Bad luck with Leo men :(

I am an Aries woman and I've had bad luck with Leo man. I was swing this Leo man for about 5 months and we both didn't look for a relationship when we started seeing each other and we both said we'll be open minded about it either it's just having fun or it'll become more. There was more and it always came from him he came to my place and stayed we watched movies and talked and cuddled. He always hugged me and looked at me and kissed my cheek or my forehead. Whenever I went to his place I left right after we had sex and I blocked because I just can't deal with rejection. The last time he was with me I finally managed to open up and told him more about me and I showed him affection. A week after he started hitting on my best friend and he knows that she is my best friend and he also knows that she has a boyfriend. I broke it off then and there and left his life without a word. Now another Leo approached me. We started off texting each other online and he liked all my pictures and he told me that he likes the way I look and that we should get to know each other. I agreed and we both decided to go on a date. I asked him straight up what he is looking for and he said he is looking for the right person. He texted me every day for like three days and added me on other social media accounts and then he stopped by and I texted asking him if we wanted to meet he said he was busy and he would let me know whenever he has time and that he is looking forward for it. I'll see if I like him and if I do I want to make the right approach so please help and there is another problem. The new Leo knows the old Leo but I'm sure he doesn't know that I had something going on with him because the old Leo did his best to keep me a secret. And please god can someone explain what the hell was wrong with the 1st Leo? We hit it off so great it was pure passion and we both liked each other I know it! I am sooooo confused.

Posted by Avies
I am an Aries woman and I've had bad luck with Leo man. I was swing this Leo man for about 5 months and we both didn't look for a relationship when we started seeing each other and we both said we'll be open minded about it either it's just having fun or it'll become more. There was more and it always came from him he came to my place and stayed we watched movies and talked and cuddled. He always hugged me and looked at me and kissed my cheek or my forehead. Whenever I went to his place I left right after we had sex and I blocked because I just can't deal with rejection. The last time he was with me I finally managed to open up and told him more about me and I showed him affection. A week after he started hitting on my best friend and he knows that she is my best friend and he also knows that she has a boyfriend. I broke it off then and there and left his life without a word. Now another Leo approached me. We started off texting each other online and he liked all my pictures and he told me that he likes the way I look and that we should get to know each other. I agreed and we both decided to go on a date. I asked him straight up what he is looking for and he said he is looking for the right person. He texted me every day for like three days and added me on other social media accounts and then he stopped by and I texted asking him if we wanted to meet he said he was busy and he would let me know whenever he has time and that he is looking forward for it. I'll see if I like him and if I do I want to make the right approach so please help and there is another problem. The new Leo knows the old Leo but I'm sure he doesn't know that I had something going on with him because the old Leo did his best to keep me a secret. And please god can someone explain what the hell was wrong with the 1st Leo? We hit it off so great it was pure passion and we both liked each other I know it! I am sooooo confused.

You were most likely boring to both of them. Thats what it sounds like to me.

So after I blocked him on Facebook he asked my friend about me and she didn't answer him. I forgot that he had my number so after weeks he called me on Friday. I didn't answer so he started sending text messages. We texted back and forth for hours. He told me that he wants to see me so bad and spend the night with me. I told him to leave me alone and that he should go to his other women he said he wanted me. On Saturday in the middle of the night he called me and asked if he could come over. I said no and yesterday I finally gave in and went to his place. We talked he said he didn't want a relationship but he wants to see me on a regular basis and he wants us to spend the night watch movies, hand out and have a good time together and he wants to sleep with me. I told him that I didn't want a relationship either but he can't have me and still have other women. He said he doesn't have anyone else but a one nightstand could happen at some point. I told him to never call me again and leave me alone but he didn't let me leave and we ended up sleeping together -.- I don't know what to do with this man, he wants everything with me that you can possibly have in a relationship but he doesn't want a relationship. He said he wants me more that anything but he also wants his freedom. No matter how much he tries to play cool I know he feels something for me. He let his pride down for me and Leos don't do that for just any woman. I feel like if we do what he wants we are going to end up falling for each other anyways and one of us is going to get scared and hurt the other one.

If he doesn't wsnt monogamy like you do, then stop

sleeping with him anyway.

I'm not deluded and I don't read too much into it. His behaviour is just confusing. I know what I want unfortunately he doesn't seem to know what he wants. I made up my mind I don't have any time to waste. I slipped once but that can happen to the best of us.

It CAN happen, true... but from what you have said,

he *does* know what he wants and that's FWB.

Unless we're talking of two different men here... ?

Ok the above is in regard to the first LEO.

Posted by Avies
So after I blocked him on Facebook he asked my friend about me and she didn't answer him. I forgot that he had my number so after weeks he called me on Friday. I didn't answer so he started sending text messages. We texted back and forth for hours. He told me that he wants to see me so bad and spend the night with me. I told him to leave me alone and that he should go to his other women he said he wanted me. On Saturday in the middle of the night he called me and asked if he could come over. I said no and yesterday I finally gave in and went to his place. We talked he said he didn't want a relationship but he wants to see me on a regular basis and he wants us to spend the night watch movies, hand out and have a good time together and he wants to sleep with me. I told him that I didn't want a relationship either but he can't have me and still have other women. He said he doesn't have anyone else but a one nightstand could happen at some point. I told him to never call me again and leave me alone but he didn't let me leave and we ended up sleeping together -.- I don't know what to do with this man, he wants everything with me that you can possibly have in a relationship but he doesn't want a relationship. He said he wants me more that anything but he also wants his freedom. No matter how much he tries to play cool I know he feels something for me. He let his pride down for me and Leos don't do that for just any woman. I feel like if we do what he wants we are going to end up falling for each other anyways and one of us is going to get scared and hurt the other one.

