I have a major thing for a Leo male. Help!

A little over two years ago I went on a date with a Leo male. things went exceedingly well, and we ended up hooking up. We did not have sex, though. He confided in me that he was on a break with his girlfriend. I kept my distance afterwards but ran into him again at a party and ended back at his place where we hooked up again, but I again did not have sex with him.

I sent him an email telling him that I liked him and enjoyed spending time with him, but I felt my involvement was complicating the situation and out of respect for him and his relationship that I'd be content if we stayed friends with some distance between us.

He got back with his girlfriend, and I entered into two year long relationship that has since dissolved. He has kept in regular touch with me, and now that I am single has been upping his flirting hardcore. I am very attracted to him. The sexual chemistry between us is insane. Even people who are not privy to the situation have noticed and commented on the tension between us.

He wants to hang out with me alone. But his involvement with his girlfriend leaves me wary. I guess I am asking, how do I keep him interested in me incase he ever leaves his girlfriend, and how do I manage to let him know he is crossing the line without hurting his ego. While I really want him, I will not tolerate any of his funny business?

I'm Sag sun, Pisces Rising, with a Cancer Moon. Aquarius Venus.

He is Leo sun, Sag Rising, Leo Moon. Leo Venus.

I can pull our whole charts if needed. Just eek, help.

Simply say it. Fire Sun, Fire Moon, Fire Venus and Fire Rising...His ego will be fine. In fact, it could probably use a hit.

I don't want to sound mean so I hope I don't but me thinks he is only chasing so hard because you are running. Once you actually sleep with him ...it's a wrap. Unless of course it is earth shattering. Then he might stick around for a little while.

Say this...I don't share men. If it is the truth, then he will have no choice but to respect it. However, you can't say that and continue to give him BJs (I assume that's what you mean by hooking up but not having sex).

I am going to sound like my grandmother here but if he will cheat with you he will cheat on you.

He sounds like a piece of crap to me. Please tell me you don't know the girlfriend because if you do I am coming through the computer.

I don't know his girlfriend at all. I see him out constantly and have never seen her. When we hooked up, they were not together. We have mutual acquaintances and I know this to be true.

Honestly, push come to shove, I don't think he would cheat on her. And it certainly would not be with me, because Cookie don't play that.

And you totally don't sound mean at all. Good insight requires honesty!

Posted by Nala13

I am going to sound like my grandmother here but if he will cheat with you he will cheat on you.
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ain't that the truth 99.99% of the time I tell people that all the time but do they ever listen . No 😢

Posted by seraph

Posted by Nala13
Simply say it. Fire Sun, Fire Moon, Fire Venus and Fire Rising...His ego will be fine. In fact, it could probably use a hit.

I don't want to sound mean so I hope I don't but me thinks he is only chasing so hard because you are running. Once you actually sleep with him ...it's a wrap. Unless of course it is earth shattering. Then he might stick around for a little while.

Say this...I don't share men. If it is the truth, then he will have no choice but to respect it. However, you can't say that and continue to give him BJs (I assume that's what you mean by hooking up but not having sex).

I am going to sound like my grandmother here but if he will cheat with you he will cheat on you.

He sounds like a piece of crap to me. Please tell me you don't know the girlfriend because if you do I am coming through the computer.

^^^^^^^^

That. In fact it's so well-put I wish *I* had said it.

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Thanks everyone! Sometimes you know something and just need to hear someone else say it.

I'm going to be avoiding him like the plague from now on.

When you say "hooked up" what do you mean?

Was wondering the same thing, Luner Maiden. Isn't *hooking up* the term for sex these days?

Or did you "hook up" your trailer to his pick up truck?

^^^^ LMAO. It sure is! I think the terms meaning is starting to evolve to oral activity.

Will wait for OP to confirm this.

Making out with heavy petting. Second base? Is that still something adults can say post high school?

Especially since we went on a date to a petting zoo.

Oh okay, okay you guys! He touched my breasts, and then I touched his penis in an erotic fashion.

I've had subway encounters more graphic on accident.