Gemini woman/Capricorn Man

First, I have to say, that reading the posts has been so interesting! I have read a lot of them, and knowing different friends/family and their signs, it is so easy to read into them knowing what their signs are like. That said, I have a few questions for the astrologically savvy. Ok, I had a Capricorn man(12/30/73) high school sweetheart. Honestly we were truly in love. He was the most intense, loving, adoring,etc. man I have ever known. Him and I came to a crossroads when I graduated high school (he is 4 years older than me, so he was going off to a different college) we made an amicable split..however, a year and a half after we ended I got engaged to another man. He could not stand it. I had moved to Florida and he was stopping by my Mothers house asking about me, over and over again. I came up to visit from Florida and he stopped over unannounced and I asnswered the door. I invited him in and he stayed and talked for awhile. When he left he went to hug me and I moved away. After all, my husband(a 9/19/74 Virgo) was sitting right there and he is MAJOR jealous because he knows our history.

Long story short, my relationship with the Cap man was effortless. Seriously, we were so bonded. But after I got married, he kept coming around. I don't know what he wanted. I mean does that mean he still wanted me or what? I will always love him, I can't help it. I talked to him two years ago and we talked for an hour about everything going on now, but never talked about the subject of what used to be. I am still married to the same Virgo man, although he is driving me NUTS! He is so critical and gripes all the time it grates on my nerves, and he is not nearly as affectionate or loving (and great in bed) as my Cap man was.

What is it like in a typical Gem woman/Cap man relationship, and can I ever get over him? Or should I try to get in contact with him? My birthday is 5/27/77 at 8:22 PM, Cap man is 12/30/73, but I am not sure what time. Thanks!!!