I have been dating this cancer man for 6 months, we pretty much live together spend every night together. WE have had issues in the past because he is unlike any man i have dated..In the past i would say things that bothered him and he would shut me out. He would always come back though as soon as i would send him a text apologizing. But today is diffrent, last night i mentioned something as joke that he wanted to try some sexual positions with someone other than me, it was honesly a joke but he didnt think so because before he said that he senced something was wrong but it wasnt i was on meds for something...so to make a long story shot, this morning i can see something was wrong in the way he kissed me so, when he left i sent him a text saying i think what i meantioned last night bothered you and i am sorry, i didnt mean it and i wasnt myself being on meds for dizziness. This was 6 hours ago and no work and usually he will text me on his breaks.
My question is do i leave him alone to think or keep apologizing and texting him to show i care and miss him?, i already 2 times this morning to apologize but i guess it wasnt enough..My thought is he might be fed up and not want to be with me, if he did would he just tell me or would he ignore me.
What else can you do? You apologized and tried to make it right. Just leave him alone and let him stew and lick his wounds. The silent treatment might be his way of "punishing" you. Wait and see how he acts tonight.
Lol... I wouldn't say pet.... It is a manipulation tactic to avoid harsh communication/confrontation... it is to also see how you are going to react when situations like these arise, trying to avoid the worst of situations... what he's doing is reflecting your mistake in what you said to him... I agree on waiting until he responds... Saying similar things like this in the future will lead to losing him and the relationship.
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My question is do i leave him alone to think or keep apologizing and texting him to show i care and miss him?, i already 2 times this morning to apologize but i guess it wasnt enough..My thought is he might be fed up and not want to be with me, if he did would he just tell me or would he ignore me.