Astrological chances of a Taurus ex returning 2013

Astrological chances of a Taurus ex returning 2013

Dear All,

I am a struggling, heartbroken Cancer (June 22nd), beating myself up over a Taurus man (May 1st birthday).
He said he loved me for months and months last year but I was not ready to love back at the time and did not want to lie.
I broke up with him at Xmas then missed him badly and fell for him and got back in touch. I said I was sorry and told him I loved him.
I made him a handmade card which he loved, telling him how much I love him and why.

He went hot cold hot cold until finally calling it all off, but not before coming back for some S*x one night.
The night we slept together I told him he could not stay the night only to break my heart in the morning and he agreed. But then he broke my heart anyway
Was that just revenge?

I've been doing 3 weeks of NO CONTACT now and trying to rebuild my life and move forward.

But I miss him so much.
Is there any chance of him coming back, according to the stars?
Is is a good thing to ignore/break contact with a Taurus man in this way?
Or should I be continuing to demonstrate my love for him?

Any help most gratefully received. THANKS

I will answer this as plainly as possible.

The calling it off, then recanting is read as not genuine. He hung in there hoping feelings would shift in his favor, they did not.

This flipped to still wanting to conquer you sexually, minus feelings.
You in turn felt sex would express your feelings and wash clean prior behavior and actions.
Doesn't align, yeh? Too little and too late.

I will tell you the odds of him coming back are slim to none.

This is where you need to examine why you were hesitant to give your heart. Honestly. Why you called done. Honestly. Isolate whether it was fear of not being part of a couple fueled it, or missing of the man himself. Allow yourself to heal, don't beat yourself up. Just pause, reflect and learn.
Head up high.

Thanks Mr Defense

I hope you are doing better.
How long did it take you to start to feel better? Were you going out for a long time?
Is is true that men and women deal with break ups differnetly?
Like, do you think my bull is now trying to shag someone else asap to get over this?

As for you, Venusianbull, thanks for forcing me to reflect.
I can honestly say it is the man I miss and not the need to be in a couple.
I am trying to be strong, but I can't get out of my head his hot and cold behavior towards the end
He rang me the day before his best friend's wedding, a couple of days before we split and a week after we slept together, saying he was "gutted" I would not be by his side.
The very next day he went cold again.
Also, in the week after he slept over, he rang me another night, very drunk, telling me he missed me and wanted hug from me

It's never easy. We as women can make ourselves clinical when there are no answers or closure. Sadly at times there never is any.
That is when we must reclaim yourself, take our power back. So we can be stronger. Wiser. Healthier for our own sake.
Never give up. Balance. For every catastrophe there is a miracle.
It is a neverending quest, finding self. Surprise yourself. We're always far more amazing than we give ourselves credit for. 🙂

P.S. Burn women's magazines. LOL 🙂

Serious again here. Write it all out on paper. All of it. Pour it onto the page. Every tear, all the confusion and hurt. Burn it. Set it loose. Give it to something bigger and trust. Cathartic. Very much so.

Thank you, Venusianbull.
The kindness of strangers on this site is amazing.

Yes, I hope he comes back to me.
Every day I dream and wish it.
But I've also read this site i depth and I think a Taurus male will not return once he has made up his ind.

Meanwhile, I must keep going forwards and not backwards
Hope I find that miracle one day
Hope you've found some miracles of your own too
x

You're very welcome luv. Take care of you. 🙂 x