Dear pisces women

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Scorpioeight3 on Tuesday, April 2, 2013 and has 14 replies.

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@Scorpioeight3
13 YearsScorpio

When your interested in a guy, how do you react around him? too nice, shy, or just plain weird? I know age and experince has a big roll on action or respons in these matter. So Whats your input...... agr 21 early march pisces.....

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@Scenic
14 Years5,000+ Posts

I give the guy my full attention, smile and laugh, talk about all different kinds of things, even the weird. I'm not shy, but I sometimes say stupid things because I can't think straight. Haha.

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

When I see a guy that I like, I'm speechless for a few minutes. If we get to hang out, I'm very guarded during the first hour or so, because I'd like to be on my best behaviour. However, my brain starts releasing endorphines in his presence (happiness neurotransmitters) and I get high.

So I change from mute, to lady-like, and then to bubbly, daring or over-excited (depending on how strong our chemistry is) within a couple of hours. Luckily, the moods become less extreme as I get used to him.

If the guy chases me, I keep him at arm length. If the guy is aloof, I toy with him like the cat with its prey.

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@Scorpioeight3
13 YearsScorpio

@88 - har har... If I was really that old, all you need to do is walk away. Probably wouldnt be able to keep up your walking pace. Hehe 😉 @scenic - shes not the shy type... She really nice to me... You can say too nice... 🙂 @ eusivesoull - enlighten me about it, please...

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@Undine
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Posted by Scorpioeight3
@undine- so pisces women likes being pursued? Like a game? Bc I hate games...

It's not a game. If I like him a lot, but I'm not romantically interested, I would still want to keep him as a friend.

If I don't want someone around me, I usually freeze and frown at his advances. A "No" does not mean I'm hard to get, it means I just want to shout " GET LOST AND NEVER COME BACK!". But I'm a gentle Pisces and I don't like being rude. He'll see the anger in my eyes, though.

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@Scorpioeight3
13 YearsScorpio

@soull- riddles? I mean its hard enough to try to understand women period lol... @aquafish-this sounds a lot like her.. Atleast the vibe I get. 🙂 @ chance11- sarcasim? weird meaning she would berereally nice towards me and when I return it back, she rejects my kindness...

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@FormOfAFish
13 Years

Since she's an early pisces I'm going to assume her birthday is not past the 10th. Mine is march 7th, and I can tell you that when I like someone at first it's like test. A test to get your attention to see if you like me and the start of something. I would start by staring at you, I wouldn't make it obvious but I'd make it obvious to you. Either it's me being funny, being loud, or just being where you are. If I like you you'll be seein me a lot. Then if I feel or have a sense you like me ill spark the fire, make things for you, buy things, draw/paint things for you. Do things I think you'd like, gifts. I'd text you asap if I liked you, give you my attention and anything beyond that. After I'm sure you like me, I will try to spend time wih you, a lot of time with you. Nothing tells me you like me then giving me some time of your day to see me. Ill be the sweetest lady to you, I'll laugh at everything you say, I'll be okay when you touch me but be mad if any other guy does, (unless I'm tryin to make you jealous), ill glow when I see you, and you being a Scorpio, you could probably tell when a pisces like you. Just like this lady probably already knows you like her because we can sense when someone likes us more then friends. (; oh and last thing, ill get jealous when you are with another girl and to notice that, I'll go from friendly happy laughing girl to a nonsociable quite shy girl until you say something to me to make me feel like you want my attention not that other girls.

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@AravisCalormene
13 Years

Posted by Undine
Posted by Scorpioeight3
@undine- so pisces women likes being pursued? Like a game? Bc I hate games...

It's not a game. If I like him a lot, but I'm not romantically interested, I would still want to keep him as a friend.

If I don't want someone around me, I usually freeze and frown at his advances. A "No" does not mean I'm hard to get, it means I just want to shout " GET LOST AND NEVER COME BACK!". But I'm a gentle Pisces and I don't like being rude. He'll see the anger in my eyes, though.

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That's some Venus in Pisces ish, there. Bam!

*drops mike and walks off

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@Undine
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Posted by deezie
Posted by Scorpioeight3
she would berereally nice towards me and when I return it back, she rejects my kindness...

I think this is fairly standard Pisces stuff.

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I used to do something similar in my tweenies and early twenties, for this reason: I was having a fantasy relationship with a boy and he was quite the challenge. I was inventing and perfecting seductive skills in my head, an activity I enjoyed very much, and so I needed him to remain aloof for as long as possible.

His kindness made reality clash with fantasy. I was a lioness in my head and he was treating me like a pussy 😢. Of course I was showing him my fangs! Oh, and I was a commitment fob too!

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@Undine
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Posted by tiziani
A while back, several years back now actually, I came across something that saved my life and my mind

"Man's choice is between loving a woman or understanding her."

You can't do both.

And particularly when it comes to a Pisces, from the ones I have met from a couple of years back that have now gone onto to be like family to me, you will have to make that decision between one or the other.

One makes Pisces feel good and accepted, while the other has them swimming away.

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When my Pisces boyfriend told me "You are sooooooo predictable!", I knew that was the beginning of the end of our relationship.