Is Taurus Serious?

I've recently became involved with a Taurus. He is very sweet,charming,generous,loving,gentle, and kind. He can be aggressive yet gentle, he's observant, and a good listener, and he's a lot of fun. Right away though he started pushing for a relationship/commitment between us. He's already spoken about moving in, marriage, having children, and I've even met his parents although it's informal, we were/are going to do something more formal but I've met and spoken to them a little more now a few times. He got me a gift, and I do wear it out and love it.. We have strong chemistry, and a connection thats euphoric.. He's already told me he loves me that was less than 2 weeks in, and he still continues to say it, but its hard for me to believe it or put stock in it since its so soon. Anyway, I just want to know if this is how they just regularly act or, is this different? He did say he falls fast, and I try not to be on guard so much but I wonder if he's going to wake up one day and just not feel it anymore. But I am trying to be open minded, and I am enjoying his company and can officially say I'm smitten with him.

Sincerely,

Guarded Cancer...

Honey u got urself a winner, the man is whipped, congrats

Hmmm..sounds like his Venus is in Aries.. Falls Fast, and fizzles just as quickly. Take your time with him, Everything may feel fine & dandy now.. but when they hit a plateau...what have you got that is sustainable?? Take your time, slooooow him down. Make sure his motives are pure and sincere.

Yes I am hoping that I do, still feel some nervousness not in a bad way but haven't experienced anything like this its a shock to my system so much so I can't do anything but tread lightly...

I've looked for a motive and analyzed, and can't seem to find anything.. but my eyes and ears are open.

His venus is in Pisces. Not sure what that means. I spoke to him about it, and he agrees it is going very quickly but said thats just him and he knows what he wants thats how he is.

Generally I've heard a lot of good things about Taurus men. But I've never dealt with one romantically before really, so don't know what to expect. So far I can say they do seem wonderful,sweet, and matured men who like to cater to their women. Which I love,

So far, I feel alright. Just that nervousness, but I'm going with the flow keeping a watchful eye out as well. I've known him almost a month now, and didn't know him prior to that. It's all very new. Yes, I am taking a risk.. a calculated risk. 🙂

VENUS IN PISCES (www.Cafeastrology.com)


When your Venus is in Pisces, you love tenderly and compassionately. You are a peace-maker at heart, and your sensors are so strong that you pick up as much as possible, and perhaps more, from your partner. You have a sense of humor in love, although you have your shares of ups and downs, as you are a very sensitive person. Harshness bothers you. Wistfulness is almost as natural to you as breathing when it comes to love. No matter how you approach other areas of your life, there is a romantic side of you. You crave making a connection with a person—many would call it a deep connection, but spiritual is a better word, as your ideal love rises above rather than plunges below the mundane world.

You can be devastatingly attractive to some people, and your charm is of a tender and soft quality. Others sense your warmth, but also some elusiveness. As much as you want to connect and share with another person, you also resist being pinned down. You prefer to enjoy a certain amount of freedom to act on your feelings, rather than through schedules or impositions. Sometimes you attach yourself to people because you have a hard time saying "no". However, you also have a hard time pretending for any length of time. Your exit from a relationship may not always be direct and quick. You are not always comfortable with being direct, simply because you don't like hurting people's feelings.

You can sometimes seem like a chameleon in your relationships. People who share time with you, if they were to exchange notes about you, would likely have a very different impression of you. You can seem like a completely different person with different people--not because you have a weak character. Because you are an emotional sponge, you pick up the needs of those around you. Your adaptability comes from a lack of personal boundaries in matters of the heart. Pisces is the last sign of the zodiac, and it carries with it each and every sign. This explains, to a degree, your ability to slip into anyone's shoes without so much as a blink. So, with Venus, the planet of love and relationship, in Pisces, it is easy for you to pick up the needs of your partner and even adopt those needs as your own. Where do your needs start and end? It can be hard for you to distinguish what it is that you want because you very spontaneously and naturally soak in the needs and wants of a partner.

You have an amazing capacity to understand people and to

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You have an amazing capacity to understand people and to forgive. Just as you resist being pinned down to an absolute, a schedule, or a concrete definition, you also have a hard time drawing boundaries. In the process, however, you open yourself up to challenging situations and relationships. It is difficult for you to pass judgment on anyone in an absolute sense, as you have compassion for human failings, but sometimes it is the only way to close yourself off from a bad situation. Don't let others take advantage of your hospitality and empathy. Anyone who sees these traits as signs of weakness is likely preying on them! The right lover for you will recognize your kindness and your willingness to slip into someone's shoes as signs of strength! When that special someone has touched your heart, they are rewarded with a funny, sometimes kooky, and always tender-hearted lover. The right person for you will find you absolutely delightful, intriguingly changeable, and a treasure indeed.

