Cancerian Guy Will Forgive No Matter What?

I know cancerian guys are very forgiven and understanding but will they forgive you even when you kissed another guy? It happened only because I wasn't sure if we were exclusive and he got me so frustrated for not showing his feelings to me. Then, I realize it's just his way of defensing himself from getting hurt....when we are still in the uncertainty stage. But now all is cleared that we want each other and want to be with each other. I can feel it he loves me but he just not showing it. What is hurting me now is I'm the type to tell and share everything, and I dont want to keep everything from him but I'm afaid to hurt his feeling since cancerian are very sensitive. How can I do to make it a win-win situation? I need to be honest with him that I knew I shouldnt do that and was sorry and wrong and now that I want to be with him...(I'm the type once I found the one I would stick with it and be so faithful..)so now I know we are a thing so this definitly not going to happen again. By the way, we've been talking for half year now but we haven't sleep together since he's in the marine and just got back from Iraq...So should I tell him?

If it were me.... I would tell him. However, I can take the chance of losing someone. If you are absolutely guilt ridden, than tell him. You have to make it clear that you are ONLY interested in him, that you have no eyes for anyone else. I think he will be extremly upset, I know I would be. All you can do is say your very sorry. I would probably try and do things to make it up to him. I'm sorry, but he could forgive you, but he will never forget.

I think I probably wouldnt tell him. If i have come to this website earlier then I would have know why he's acting like distant to me. I thought he wasnt interested in me so where there was another guy asking me out I took that chance. If i knew only if i knew...then I wouldnt never have done it. I'm so regret and hate myself for been so stupid. I cant risk of hurting him now that we are sure together...no way. Thanks for ur advice, crabcake

Well I wouldn't tell as it was only a kiss and as you said you weren't in an exclusive relationship. If you do tell and risk losing him or him never forgetting, you could ruin this relationship before it even starts. When they don't forget it means they will be watching you and even accusing you later on. So long as it doesn't ever happen again, everyones entitled to a little mistake.

ya...i wouldnt tell him either. while i really, really love honesty, if u werent really together yet u are allowed a little uncertainty. a kiss isnt that bad but i know if i was him it sure would seem that way. your fidelity isnt something u want him to question...trust me🙂

thanks guys for your responses 🙂

Being a cancer woman I would appreciate the honesty... We like people who just keep it real... I have a male friend who is a cancer as well... His girlfriend of a year cheated on him twice and they are getting married in May of this years... He'll be mad at first but he will appreciate the fact that you were being honest and if he really loves or likes you than he will forgive you...

I find cancer males hold grudges to the grave

Yeah, I don't think I would tell him. I think next to Scorpio Cancer is the least likely to be able to forgive & forget. It's possible, but Cancers are so fabulous, I wouldn't want to risk it.