep getting insecure vibes but he seems so confident.. It's always two steps forward 5 back with him too. I'm a libra I think I'm just to aloof or something for him.. I'm just following his lead when he's attentive I'm attentive when he backs off I back off but this has been going on for almost a year.. I'm trying to decide if I should just cut the rope.

I dont know about cutting the rope but you should definitely draw a line in the sand but only after you figure out what you want and need from him. Once the emotional rollar coaster starts it sets a pattern, back to the saying of you teach people how to treat you. If you seem ok with his behavior why should it stop? In my experience with Cancer men its certainly best to take your time but once you have a clear idea of where you want it to go, than by all means state your case. He will either shit or get off the pot. Not to be mistaken with an ultimatum. Its not about "if you dont do this, then I'm going to do that"

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I dont know about cutting the rope but you should definitely draw a line in the sand but only after you figure out what you want and need from him. Once the emotional rollar coaster starts it sets a pattern, back to the saying of you teach people how to treat you. If you seem ok with his behavior why should it stop? In my experience with Cancer men its certainly best to take your time but once you have a clear idea of where you want it to go, than by all means state your case. He will either shit or get off the pot. Not to be mistaken with an ultimatum. Its not about "if you dont do this, then I'm going to do that"

I dont even know how to go about that without sounding like a bitch....

Im currently trying to date a cancer girl but she is confusing. Very much so.

Most Cancers are NOT confusing if you look close and deep enough ... take some time to get to know people long enough. In addition, take into account the AGE factor!
Life experience DOES count for ALOT .... imho. I dated a Cancer guy for 2 years, and we both had difficulty in communication .... TOO much alike in too many ways. It goes both ways.

Posted by eastsidehair
I POSTED ON CANCER FORUM INSTEAD OF RELATIONSHIP ASTRO.... CAN ANYONE WITH EXPERIENCE WITH CANCER MEN TAKE A LOOK AND GIVE SOME THOUGHTS PLEASE

I have only met one cancer male to my knowledge. Dude kept trying to punk me out at work so I had to check him. I will say this, I've never seen a sign that didn't know when to stop running their mouths until I met a cancer male. It's like a blend of sensitivity and machismo gone terribly wrong. Irritates me thinking about that dude...

They are wack so are the other 11 signs 🙂 Good luck!

I am a Cancer and I have to say - there is only room enough for one of us in any situation. I have personally never gotten along with other cancerians. The men are too emotional (for men) and the women are controlling.

Like I said - there's only room for one. LOL

Posted by aquarius21
They can appear tough on the outside (like the hard shell of a crab) and a lot are very good looking, but they'e too sensitive. They cry and complain the most out of every other sign. If they're boys -- they're mama's boys lol. They're always miserable and their zodiac name rightfully explains what they're like: Cancers lol

"They're always miserable" LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Total psychos, totally possessive, totally emotional, totally bossy...and totally empathetic, intuitive and magnetic!

Yeah them cardinals are bossy like they run the world

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Posted by aquarius21
They can appear tough on the outside (like the hard shell of a crab) and a lot are very good looking, but they'e too sensitive. They cry and complain the most out of every other sign. If they're boys -- they're mama's boys lol. They're always miserable and their zodiac name rightfully explains what they're like: Cancers lol

"They're always miserable" LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

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LMAO +1. I HAD bunch of cancer friends before I got sick and tired of their constant misery.

I've got a cancer brother and we don't really get on. Now we are adults I make a real effort to see him because I feel we should, but I wouldn't stay in touch otherwise. He seems to hold grudges for ever!

All Cancers are FREAKS. Good luck lol

No, because the Decan I and Decan III Cancers I know (and I do know quite a few of them) are wonderful people.

Decan II's tend to gravitate toward destructive, hurtful behavior, and they are equally inclined to be unrepentant for it.

Whether they are consistently harming other people, themselves or both, it's almost a natural inclination for them.

Whether they admit it or not, I don't give a shit.

It's true.

My mom is a Cancer and I an Aries we had challenges but what mother daughter doesnt. One thing for sure is I wouldnt trade my Cancer mom for any other mom in the Zodiac,.I was well taken care of, nurtured not smothered and she always had had my back, she is my biggest supporter. Yes they can be emo but they need someone who appreciates them as they have so much love to give, you would want a Cancer on your side.