Secret Relationship

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by daenerys on Sunday, May 26, 2013 and has 8 replies.

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@daenerys
13 Years

Recently I got into a casual relationship with a Cancer guy. We act a lot like friends, talk about many things and generally have fun with each other.
He is very sexual as well, which is something that I adore, but when it comes to romance and emotions he is kind of reserved. We only hang out by ourselves, never with friends. He says that he wants to keep our relationship secret because he doesn't want people to know about his private life too much. As far as I know, he hasn't told anyone about us, even his friends. I suppose that he is just cautious and has a fear of commitment. Is this a common thing for Cancers?
I am a Sagittarius with ascendant Libra.

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@AriesIntrovert16
13 Years1,000+ Posts

What's your moon sign? Maybe it's common for cancer men to be like this. I have a cancer neice and she loves people to know she's taken by someone. How long have you been together? Are you actually official? I think it's okay for now but after a few months I'd want to be introduced to the family..

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@daenerys
13 Years

My lunar sign is Leo, his is Scorpio. It appears that he is mysterious and private.
I hope that this is the only reason for is behavior.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Well, how long have yall been seeing each other? Maybe he wants to make sure its gonna work out so he doesn't have to answer a lot of questions later if it doesn't.

If it goes on for a few months, that's a red flag in my opinion. Cancers are usually about showing off they have someone.

I suggest you find out the reason. Is he seeing someone else too? Does he just want booty calls? Is it what I suggested before? My advice is to proceed with caution.

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@Cbo
13 YearsCancer

1- he got a girl
2- he had a ex cheat on him with his friend
3- he don't want a relationship with you

What secret you ever hear that is good news?