This guy and me have been friends for three years..we haven't ever gotten tgether or become a couple friends thinks he is totally in to me..say its obvious and why cant i see it always flirts with me... had a few major arguments where we stopped talking for months..he came back and said he lost "someone special" "felt really depressed" "missed me" "couldnt eat/sleep/function without me"
a year back...sent me a song through which he hinted ..he wanted to define what we have..didnt think he would find someone like me..wanted to make me his wthen he directly asked me would you like a boyfriend..(hinting about himself)...i said i like being single for now ...and independent..maybe i confused him
A couple of months later..he comes back to me and tells me about him and this girl and how they went out together she was kissing him and was all over him, told him she loved him and wanted to be with him..(desperado in my opinion)..he told her he didnt see her that way after their cinema and park date..told me he would stop leading her on and talking to her
six months laterhe tells mehe still speaks to her and she seems keen to go out with him again...i asked him do you like her he said no i dont see her that way..but she is so hot and off the scale in terms of attractiveness..and how shes got such a nice smile..to which im thinking why are you telling me
point is why is he talking to her ? if he doesnt want to lead her on and where do i stand here?? hes still keeping contact with me and going on about marriage and acting like im the only one for him
It appears that Virgos are incapable of reading feelings and emotional gestures .. of any kind, of any person.
I think that probably Virgos should only engage in arranged-relations
Is this the same CapMan you were talking about a year ago, in which you couldn't quite grasp what was going on in your life with him in it? Nor could you quite grasp how you are suppose to feel, or where you stand, you couldn't quite grasp any aspect of what your life is suppose to mean since you had developed feelings, feelings in which were unfamiliar to you because they were loved based?
And now a year later .... you still have no clue what is going on in your life, as it pertains to him ... you are still walking around with your head up your ass?
friends thinks he is totally in to me..say its obvious and why cant i see it
always flirts with me...
had a few major arguments where we stopped talking for months..he came back and said he lost "someone special" "felt really depressed" "missed me" "couldnt eat/sleep/function without me"
a year back...sent me a song through which he hinted ..he wanted to define what we have..didnt think he would find someone like me..wanted to make me his
wthen he directly asked me would you like a boyfriend..(hinting about himself)...i said i like being single for now ...and independent..maybe i confused him
A couple of months later..he comes back to me and tells me about him and this girl and how they went out together she was kissing him and was all over him, told him she loved him and wanted to be with him..(desperado in my opinion)..he told her he didnt see her that way after their cinema and park date..told me he would stop leading her on and talking to her
six months laterhe tells mehe still speaks to her and she seems keen to go out with him again...i asked him do you like her he said no i dont see her that way..but she is so hot and off the scale in terms of attractiveness..and how shes got such a nice smile..to which im thinking why are you telling me
point is why is he talking to her ? if he doesnt want to lead her on and where do i stand here?? hes still keeping contact with me and going on about marriage and acting like im the only one for him
yet also keeping in contact with the "hot" girl..