Venus in Pisces people project themselves as dreamy, soft-hearted partners. Everything about the way they flirt promises a lovely time. Theirs is an elusive charm — they are sweetly playful, a little moody, and perhaps a little irregular. They appreciate romance and poetry, and they prefer to "feel out" both you and the relationship you share, so don't expect too much planning ahead. Their sensitivity can be a little misleading at times. Yes, they are sensitive folk, but lovers may find it maddening that this sensitivity is not only directed at them, but towards all of mankind.
Venus in Pisces men and women want you to know that their love is unconditional. They are unimpressed by your status, and love and accept you for all that you are inside. They love the underdog and are attracted to wayward folks, or those in need of a little help. With their romantic view of the world, they can be unreasonably attracted to states of suffering and martyrdom, so they easily get into the role of saving someone, or being saved. Unlike Venus in Libra, which thrives on equality, Venus in Pisces is actually turned on by inequality! They can be rather confusing and hard to pin down as they feel their way through their relationships. As much as they may want to, they find it hard to commit. Many do end up committing, however, at least on the surface.

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Pleasing Venus in Pisces involves enjoying tender moments and romantic times with them. You won't always be able to count on them. In fact, you can be sure they will stretch the truth every once in a while. But remember they do this because they fear they might hurt you, and they can't bear to cause you any heartache. Try to understand them, although that's never an easy task considering the fact that they don't always know themselves. And, truth is, some Venus in Pisces privately have a love affair going with the idea of being misunderstood. Try to put up with their apparent lack of direction in the relationship — they are so receptive and open to all possibilities that it is hard for them to commit to any one thing, idea, or even person. These intriguing partners will reward you with a love that is accepting and comes as close to unconditional as humans can get.

BEWARE BEWARE, men that profess love within 2 weeks no matter the sign tend to be crazy. He's love bombing you---Google "love bombing in relationships" get you smitten and unleash Dr.Jekyll.

Whatever you do don't fall in love, don't fall for the loving display persona. Have fun and the moment you see crazy quietly exit the relationship. Be cautious, be AWARE and know when to exit the moment he turns bad. Don't make excuses for the poor behavior---sometimes the behavior is subtle but it's coming.

If he's the real deal then he'll be okay with you slowing down and whatever you do stop taking gifts from the guy, get to know him without all the heavy displays of love. If he's truly in love then he should be fine slowing things down and taking his time develop the relationship.

That is quite unusual to be honest, I'm an Aries and it took my Taurus man a whole year to even flirt with me...
To me, Taurus man is by far the most stable sign and they take patience and slow meaning to a whole new level.

I would also suggest to slow things down and take some time to really know each other... If he really is into you that wouldn't bother him at all and in fact that should reassure him that you're a serious person.

Wish you the best of luck... Real Taurus man are sooo precious believe me on this 🙂

Very good description of Venus in Pisces. 🙂

I've dated two Taurus - the first one was professing all kinds of rubbish within the first two weeks of knowing/dating each other, to which I raised an eyebrow a few times. Ended it after 2 months and heard a while ago that although he is in a realtionship long term now he is all over dating sites getting some fun time.

The second (and current) I could tell he was feeling it after about 6 weeks and we also knew each other v.well for 3 months prior to that, but he was stable and solid enough to give himself much more time before he voiced what he was feeling.

My gut told me that guy number 1 was a player and guy number 2 a keeper 🙂

Thank you everyone for your comments and experiences. So far I will say things have slowed down, he is even a little distant but not disappeared. We still talk everyday, and he still tells me he loves me but he just seems to be keeping a distance or not making as much effort, so I was guessing maybe he wasn't feeling it as much, or we were unfortunately fizzling out.... but just when I think that he can randomly send me a message letting me know he loves me, or is thinking about me. Yet he hasn't really made time for us as of late, and I'm gonna be busy to a point where I won't be able to with work and other life things.... I had to calm my mind and compose myself. I'm trying to understand him, I know not everyone loves the same, and I got to understand his ways. He let me know he wasn't much of a talker, so I'm guessing he's more about that action and I read these men are not verbal. I just hate having to decipher behavior, or body language. I'll be a little more patient, from what I've seen it has potential, to be worth it.