How to get Taurean male friend be interested again

Hi,

This taurean male is my friend or may be a some more and we have been watsapping and texting ae really lot. We enjoyed interacting etc and the things he said clearly brought it out that he likes me a lot.. and its redundant to say that i too did.
He stays in a diffent city.. We are both married and hav nice spouses.. Just that we liked each other a lot and interacted and it was platonic.. He was from my previous organisation.

He started reacting in a lil detatched way after a while and was late in calling, replied to my messages very late,, was away for a day or so etc etc..It was almost like he was playing mind games

I got pissed off one day after waiting in FB chat for 30 mins and texted him that 'i am sorry, i think there is a problem as i keep waiting for you like a fool. I cant do it all the time and dont want to talk to him atall'

Post this i blocked him on wats app..but in my heart of hearts kept hoping that he would call/ text me.. he diwd not..

I kept checking wats app that he was checking the chat room every now and then as wats app leaves a time stamp. However two days later i unblocked him .. He still has not called, texted or watsapped..

Donno really wats going on.. its really platoninc and keep feeling very sad.. I dont really get so mentally attached to anyone. but this guy was so different and i dont know why i like him so much .. How do I win him back. I am a Libran girl ..Pls help. 😢

You wait it out. I know... I know... patience is probably not really one of your stronger points... but you MUST be patient. Stop contacting him... stop leaving footprints everywhere that you have been web-stalking him... and just wait. You cannot possibly know the reason or reasons for him having been silent as of late... maybe he just needs a little space for the moment... but that moment will pass... I promise.

hey thanks,, U know.. its great that u did not interpret it wrong .. he is just a good frnd and so compatible to my views etc.. we just like talking to each other.. he only started it by pinging me, complimenting mea etc.. we met in a workshop before and contacted each other for work related stuff for a year .. this was before we got closer in watsapp as frnds..


His bday is on 9th may.. should i wish him or not . r u a taurean too,,, some say taureans need to be approached first inorder to fix things?

I know nothing of your situation... who am I to judge. I just know that when one asks for space... directly or indirectly... you can only give them space. Yes... I am a Taurus too... and I see no reason you cannot acknowledge his birthday... but don't expect a response... don't ask any questions when doing so... and just wish him the best. As the saying goes... 'it is the thought that counts'. He may not answer... but he will come back around... and you MUST let him come back around on his own. Got it ? Don't fret... just relax... do YOUR thing... and wait contently.
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Umm thanks.. i liked talking to him since he had helped me with my work related queries and our ideas matched(we both worked in the same domain, he was with the HQ and i was in a state office and had met last year in a workshop),,
I dont actually have anything to fret since he was just a frnd ..he is just about coupl of years older ,, he is 30 ...

yES I AM not contacting him anyways ...but he has been checking my wats app inbox. i saw that when he was blocked.. he cant see my foot prints .. and am not webstalking him in anyway...

Thanks.. i think will just send him a message on his bday ..