I need to vent to someone who can understand

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lammal23
@lammal23
17 YearsAquarius

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OMFG!!! I seriously can't take this crap anymore!!!!! *Runs around like a mad woman*

Ok, this is just a message to rant about my effin' retarded my scorpio ex. I'm not trying to hate on all scorpios, because really... I've known some awesome scorpios. BUT OMG... I try to have a calm and mature conversation with him about how "we aren't compatible AT ALL." And then he has to throw in all these freaking guilt trips. Examples:

"All this time you kept telling me how I have to learn to accept you for who you are, when in fact it was you that didn't accept me." (Hell-to-the-effin-o!!!!! Do you honestly think I'm going to accept someone who tries to change me, make me run a marathon to prove I care, and then STILL pick out the bad in everything?)

"When we first met I asked you if you would be able to stick through the thick and thin. My kids adore and love you and don't you think it hurts them to lose someone they care about?" (Yeah, so why the hell did you try to run me away with all this insecurity, jelious, possessive, controlling, immature bullshit... if you were trying to maintain a happy environment for your kids. BULLSHIT! And you know what? I'd rather have went to see the kids than see him)

"When you first met me I was going through a hard time. You saw me at my worst and that is all you got to know. Now, your just going to give up like that when you don't even know the real me." (Well you know what? Is it my damn fault you decided to continue stabbing me with your damn stinger? If you honestly want to keep a healthy balanced relationship, you don't keep focusing on the problems.)

UGHHHH I can't stand drama!!! Granted, I do feel like crap because I hate giving up, but I'm not going to stay in something that makes me feel miserable. I was understanding, loving, giving.. and it didn't work. Then.. when I decide to give up and move on. Suddenly I am the bad person. Wtf? How does that happen?
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Lunamistress
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17 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

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No you are not a bad person, you guys are just not compatible. I know exactly how you feel lammal23. the Scorp exs I knew can be such babies when you break up with them. Its like you trying to be civilized to talk things out but they just ain't on the same channel, go figure

my ex scorp used to do that to me, a couple of times it worked then i completely ignored him after he use the same tricks again and again.
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lammal23
@lammal23
17 YearsAquarius

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lol If more women were to follow my lead there would probably be more violent men in the world. If there is one thing that I've learned.. it's that very few people can break up on good terms anymore. It's like they strive to find a reason to be pissed off at the other person so it's easier to move on. I wish more people could just realize, "hey we aren't compatible as partners, but we can make awesome friends" and just be okay with that.