How to get a scorpio man to forgive you (?

My friend and I have been friends for years long distance. He's a scorpio and i'm a pisces. We stay in touch ever so often have stayed good friends. We used to date when were younger like in middle school. He wasn't a really good boyfriend in fact he cheated on me. I haven't seen him in person for years other than skype. Anyways this past spring we've started up talking again. Starting summer we've been literally talking everyday for hours on end over the phone. Although we've been getting along great over the phone we have tendency into getting into arguments about things. We're not the same people we used to be, or atleast Im not. Realistically hes not even the type of guy I'd want to date or be friends with. Some of things that come out of his mouth I find kind of offensive, sometimes sexist, arrogant, shallow and egotistical. We just have different perspectives on things. But i'm always one to get along, go with flow, and he's been there for me and me for him this past summer (via phone). Anyways the other day we got to another fight for whatever reason. He seemed very agitated and intent on arguing over something I thought was meaningless. So eventually I just hung up. This has happened before but I usually call him back a few hours later. This time well its been about 5 days. This is the first time in 3 months we've gone this long without talking. I still think the argument was ridiculous but not a big deal, i got over it. But honestly I felt like I needed some space because sometimes hes really hard to deal with and I haven't gotten much done either since we've been on the phone all summer. I do feel bad though because I know as a scorpio he takes things really hard and is probably mad at me.He always been a bit flirtatious but I have always been intent on staying friends, best friends even. I don't think he actually likes me in romantic sense but just likes to flirt. I know he can be manipulative so I never take it seriously except for the part when he wants friends w/ benefits. Even though I disagree with how he view things, I don't want to lose him as a friend. Anyways (again sorry)....

I just called him a few minutes ago and he answered but didn't say anything and hung up. I called again and it went straight to voicemail. All I can do is text or leave a voicemail. Ill doubt that he'll call me back and wouldn't be surprised. What should I say/do. Should I just take some space and move on? Is it worth it?

Hi! My initial thought when I read he picked up not saying anything and hanging up was him paying you back for hanging up on him (or at least that's how I read your hanging up, you hung up on him?) and him 'having the last word'. They do have feelings that run deep, and on the contrary they can also manipulate situations in order to be on top and remain in control of situations. However you proceed depends on how important this relationship is to you. Either way, I would write a heartfelt letter laying out your thoughts, but in a kind manner and with no finger pointing. After that, I would leave it alone and him alone unless and until you hear from him. You tried, ya know?

i've had a similar thing with scorpio males over the years with both friendships and romantic encounters. constant communication....big/small disagreement.....silence.

being a scorp too, i'm inclined to go silent also but on a couple of occasions, i have reached out only to be completely ignored which was particularly hard cos i spilled my guts in my communication.

so i would urge you not to do this. perhaps write something but don't send it. in fact, i write things down on paper and then i burn it cos it's similar to a jewish healing practice i was brought up with and a way for me to get closure for myself....as it's rarely offered by the other party in my experience.

it doesn't really matter what the fight was about. it's usually a symptom of something else that is wrong. you don't sound overly attached to this man on a romantic level and so it shouldn't be hard for you to let go although i appreciate, letting go of anything is a tough process.