Help with a pisces woman

I desperately need help on how to handle the current situation im stuck in with regards to a Piscean woman. is anyone free for a quick discussion lol

Whats the problem?

long story short, I am a female cancerian and I was in a relationship with an older Piscean woman. We have been living together for 2 over years right up to now, but we have broken up some time ago. The only reason she stated for the breakup is that she cannot see herself with a woman. (She has always been with men) however, when I asked to move on, she will cry and stated she does not know what she really wants. I have told her I would want her by my side always, however I would not be able to take it if she really starts dating someone else and still living with me. The last conversation we had, she said to let her know if I really cannot take it anymore and she will move out. Does this mean it is over totally? She said she did not want to hurt me and she knows it is hurting me to see her on a daily basis.

Ok. Thats a tough one. The only thing I can do is give you my best guess.. Perhaps she really is confused and isnt sure what she wants. I don't know what caused her to be unsure about your relationship but I'm guessing she has big worries and it would probably help to get to the bottom of those and address the issues. She loves you or she would have already moved out and let you move on..right? I have a hard time making decisions.. And if I said "if u want me to move out, I will"..that would be giving you control so you could make the decision for me.. Like.. "if my indecision is causing you pain..then you can decide for me".
It doesnt sound good, but she isnt gone yet. I think you should talk more. If she didnt want to be with a woman.. Then why is she with you now? Thats like saying I dont want to be with a blonde. or a white guy .well, he's been blonde and white since day 1.. So what the hell?
It's not like she just now noticed that you are a woman!

Yeah, which is why I cannot help but keep questioning the whole situation. During good times I will take it in my stride and tell myself she's a Piscean, therefore it is normal for her to react this way. (I have been reading up ALOT about Piscean traits lol)However during low times I cannot help but question if I should just really walk away. We have spoken about this many times already, and each time she would cry and say she does not want to talk about it. It's her way of escaping, I know, but I need some security on my end as well, know what I mean? In fact, this was what I told her too, and you are right, she did say that if I want her to move out she will understand and do it. Exactly as you said, it seems like she wants me to make the decision for her. However I have already stated my stand very clearly to her that I do not want her to go, and she is very important to me not only as a companion. With this, she replied that she understands what im feeling and that she does not want to move out even if she is dating unless I want her to. Does this mean anything? Am I just being made use of by her or she is just being a typical Piscean according to the many horoscope websites I have been reading? I really need some advice 😢

Take care of you. She isn't purposefully using you, I don't believe. Not in her mind.. She is torn. She loves you but something is keeping her from commiting to you. She loves you enough that she doesn't want to leave but that isn't enough for you. Get over her tears, she needs to come clean to you..while crying or not. And you know what you want..what you deserve, if she can't give it to you.. Maybe let her go

Whenever we broach on the topic, she will be upset and would ask me if she does not feel anything for me, why is she crying. We did talk about the whole reason behind the fact that she cannot fully commit, and she said it is because I am not a guy, as she needs to face her family members and friends who are all straight, and she does not know how to handle facing them. Btw she also said that she is happy with the way things are with us now, that she feels no pressure or stress to talk to me about anything at all (including people who are showing interest in her), as opposed to the times when we were together and she had to be 'careful' with her communication with me. Oh and another thing, I sent her a text and told her I cannot help but be a little jittery about the situation as I feel she is slipping away, and she replied " I am not slipping away". I know I am holding on to false hope, but you reckon she may just change her mind about 'us' again some day? This is also why I cannot bring myself to ask her to move out, coz I know once I do that, it is definitely over. I'm sorry I just need to rant it out, thanks so much for listening. I hope you can keep replying as well lol.

I think you deserve someone who isnt "embarrassed" to be with you. Plain and simple.

So her reactions have nothing to do with being a Piscean? As in due to her character.

thanks piranhaparadiise and PiscVirgAquaFish for both of your great advice. I guess I know what I SHOULD do as opposed to what I WANT to do lol...cancerian tsktsk...haha. Anyhow, I really wished she would not throw the decision to me as to whether or not she should move out. To me it is plain simple, I want to be there for her , always if possible. That's why I chose for her to continue using my place as a safe habour. I know eventually she will swim away, but is there ANY hope AT ALL that she may realise this pond is all she needs? That's the ultimate hope that im clinging on.

alright I will try to let it go 🙂 no more what ifs and how abouts eh haha

As a pisces I can definitely relate to the "she will cry and stated she does not know what she really wants." This sounds rough, but if she isn't sure than she isn't interested. Pisces love attention and sometimes it can be difficult to differentiate between "I like liking you/you liking me" and "I like you." If that makes sense.

If she wanted it than it would be passionate and she would know.

We did have our passionate times but as I mentioned she keeps harping on the fact that I'm not a guy. Sigh. Would like to let go but somehow I just can't seem to , at least for now. Any other advice as to how I should handle this for now? I have been reading a lot about pisces horoscope to get a better insight. Somehow I feel this is not the end. Or is it?