Hey, I'm a Cancer female, aquarius moon, leo mercury and libra mars, and I'm interested in this boy, who has aquarius sun, sagittarius moon, aquarius mercuty and libra mars.
I've been attracted to him for a while, but I don't really know what to talk to him about. I work with him in some of my classes, we both giggle a lot, and whatever I say he laughs at but often I don't know what to say.
A cancer/aqua relationship is difficult. Aqua is aloof and distant and Cancer is affectionate and emotional. Aqua needs space and Cancers need togetherness.
My cancer BFF dated an aqua and she allowed him his space and tried not be needy, but she kept getting her feelings hurt. It didn't work out.
You will have to give him space, accept his aloofness and not take it personally, allow his independence, welcome all his friends (guys AND girls) without getting jealous, understand when he spends time with his friends, be aware that you won't hear sweet nothings and I love you's, be cool when he "disappears" for days, not expect constant contact/texts/phone calls, etc. If you can do all that, you will be fine. Sadly, my friend couldn't do it - and she's a cool, cautious cancer.
Sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear. Just being honest. Of course, I'm not sure how your other planet placements work together. Try a compatibility analysis report at cafeastrology.com
I should add this. Should have yesterday. Don't rely on astrology. Different signs that are astrological incompatible, can make it work! If you two want it bad enough and love each other enough, you can do anything. One idea is to use astrology to understand each other, but it all depends on the efforts you each put into it.
Sorry, that disclaimer should have been on my post.
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I've been attracted to him for a while, but I don't really know what to talk to him about. I work with him in some of my classes, we both giggle a lot, and whatever I say he laughs at but often I don't know what to say.
Any advice as to how to make this work somehow?