CONFUSING Leo guy!! NEED advice!!

I met this Leo guy a little over a month ago when we ran into each other at a wedding we both happened to be attending. We actually first met 6-7 years ago thru a mutual friend but at the time he had a girlfriend and I literally haven't seen him in probably 5 years or so. We never really talked before so when I saw him at the wedding I formally introduced myself.

So that night he was very interested. We talked a LOT about all sorts of things (interests, career, etc). We exchanged numbers and then My group and his group ended up leaving the wedding to go to a bar. I figured I'd see him there or just talk to him later. As I was coming down the stairs at the bar suddenly someone grabbed my hand and pulled me over to where he was. It was that guy. I was sort of taken aback by that (in a good way). And then we proceeded to talk a bunch more.

Eventually we all parted ways for the night and he texted me as he was driving home (Mind you he didn't drink at all that night. He is training to be in a big bodybuilding show so he is extremely strict with his diet. NO alcohol.). I honestly' didn't really know what to think. I have been terrified of relationships for awhile so I've been avoiding those sorts of situations. This one included. The next day we texted a bit about the night before, joking around about how I "proposed" to him. He made mention about hanging out again and I said we'd definitely have to meet up sometime.

For the next week or so I really didn't say anything because I wasn't sure what I wanted to do. He didn't text or call either so I figured the wedding was just kind of a fluke thing and maybe we'd be friends, but I really didn't actively pursue anything. But then I made the mistake of drunk texting him about 6 days after the wedding and we ended up talking a little bit more the next day because I had to apologize for my mishap. He said if I wanted to talk all I had to do was text him. It was a jovial conversation. We texted randomly here and there for the next 5 days or so.

Well almost two weeks after the wedding we were texting a lot more and we came to find out that we have a LOT of the same things in common. He even mentioned "where have you been all my life??" and then from there things just started to take off. He asked me to hang out with him and his friends the next night, but said there were no actual plans set in stone yet and he'd let me know. Well the next night he ended up saying he was going to stay in and have a chill n

have a chill night. I was kind of bummed. At this point in time he asked me if I have Instagram and we linked up on there and started following each other on there. He liked almost all of my pictures and he said "wow, just as pretty as I remember from the wedding". It was around then that he REALLY started to show interest. Called me beautiful, pretty, sexy, PERFECT. We talked at length about interests and stuff and he kept urging me to tell him more about myself. He asked me a few times when we were going to hang out, and I always told him "just make the plans"... He seemed genuinely interested in getting to know me. He would text me "good morning beautiful" in the morning and usually say something similar at night before going to bed.

A few days later he asked me again to hang out with his friends. That was on Thanksgiving Eve. He picked me up and we all went into the city to the same bar we'd met up at the night of the wedding. It was really fun. We talked allll night again and his friends were all really nice and entertaining. He grabbed my hand to pull me towards him when I mentioned that the guys behind me had grabbed my butt as they walked by. He also took my hand as we were leaving to lead me out. We kissed at the end of the night when he dropped me off.

And then it was around then, on Thanksgiving and the next few days that he seemed a bit "cold" to me. Didn't text as much, took longer to reply. Didn't really call me beautiful or anything.

But then that Monday it started up again even heavier then before. Texted ALL day and ALL day tuesday. It was entertaining texts and he seemed interested all over again.
It got to the point that we discovered VERY specific things in common and he quoted a movie and I quoted it right back and he said "Annnddd I like you" and I replied "haha, right back atcha" and then a little while later he said "good night perfect girl". Then the following day he was sort of "cold" again. Didn't hear from him until I texted him first. And then that thursday NOTHING. total silence. Friday I mentioned I'd had a dream about him, he replied, I said we have to hang out again soon, and he said we definitely do and that is the last thing I've heard from him. That was this past Friday. It's now thursday and Ive heard NOTHING from him. I texted him Saturday twice. No reply. Monday I just said "hey u". No reply. We are still following each other on Instagram and stuff. But literally.... greatest disappearing act a guy has

greatest disappearing act a guy has ever pulled..... I'm just completely thrown for a loop!— The only thing I can think is that there was another girl and he ended up going for her instead of me. Either way it just makes me head spin that a guy can be so complimentary and SAY that he wants to hang out again, and then go completely silent...

I don't get it. How can a person seem SO interested... and then drop off the face of the earth—

PS: I should probably state our birthdays since I DID find that out about him....

Hi I am new to this board but I have some advice if you would like to listen...

Your first conclusion about the encounter was dead on.. it was a fluke, point being: if a guy is really interested he will go out of his way to make sure you know it..LEO especially since they enjoy lots of attention.

This guy is not leading you on per say, but he is just going with the flow our YOUR actions and will accept whatever you throw, which is probably not what you want. He should of been the one calling you because he wanted to talk/hang out not because of the "drunk text incident" you made to regain contact. May I mention that his attention can be easily swayed by "anyhting in a skirt".

I am not bashing the LEO male they are most fun, but generally speaking in the repect of a relationship being meaningful for the woman...the man has to be interested, especially in your situation since so much time was spent getting to know one another and all the texting. He should have wanting to spend lots of time with you...

So.. just don't put too much emotion into him to aviod a headache and heartbreak.

Please let us know how it goes🙂

I LIKE LENORE'S ADVICE..IT'S SO WISE TO CONTINUE TO LIVE YOUR LIFE AND IF HE'S REALLY INTERESTED HE SNIFF BACK AROUND...LOL