Capricorn Man Disappears Then Comes Back STRONG!

Greetings All... For the sake of clarity and how long my posts can be, I tried to coalesce things into time periods.

Nov 2011: I meet a Capricorn male while tailgating. I'm an Aquarius (Taurus Ascendant, Venus in Pisces). We hit it off instantly, and communicate a lot via text and phone calls. We do this the entire month of November, without even seeing each other.
Dec. 2011- We began hanging out, and everything I already liked about him was amplified as here he was in the flesh! I would see him about once a week... We go out or stay in but we always enjoyed each other??s time. Things began getting physical. I'm beginning to genuinely like the guy. By the end of December he wants to have sex. I decline. I'm "holding out" because I am no longer interested in being "booty meat". I want a full-fledged relationship. I also want him in the WORST way. My emotions have become involved.
Jan 2012- I decide that I'm ready enough (not really). Our foreplay is BANANAS (You Caps are BEAST in the bedroom. He stops before we actually have sex. I take it to mean that he knows if he crosses this line with me, there is no turning back. I'm torn about it. I want to "own" someone who will always do what they themselves want to do. Point. Blank. Period
Mid Jan- Early Feb 2012- He begins to distance himself. Says he is going to come over, and then offers reasons why he can't. He is still nice as always, but the seasons have changed. I can feel it in my gut.
March 2012- He is all but gone, no text, no calls, no nothing. I am all but lost. I'm ornery and do not like to appear weak. Even though I'm trembling inside I call him once, and leave him a message. He never responds. I never call back.
March-October 2012- I surround myself with all that makes me happy and joyful, somehow he doesn't leave my psyche. I get a call in regards to tailgating season. When I found out that he is related to my gf's fianc? who heads are tailgating club, I decline to come. His relative tells me I should. I hold my breath.
October 2012- I see him for the first time in 7-8 months. I'm in a really good place in my life. The look on his face was one of nervousness. As if to say is this girl going to be a bitch? But, I'm a lady, a beautiful one at that (inside first), and I give him the biggest smile and joke with him. All is well within my soul. The entire tailgate I catch him staring at me. I have kept my glasses on to block his stare. Somehow I knew something like this would happen.

I keep my glasse on to block hi stare. I prefer my thoughts (whatever they are) to be my business only. lol...
Nov- Dec 2012- He has left my psyche. I treat him like an old familiar cousin. I see him at the tailgates. We speak from time to time. I mention I'm moving and ask him to put up a TV for me. He says he will. I soon decide not to do it. I neglect to tell him, but we still make small talk when we see each other at the tailgates, and I of course meet other guys while there. One instance I was a short distance from him (not realizing it) and I was talking with a guy. The Cap comes by me and gives me the most obvious nudge. Ha??_ throwing shade. I laugh it off??_ At another tailgate he gives me his number. I never call.
Jan 2013- At the last tailgate of the season he comes up to me. Asks why I haven't called him. That he didn't have a method of getting my number (One of my good friends is marrying an uncle he is VERY close to??_ lmao). Asks me about the work I needed done at my house. I give him my number. Shortly after, he begins to text, then the calls began, now he's been over twice doing —work?? at my house. He has been very accommodating very forthcoming with what I would consider showing interest in me. I asked why he disappeared and he said that he felt we had different intentions in regards to our relationship at the time??_ I tell him I had no intentions, but I did have expectations (which was a Big Error). But for me A+B=C. He is showing me more action now??_ In ways I haven't seen before. He has even begun calling me baby (Really?!?!). I don't know what at all to think or how to react.
Feb 2013- At present he has been coming on pretty strong. I try to keep my distance though. I'm letting him do the majority of the work (Haven't even reaized that til lately). Not because I'm playing games, but because I'm not the same woman I was when we first met. I still like him as a person. I'm still intrigued by him. I'm just more —aware??, and have no plans on being the jilted one anytime soon, and I don't know what he wants. What do you all think of his behavior? Is this is way of trying to get me back? What does he want my friendship or something more? I will ask him in due time I suppose, but I'm both passive-aggressive (in regards to men I like), and I'm not ready for such a heavy conversation??_ Tell me. What do you think?