I am 21 and an capriquarian. I recently met this 31 year old taurus guy who i grew an instant fondness to. We've met each twice for a drink and ended up in bed. While I must admit this guy is a great performer in bed, problem is I don't understand his nature too well. He's a great company, a successful business man, recently broke up from a 5 year old relationship. We me twice on my off days and I enjoyed his company. He's somebody who didn't force me to bed however he was too irresistible for me that I couldn't avoid making a pass at him lol. Now the thing is he's told me that he kinda likes me, thinks I am a great girl, hot and stuff like that. Also occasionally keeps making jokes that I am too young for him. We made out this last time and I haven't heard from him since. I know he's a really busy guy with meetings, conference phone calls, constant travelling and so i dont wanna call him. But after this last time, Ive kinda started liking him a lot. And I don't know what to do, cos I don't wanna dare touch the subject of relationship, firstly cos Its too early, secondly, I don't know what his reactions gonna be like. Also the fact that hes just broken off from a serious relationship too., I am also scared about the age factor. I don't really know what to do and how to proceed? Do you think I should play cool or how do I make an impression? We share a great chemistry in bed tho. But I dont wanna end like some fuck buddy cos I think I really love this man. I dont know how to go along. If I should wait for him to call me or what?
Can anyone please give me some pointers and suggestions?
DaBull_isDaShit - We slept on the first date. Disaster I know. His last relationship of 5 years ended cos the girl wanted to get married and he had some future plans with pursuing a post graduate degree. He couldn't make her wait. He often tells me about how much time he invested in his relationship and Its all over. Sort of like he has something against the girl. We had a good sexual chemistry. But after a while he seemed less interested. We do meet up now and he keeps telling me a lot of things about making changes in my life. Get a graduate degree, go for what I really want to do and that he is ready to mentor me. He always answers my phone calls. and the last two times we met, he didn't talk of sleeping but made me sit and talk about career and things. I don't know what this means. I am just playing along. He always ends up making a lot of impact on me. scorpio_chic Yes I know he meant what he said. Maybe he thinks I am too young for him.
So how can I make things exciting going forward. Any tips on how I can win this man over ?
Honestly, I wish I could give you some really good advice. One thing I learned about Taurus men is that they like a driven woman who is ambitious like him and working towards her goals. I learned that Taurus men will take as much time as they need to find the right woman, and will instantly know when they've found the woman they want. The first day I met my Taurus man I wasn't really into him, or ready for anything. I'm a Capriquarius woman w/ a strong Aquarius side & am not quick to jump into anything emotionally w/ anyone. My Taurus man was EXTREMELY persistent after that day. Texting me throughout the day everyday. But, now that I think of it, he may have been so impressed because upon our first meeting I did share w/ him my current activities, and future goals - which I think he liked very much. So he harassed me for a few weeks. And then on my birthday he called me to go out for drinks and I went. Needless to say, we ended up in bed that night. At the end of that night, he told me "I belong to you now, I trust you". I was floored. I didn't expect this instant "latch" on me to happen on his end, but it did. Being that the Taurus man is so freaking irresistible, I couldnt seem to stay away from him and now we are together & I want to be with him forever if I can help it LOL! He does have the tendency to disappear for the day. He'll contact me once or twice each day where as he used to bombard me w/ texts and messages all day long and lost himself whenever he felt I wasn't giving him my full attention. But, that's ok w/ me because I'm the type of girl who likes my space and time to myself due to my Aquarius side. So, Im good. But, he always comes back to me. And when he does, he comes back strong. With all of the affection and attention that I like. And he is devoted only to me as his partner. So, I can dig it. I hope this bit of info helps you.
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