So many questions.....

So is the the same Leo that tried to hit on your best friend and you're still sleeping with him?

So you don't want a relationship or you do? You say you dont yet don't want him sleeping with other people— Those are conflicting messages.

If he felt something for you, why would he hit on your best friend and straight out tell you he WILL sleep with other people?

You don't what to do with this man? Are you two dating or just sleeping together? It seems like he already made the choice for you on what you can do with him.

If you end up doing what he wants YOU will end up falling, not him. My ex Leo was pretty out here like yours when we met but dropped them all quickly once we started seeing each other. There was no talk of maintaining his "freedom" ever. You are letting your emotions overtake what he is really showing and telling you. If you're not deluded then there shouldn't be a question on how he feels. He cares enough to make sure you still sleep with him whenever he wants....that's it.

^^^ Thats not entirely true. Leo's love stability, show him that and if the regular sex is good then he will fall for her all on his own. He's telling you that he wants FWB because he wants to be with you. He wont be fucking anyone else IF you can be steady. If you want him and like him, be constant. He should come around.

Omg I have bad luck with Leos too. They're the full package but have little dicks 😢

Posted by Ssuperman
^^^ Thats not entirely true. Leo's love stability, show him that and if the regular sex is good then he will fall for her all on his own. He's telling you that he wants FWB because he wants to be with you. He wont be fucking anyone else IF you can be steady. If you want him and like him, be constant. He should come around.

^^^^He is a Leo so he knows more about Leo men than I do BUT my Leo ex had many, many FWB steady Situations that were nothing more than sex. As long as the person was around to give him companionship and sex when he wanted, he would keep them around until the other person got tired of it never progressing and called it off. He still admittedly does this knowing he has no real feelings for the women and it'll never go anywhere. Be careful and be aware....

I have my feelings under control I'm not a little girl who falls for a man that easily I've been married before. I dumped him and he came back to me and he practically begged me to see me. I kept on telling him to leave me and that we won't see each other again. He kept on calling and messaging me. He told me that he is not having any other woman at the moment and he is not planning on seeing anyone and that he wants to see me. What I am confused about is the fact that he doesn't want a relationship but he wants to do things with me that couples do. I have to admit at first when we started seeing each I was really cold toward him. I don't know if I want a relationship I don't know him well enough. He might not be the right guy for me. I just want to spend time with him and be with him and enjoy the moment. We are both really happy when we are together. Last night he even told me that he missed me.

So are you not sure if you don't want a relationship at all, or just with him?

I would only settle down if It doesn't feel right. This Leo is different then the men I've had before, his strength and attitude is what attracts me and we say so often the same thing at the same time. We have some stuff in common but we are still completely different people. He has a very high status he is a professional athlete and this is why I mean with he could literally have every woman but he is still always coming back to me even after I've dumped him. And lately he insists on us spending the night together, he says he wants to sleep next to me. He always tries to play so cool and when I catch him he always loughs. He loughs a lot when we are together. I feel like he really enjoys my company. I joke around with him and I always we give each other witty answers. It's really funny sometimes. It just started recently. Before I dumped him he was on vacation for a month, he texted me as spins as he got back and came over to my place. Of course we were slept together and then he didn't go home right away we just talked and out of nowhere I felt comfortable about telling him that I was married before so I did and he wasn't shocked or anything. He thought it was perfectly fine. Hat was the last time we saw each other before I dumped him. It took him 2 weeks and I had already moved on and didn't even think of him anymore and that's when he called me and wanted to know why I didn't talk to him anymore. I told him it was because he was hitting on my best friend and why he had to hurt me. He said he was sorry and thought it wouldn't be that big of a deal of course I didn't believe that! I told him to leave me alone and he kept on texting me telling me he would get in his car and come to my place no matter what I said. I told him I wouldn't open the door. He said we wouldn't need to have sex just watch a movie and cuddle and spend the night together and he would not do anything I wouldn't want him to do I said no and the night after he called me in the middle of the night. He was coming home from a party and he wanted to see me that's when I told him I could come over to his place and we could spend an evening together and he agreed. I went over and as soon as we saw each other we kissed and hugged and of course landed in bed. He insisted again on me sleeping over but I left. I don't really no what to think he contradicts himself.

I'm sorry I meant I would only settle down if it feels right.

Btw he always tells me how amazing the sex is I have to say he is right, it's like we can read each other's mind. It's very passionate and we both love it and we are very much attracted to each other. As soon as we see each other we are all over each other. It should have gotten so boring by now but it hasn't I feel like it's getting better every time

Okay it's starting to get really weird. A guy from my college walked up there and started talking to me and asked me out right away and after he added me on Facebook I saw on his profile that he is a Leo as well. What the hell! I mean I know that Leo and Aries are supposed to attract each other and would make a good team but ever since I got back to my hometown Almost every guy who walks up to me is a Leo. and every single one of them does the same thing they come up to me guns blazed and super secure and are head over heels and want to meet me right away and then they disappear for a while and then they come back all fired up again. What's up with that? Is that a Leo thing?